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However, when you buy somethg through our retail lks, we may earn an affiliate missn.</p></div></div></div><div data-ttid="ArticlePageChunks" class="ArticlePageChunks-fLyCVG eOdfIs"><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layoutntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa edvONh body bodyntaer articlebody" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="bodyner-ntaer"><p>Introducg kk to your sex life is a great way to keep feelg h and excg, and kky sex toys n help you do exactly that. In our post-<em>Fifty Shas of Grey</em> world, more people than ever are cur about mixg pa and pleasure. But as anyone who’s ever pesed the kky acutrements at a well-stocked sex shop n tell you, the vast variety of kk toys and tools n be timidatg for a newbie. (And even sometim for a non-newbie—that's kd of the whole pot!) How n you tell which products are fun, hot, and safe? And how n you potentially get your partner on board wh your sire to explore?</p><p>The answers to the qutns aren’t as plex as they might seem. If done a way that is risk-aware, nsensual, and thoughtfully negotiated (got your safe word picked out?), g kky toys together n be not only safe, but sensatnal. Here’s a ndown on kk toys: how to raise the topic, how to shop for them, and how to e them—and, of urse, the bt kky sex toys to buy.</p><hr/><h2>The Bt Kky Sex Toys, at a Glance</h2><p>The mood is set, your partner is ready (and nsentg), and you're rarg to go. Dive right to the bt kky sex toys right here, right now.</p><div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--article-mid-ntent" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-unslot nsumer-marketg-unslot--article-mid-ntent nsumer-marketg-un__slot---ntent"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><ul><li><strong>The Bt Bondage Collar</strong>: <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored" target="_blank">Kookie Bondage Collar</a>, $69</li><li><strong>The Bt Strap-On Harns</strong>: <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored" target="_blank">Aslan Leather Jaguar</a>, $105</li><li><strong>The Bt Nipple Clamps</strong>: <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored" target="_blank">CalExotics Nipple Play Crystal Cha Nipple Clamps</a>, $21</li><li><strong>The Bt Vibratg Nipple Clamps</strong>: <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored" target="_blank">Lovense Gemi</a>, $99</li><li><strong>The Bt Bldfold</strong>: <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored" target="_blank">Nidra Deep Rt Eye Mask</a>, $18</li><li><strong>The Bt Handcuffs</strong>: <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored" target="_blank">Unbound Cuffi</a>, $19</li><li><strong>The Bt Full-Body Bondage Set</strong>: <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored" target="_blank">Sportsheets Unr-The-Bed Rtrats System</a>, $70</li><li><strong>The Bt Bondage Rope</strong>: <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored" target="_blank">Blh Temptasia Bondage Rope</a>, $26</li><li><strong>The Bt Ball Gag</strong>: <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored" target="_blank">Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Ball Gag Trag System</a>, $24</li><li><strong>The Bt Paddle</strong>: <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored" target="_blank">Sportsheets Safon Pg Pong Paddle</a>, $24</li><li><strong>The Bt Crop</strong>: <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored" target="_blank">Crimson Heart Crop</a>, $26</li><li><strong>The Bt Wartenberg Wheel</strong>: <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored" target="_blank">CalExotics Sndal Pleasure Wheel</a>, $20</li><li><strong>The Bt Wax Play Candl</strong>: <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored" target="_blank">Sportsheets Drip Pillar Candl</a>, $15</li></ul><hr/><h2>How to brg up kky toys wh your partner</h2><p>While you might be tempted to surprise your partner wh a brand-new paddle or pair of <a href=" target="_blank">nipple clamps</a> when you’re the mood to spice thgs up, often go more smoothly if you open up a dialogue about kk <em>before</em> buyg a non-refundable toy your partner might not even like. “Outsi the bedroom, when you’re not about to have sex, have a s-down nversatn,” suggts <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Zachary Zane</a>, a sex expert, LGBTQ+ activist, and ambassador for sex toy brand <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored" target="_blank">Lovehoney</a>.