Contents:
- THK YOU ARE GAY? IT SHOWS YOUR EY, ACRDG TO STUDY
- ‘IT’S ONLY GAY IF YOU MAKE EYE NTACT’
- IS GAY IF YOU DON'T MAKE EYE NTACT?
- IT'S ONLY GAY IF YOU MAKE EYE CONTACT
THK YOU ARE GAY? IT SHOWS YOUR EY, ACRDG TO STUDY
I will attempt to do the same today on a subject jt as important as any technique or ncept the sport – homosexualy Jiu Jsu. “It’s Only Gay if You Make Eye Contact”.
Homosexualy Jiu Jsu is somethg that should not be discsed. It go beyond jt homosexualy Jiu Jsu, also has to do wh heterosexual relatns. BJJ people are que homophobic, as I have e to believe durg my 12-year volvement the sport, even if they don’t mean negatively and sultgly.
People have said to me directly or to others that they feel gy about sharg their homosexualy Jiu Jsu circl, particularly after beg accepted as “one of the boys/girls” the locker room culture. Of urse, geography and mographics play a role this, as some parts of the world are still strongly opposed to homosexualy Jiu Jsu and every other aspect of life.
‘IT’S ONLY GAY IF YOU MAKE EYE NTACT’
There have been exampl given by stunts where they’ve heard threats like “I’ll never let go of a submissn on a gay person” and even more gome stuff that I won’t re to repeat.
IS GAY IF YOU DON'T MAKE EYE NTACT?
The blame for open, or even worse, hidn homophobia Jiu Jsu gyms li strictly wh ach.
Homosexualy Jiu Jsu: Roll Out! In most s I’ve heard of or asked gay iends and fellow grapplers about, the gym is the last place they e out to, or as an LGBT Facebook group says : roll out to. I am the first to say we mt be dog somethg wrong on a global sle here terms of acceptg homosexualy Jiu Jsu for what is – sexualy, which we all have and value que a lot.
IT'S ONLY GAY IF YOU MAKE EYE CONTACT
In almost every se where people eher ed a Jiu Jsu gym openly gay or me out, later on, they ran to a very supportive environment.
While I salute projects like the Jiu Jsu school led by the first openly gay Brazilian uple, Ana “Baby” Vieira and Luanna Alzuguir, Boynton Beach, I am ashamed that the sport I love so much needs actns like this to nvey a simple msage that, herently, we all agree on – you’re safe on the mats no matter who you are.
Jiu Jsu is the real epome of the oxymoron syndrome, and I am not jt sayg terms of homosexualy Jiu Jsu. In terms of homosexualy Jiu Jsu, the tabl are ually turned.