Some gay men feel unattractive and stggle wh eatg disorrs, which tak s toll on mental and physil health.
Contents:
- GAY MEN AND BODY IMAGE: WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW
- BODY DYSMORPHIA CONTU TO BE A SER ISSUE AMONG GAY MEN
- SPEAKG OUT: MCLE DYSMORPHIA THE GAY COMMUNY
- GAY MEN AND BODY DISSATISFACTN
- GAY AND BISEXUAL MEN'S HEALTH ISSU
GAY MEN AND BODY IMAGE: WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW
Gay men experience eatg disorrs and body dysmorphia more than any other populatn except for heterosexual women. Learn more about why this post. * gay male body dysmorphia *
A notable and pervasive issue wh a more physil foc has started to plague the gay male muny. It’s no secret that many gay men tend to be obssed wh their bodi.
Gay men even tegorize each other based on physil appearance by g words like twk, otter or bear. And spe this diverse classifitn based on physil characteristics, there is an ial that most gay men try to achieve. There are many theori that attempt to expla gay men’s plited relatnship wh their bodi, but perhaps the most viable is that of Alan Downs.
In his book, The Velvet Rage, he discs the role that shame-based trma plays how gay men nstct their sense of self. Beg raised a i where you’re told you don’t measure up to the mascule ial sets most young gay boys up to feel they need to overpensate to hold onto other people’s affectns. Many gay men have attempted to hold onto those affectns through efforts to perfect their bodi.
BODY DYSMORPHIA CONTU TO BE A SER ISSUE AMONG GAY MEN
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In the qut to atta acceptance, the gay man’s bt strategy is attag the mascule body ial. By workg out tirelsly and reapg the sexual attentn that om such tense workouts, the gay man n temporarily assuage the root anxiety and fear he rri about beg rejected.
The same perfectnistic, high achievg temperament that helps a gay man achieve weight loss and physique goals also driv eatg disorrs and BDD.
Stggl abound for gay men that don’t f the mascule ial, cludg higher weight men and those that suffer om bge eatg disorr and/or pulsive overeatg. In his article “It Gets Better, Unls You’re Fat,” Buzzfeed wrer Louis Pezman talks openly about the pa of beg an overweight gay man who stggl to measure up to the gay physil ial:.
SPEAKG OUT: MCLE DYSMORPHIA THE GAY COMMUNY
“The tth is, the gay muny isn’t terted embracg overweight people bee we’re a blemish on the image of perfectn. And much the same way progrsiv as a whole n get away wh ignorg anti-fat bigotry, gay men never bother examg the way they treat their overweight brothers.
Gay men who buy to this drive for the perfect body to hi their securi are actually hurtg themselv and others who don’t measure up.
For many gay men, short-circus the abily to addrs the root problem and to procs emotn eply and thentilly. For a subset of others, specifilly those geilly predisposed to eatg disorrs, the tirels pursu of the ial gay physique may evolve to a life-disptg (and at tim life-threateng) eatg disorr. For clicians workg wh gay patients, ’s important to nsir this meangful psychosexual ntext when explorg eatg, exercise and body image ncerns.
GAY MEN AND BODY DISSATISFACTN
They ternalize the feelgs and take out on their bodi, attemptg to wield ntrol through weight loss and/or buildg up mcle mass (hence the pervasivens of BDD the gay muny). Be wary of attempts to jtify BDD and/or expla away the body dysmorphia the gay muny.
GAY AND BISEXUAL MEN'S HEALTH ISSU
Make no mistake about what the te purpose is—gay men pay for gym memberships and personal traers drov to offset the naggg shame gremls that lurk their psych.
Ratnalizg exemplifi the hedged emotnal procsg that most gay men partake . But shame is what keeps the high rat of eatg disorrs, body dysmorphia and prsn alive and well the gay muny, and this shame is tellg li. Clicians n thoughtfully and passnately explore the li gay patients have accepted orr to avoid lookg at their real vulnerabili.