</p><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><p>Framg the nversatn as beg about makg your sex life more excg for <em>both</em> of you—not jt for yourself—is another approach that n work well. “You n ask your partner if they’d be open to tryg new thgs the bedroom,” Zane says. “Then ask them about their fantasi and sir. See if there’s anythg they’d like to try.” Onle tools such as <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">MojoUpgra</a> n be eful intifyg which kks you’re each cur about and which are fely <em>not</em> on the table.</p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layoutasi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB kNleGZ sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-boxprimary"><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="adslot adslot--rail" data-no-id="sbxbwf"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-unslot nsumer-marketg-unslot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><div class="StickyBoxPlaceholr-grPmrg dxAvXx"></div></div></div></div><div class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan full-bleed-ad row-mid-ntent-ad"><div class="StickyMidContentAdWrapper-fSBzwl drzyIa ad-stickymidntent"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--mid-ntent should-hold-space"><div class="adslot adslot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="cummjq"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layoutntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa edvONh body bodyntaer articlebody" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="bodyner-ntaer"><p>When to actually shoppg for toys, dog as a uple n help you both feel more fortable. “If you both have never tried kky toys, then makg a date of n be a great way to troduce them,” says sex tor and pleasure expert <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Javay Frye-Nekrasova</a>. “You n vis sex shops together or shop onle together.” This way, you’re ls likely to get somethg that your partner fds terrifyg rather than thrillg.</p><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad---ntent"><div class="adslot adslot---ntent" data-no-id="9wot"></div></div><p>Fally, although disclosg your kks n brg up a lot of ternalized shame and stigma for some people, remember that kk is actually que normal: <a href=" target="_blank">Studi timate</a> that about a third of the populatn has tried kk some form or another, and even more people have fantasized about . “Don’t preface [your requt] wh sayg, ‘This is so crazy, and I’m so weird.’ Jt nfintly say what you’d like to try and what you’re to,” Zane suggts. “And if they’re not to , don’t feel rejected. Don’t try to change their md. Gracefully accept their boundary and try to fd a middle ground of somethg you’d both be terted explorg.” This might be easier said than done, but remember that there are plenty of kks you n explore solo—such as sensatn play, g nipple clamps, and some typ of rope bondage—if your partner’s not to , or if you don’t have (or don’t want) a partner.</p><h2>Typ of kky toys</h2><p>By s very nature, there are almost fe ways to do kk – and so there’s an almost fe variety of toys out there that n be ed kky ways, om handma leather cuffs to woon spoons to electrostimulatn wands. But broadly speakg, some of the ma typ of kk toys clu:</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-1 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p><strong>Impact implements:</strong> “Impact play” is a term for all kk activi that volve htg somebody wh somethg. This n clu spankg, floggg, slappg, and more. Implements ma for impact play, such as paddl and floggers, make easier to dole out more pa for longer whout hurtg your hand. Pl, they provi different sensatns than a hand n. When shoppg for impact toys, make sure you get somethg that has no sharp edg or raised seams, wh a handle you’ll be able to hold onto securely.</p><p><strong>Bondage toys:</strong> Lots of people fd excg to be rtraed, so there are plenty of products ma for exactly that purpose. Wrist and ankle cuffs are some of the most mon, but there are also thigh cuffs, llars, bondage tape, bondage rope, and more. The most important thg to look for bondage toys is a f that’s secure but not <em>too</em> tight – you should always leave enough slack that you’re able to f at least two fgers between your sk and the rtrat, to prevent cuttg off circulatn.</p><p><strong>Sensatn play toys:</strong> The term “sensatn play” enpass pa, pleasure, and more. Some of the simplt sensatn-play tools n be found your own home— n be surprisgly hot to “torture” someone by draggg an ice cube over their sk, for stance, or to pch someone’s sk wh clothps—but there are also purpose-specific kk toys available if you’re to this type of play. Wartenberg wheels and feather ticklers are mon exampl.</p><hr/><h2>The Bt Bondage Collar: Kookie Bondage Collar</h2><div data-ttid="ProductEmbedWrapper" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd ProductEmbedWrapper-dbbBkO hGAxXn iMxiHl product-embed product-embed--image-top product-embed--no-bottom-paddg" data-em="{"dangeroHed":"Kookie Bondage Collar","brand":{"name":""},"id":"6410d86ba142b5c0d480420b","offers":[{"offerUrl":"69","currency":"USD","purchaseUri":"]}"><a tabx="-1" aria-hidn="te" data-offer-retailer="Babeland" data-offer-url=" class="external-lk BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM ProductEmbedImageLk-dHxNy iUEiRd fhQbnq dhCnat bgZAlB" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW jvZaPI rponsive-asset ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW rponsive-image"><img alt="" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-imageimage" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w, 1280w" siz="100vw"/></picture></span></a><div class="ProductEmbedContent-kztPgY MfQJV product-embedntent"><div class="ProductEmbedHedWrapper-eVzhMb hxRHU"><div id="6410d86ba142b5c0d480420b" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ProductEmbedHed-kvwLfM iUEiRd kRojnM kfaPVZ">Kookie Bondage Collar</div></div><div class="ProductOfferListWrapper-bqpHEj cvoxld product-offer-list ProductEmbedCTA-iEJcDb fgzlqu product-embedcta"><div class="ProductOfferWrapper-dpcYKd fkLcdW product-offer-listoffer product-offer"><div class="ProductOfferCtaBlock-bduvOV erIhdg product-offer__cta-block" id="button_label_$69atBabeland"><a href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank" aria-scribedby="6410d86ba142b5c0d480420b" aria-label="$69 at Babeland" data-buy-button="te" data-offer-retailer="Babeland" data-offer-url=" class="BaseButton-bLlsy ButtonWrapper-xCepQ AoBt dkkzFE button button--primary-pair product-offerbuy-button" data-event-click="{"element":"Button","outgogURL":"" data-ttid="Button" type=""><span class="ButtonLabel-cjAuJN cRUqbm buttonlabel"><span>$69</span> at Babeland</span></a></div></div></div></div></div><p><strong>Material:</strong> Leather and metal<br/><strong>How to e:</strong> Fasten the llar around your neck (or your partner’s), leavg two fgers’ worth of space between the leather and your sk for safety’s sake. 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Gently tuggg on someone's llar will certaly get their attentn, and the D-rgs on this one n be attached to other bondage toys, like cuffs, wh the help of some rope or a cha nnector. Pl, they make for a cute fashn accsory if you're to goth/punk/kky vib.</p><h2>The Bt Strap-On Harns: Aslan Leather Jaguar</h2><div data-ttid="ProductEmbedWrapper" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd ProductEmbedWrapper-dbbBkO hGAxXn iMxiHl product-embed product-embed--image-top product-embed--no-bottom-paddg" data-em="{"dangeroHed":"Aslan Leather Jaguar","brand":{"name":""},"id":"6410d86a58e14afab249e0","offers":[{"offerUrl":"105","currency":"USD","purchaseUri":"]}"><a tabx="-1" aria-hidn="te" data-offer-retailer="SheVibe" data-offer-url=" class="external-lk BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM ProductEmbedImageLk-dHxNy iUEiRd fhQbnq dhCnat bgZAlB" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW jvZaPI rponsive-asset ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW rponsive-image"><img alt="" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-imageimage" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w, 1280w" siz="100vw"/></picture></span></a><div class="ProductEmbedContent-kztPgY MfQJV product-embedntent"><div class="ProductEmbedHedWrapper-eVzhMb hxRHU"><div id="6410d86a58e14afab249e0" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ProductEmbedHed-kvwLfM iUEiRd kRojnM kfaPVZ">Aslan Leather Jaguar</div></div><div class="ProductOfferListWrapper-bqpHEj cvoxld product-offer-list ProductEmbedCTA-iEJcDb fgzlqu product-embedcta"><div class="ProductOfferWrapper-dpcYKd fkLcdW product-offer-listoffer product-offer"><div class="ProductOfferCtaBlock-bduvOV erIhdg product-offer__cta-block" id="button_label_$105atSheVibe"><a href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank" aria-scribedby="6410d86a58e14afab249e0" aria-label="$105 at SheVibe" data-buy-button="te" data-offer-retailer="SheVibe" data-offer-url=" class="BaseButton-bLlsy ButtonWrapper-xCepQ AoBt dkkzFE button button--primary-pair product-offerbuy-button" data-event-click="{"element":"Button","outgogURL":"" data-ttid="Button" type=""><span class="ButtonLabel-cjAuJN cRUqbm buttonlabel"><span>$105</span> at SheVibe</span></a></div></div></div></div></div><p><strong>Material:</strong> Leather and brass<br/><strong>How to e:</strong> Adjt the straps to f your hips and butt securely (but not too tightly). Slip your dildo of choice through the harns’s O-rg om behd. When shoppg for dildos, keep md that only toys wh a flared base are harns-patible.</p><p>A mon problem wh strap-on harns is that the sturdy on don't tend to be all that sexy-lookg, and vice-versa, but this handma leather harns is both. Its O-rg n be swapped out for different siz, so you n e wh dildos of a variety of dimensns. It jt might be the perfect harns, pecially for anyone who appreciat the classic black leather athetic.</p><h2>The Bt Nipple Clamps: CalExotics Nipple Play Crystal Cha Nipple Clamps</h2><div data-ttid="ProductEmbedWrapper" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd ProductEmbedWrapper-dbbBkO hGAxXn iMxiHl product-embed product-embed--image-top product-embed--no-bottom-paddg" data-em="{"dangeroHed":"CalExotics Nipple Play crystal cha nipple clamps","brand":{"name":""},"id":"6239e1c232b887208675eb","offers":[{"offerUrl":"20","currency":"USD","purchaseUri":"]}"><a tabx="-1" aria-hidn="te" data-offer-retailer="SheVibe" data-offer-url=" class="external-lk BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM ProductEmbedImageLk-dHxNy iUEiRd fhQbnq dhCnat bgZAlB" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW jvZaPI rponsive-asset ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW rponsive-image"><img alt="" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-imageimage" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w, 1280w" siz="100vw"/></picture></span></a><div class="ProductEmbedContent-kztPgY MfQJV product-embedntent"><div class="ProductEmbedHedWrapper-eVzhMb hxRHU"><div id="6239e1c232b887208675eb" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ProductEmbedHed-kvwLfM iUEiRd kRojnM kfaPVZ">CalExotics Nipple Play crystal cha nipple clamps</div></div><div class="ProductOfferListWrapper-bqpHEj cvoxld product-offer-list ProductEmbedCTA-iEJcDb fgzlqu product-embedcta"><div class="ProductOfferWrapper-dpcYKd fkLcdW product-offer-listoffer product-offer"><div class="ProductOfferCtaBlock-bduvOV erIhdg product-offer__cta-block" id="button_label_$20atSheVibe"><a href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank" aria-scribedby="6239e1c232b887208675eb" aria-label="$20 at SheVibe" data-buy-button="te" data-offer-retailer="SheVibe" data-offer-url=" class="BaseButton-bLlsy ButtonWrapper-xCepQ AoBt dkkzFE button button--primary-pair product-offerbuy-button" data-event-click="{"element":"Button","outgogURL":"" data-ttid="Button" type=""><span class="ButtonLabel-cjAuJN cRUqbm buttonlabel"><span>$20</span> at SheVibe</span></a></div></div></div></div></div><p><strong>Material:</strong> Siline and iron<br/><strong>How to e:</strong> Use the ltle screws on the si of each clamp to adjt them to a loose settg to beg wh (you n always dial up the pa later). Clamp one onto each nipple, though you may need to pull your nipple tt wh one hand while dog this orr to get a good grip. Don’t leave clamps on for longer than about 15 mut at a time, and take them off if you feel numbns or tglg.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-2 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>The clamps are adjtable, so you n make them looser or tighter pendg on your pa tolerance. Try tuggg on the cha perdilly durg sex for a burst of pa.</p><h2>The Bt Vibratg Nipple Clamps: Lovense Gemi</h2><div data-ttid="ProductEmbedWrapper" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd ProductEmbedWrapper-dbbBkO hGAxXn iMxiHl product-embed product-embed--image-top product-embed--no-bottom-paddg" data-em="{"dangeroHed":"Lovense Gemi","brand":{"name":""},"id":"6410d86ad04ccdacc67fcc","offers":[{"offerUrl":"99","currency":"USD","purchaseUri":"]}"><a tabx="-1" aria-hidn="te" data-offer-retailer="SheVibe" data-offer-url=" class="external-lk BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM ProductEmbedImageLk-dHxNy iUEiRd fhQbnq dhCnat bgZAlB" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW jvZaPI rponsive-asset ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW rponsive-image"><img alt="" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-imageimage" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w, 1280w" siz="100vw"/></picture></span></a><div class="ProductEmbedContent-kztPgY MfQJV product-embedntent"><div class="ProductEmbedHedWrapper-eVzhMb hxRHU"><div id="6410d86ad04ccdacc67fcc" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ProductEmbedHed-kvwLfM iUEiRd kRojnM kfaPVZ">Lovense Gemi</div></div><div class="ProductOfferListWrapper-bqpHEj cvoxld product-offer-list ProductEmbedCTA-iEJcDb fgzlqu product-embedcta"><div class="ProductOfferWrapper-dpcYKd fkLcdW product-offer-listoffer product-offer"><div class="ProductOfferCtaBlock-bduvOV erIhdg product-offer__cta-block" id="button_label_$99atSheVibe"><a href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank" aria-scribedby="6410d86ad04ccdacc67fcc" aria-label="$99 at SheVibe" data-buy-button="te" data-offer-retailer="SheVibe" data-offer-url=" class="BaseButton-bLlsy ButtonWrapper-xCepQ AoBt dkkzFE button button--primary-pair product-offerbuy-button" data-event-click="{"element":"Button","outgogURL":"" data-ttid="Button" type=""><span class="ButtonLabel-cjAuJN cRUqbm buttonlabel"><span>$99</span> at SheVibe</span></a></div></div></div></div></div><p><strong>Material:</strong> Siline and ABS plastic<br/><strong>How to e:</strong> Adjt the clamps to your sired tightns level (you may want to start on a loose settg if you’re a newbie) and put them on your nippl. You n ntrol the vibratns g the button on the toy, or nnect via Bluetooth to the Lovense app to ntrol (or to ve a long-distance partner to do so).</p><p>What's better than nipple clamps? Vibratg Bluetooth-patible nipple clamps, of urse. The n be ntrolled om nearby or far away g the Lovense app, so they're ial for gettg kky wh a long-distance partner.</p><h2>The Bt Bldfold: Nidra Deep Rt Eye Mask</h2><div data-ttid="ProductEmbedWrapper" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd ProductEmbedWrapper-dbbBkO hGAxXn iMxiHl product-embed product-embed--image-top product-embed--no-bottom-paddg" data-em="{"dangeroHed":"Nidra Deep Rt eye mask","brand":{"name":""},"id":"6239e1c2816197e93d93769e","offers":[{"offerUrl":"18","currency":"USD","purchaseUri":"]}"><a tabx="-1" aria-hidn="te" data-offer-retailer="Amazon" data-offer-url=" class="external-lk BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM ProductEmbedImageLk-dHxNy iUEiRd fhQbnq dhCnat bgZAlB" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW jvZaPI rponsive-asset ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW rponsive-image"><img alt="" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-imageimage" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w, 1280w" siz="100vw"/></picture></span></a><div class="ProductEmbedContent-kztPgY MfQJV product-embedntent"><div class="ProductEmbedHedWrapper-eVzhMb hxRHU"><div id="6239e1c2816197e93d93769e" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ProductEmbedHed-kvwLfM iUEiRd kRojnM kfaPVZ">Nidra Deep Rt eye mask</div></div><div class="ProductOfferListWrapper-bqpHEj cvoxld product-offer-list ProductEmbedCTA-iEJcDb fgzlqu product-embedcta"><div class="ProductOfferWrapper-dpcYKd fkLcdW product-offer-listoffer product-offer"><div class="ProductOfferCtaBlock-bduvOV erIhdg product-offer__cta-block" id="button_label_$18atAmazon"><a href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank" aria-scribedby="6239e1c2816197e93d93769e" aria-label="$18 at Amazon" data-buy-button="te" data-offer-retailer="Amazon" data-offer-url=" class="BaseButton-bLlsy ButtonWrapper-xCepQ AoBt dkkzFE button button--primary-pair product-offerbuy-button" data-event-click="{"element":"Button","outgogURL":"" data-ttid="Button" type=""><span class="ButtonLabel-cjAuJN cRUqbm buttonlabel"><span>$18</span> at Amazon</span></a></div></div></div></div></div><p><strong>Material:</strong> Polyter terlock fabric wh a th foam sert<br/><strong>How to e:</strong> Put the mask on and adjt s tightns g the Velcro strap the back.</p><p>This is technilly jt a sleep mask and was not signed for kky purpos, but ’s the bt bldfold out there nohels. The adjtable strap fs multiple head siz, the ntoured shape tly keeps light out, and the nvex eye cups are amazgly fy.</p><h2>The Bt Handcuffs: Unbound Cuffi</h2><div data-ttid="ProductEmbedWrapper" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd ProductEmbedWrapper-dbbBkO hGAxXn iMxiHl product-embed product-embed--image-top product-embed--no-bottom-paddg" data-em="{"dangeroHed":"Unbound Cuffi","brand":{"name":""},"id":"6239e1c291ff1b9b4ed50c4c","offers":[{"offerUrl":"19","currency":"USD","purchaseUri":"]}"><a tabx="-1" aria-hidn="te" data-offer-retailer="Unbound" data-offer-url=" class="external-lk BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM ProductEmbedImageLk-dHxNy iUEiRd fhQbnq dhCnat bgZAlB" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW jvZaPI rponsive-asset ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW rponsive-image"><img alt="" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-imageimage" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w, 1280w" siz="100vw"/></picture></span></a><div class="ProductEmbedContent-kztPgY MfQJV product-embedntent"><div class="ProductEmbedHedWrapper-eVzhMb hxRHU"><div id="6239e1c291ff1b9b4ed50c4c" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ProductEmbedHed-kvwLfM iUEiRd kRojnM kfaPVZ">Unbound Cuffi</div></div><div class="ProductOfferListWrapper-bqpHEj cvoxld product-offer-list ProductEmbedCTA-iEJcDb fgzlqu product-embedcta"><div class="ProductOfferWrapper-dpcYKd fkLcdW product-offer-listoffer product-offer"><div class="ProductOfferCtaBlock-bduvOV erIhdg product-offer__cta-block" id="button_label_$19atUnbound"><a href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank" aria-scribedby="6239e1c291ff1b9b4ed50c4c" aria-label="$19 at Unbound" data-buy-button="te" data-offer-retailer="Unbound" data-offer-url=" class="BaseButton-bLlsy ButtonWrapper-xCepQ AoBt dkkzFE button button--primary-pair product-offerbuy-button" data-event-click="{"element":"Button","outgogURL":"" data-ttid="Button" type=""><span class="ButtonLabel-cjAuJN cRUqbm buttonlabel"><span>$19</span> at Unbound</span></a></div></div></div></div></div><p><strong>Material</strong>: Siline<br/><strong>How to e</strong>: Slip the cuffs onto your wrists, and you’re good to go. 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If you need to be discreet, you n tuck the cuffs unr the mattrs between .</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-3 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>Cuffg someone’s wrists and ankl to the bed n make them feel thrillgly vulnerable, and this nifty bondage set will let you do jt that. Its long straps sli unrneath your mattrs, so the attached cuffs are always close at hand when you need them.</p><h2>The Bt Bondage Rope: Blh Temptasia Bondage Rope</h2><div data-ttid="ProductEmbedWrapper" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd ProductEmbedWrapper-dbbBkO hGAxXn iMxiHl product-embed product-embed--image-top product-embed--no-bottom-paddg" data-em="{"dangeroHed":"Blh Temptasia bondage rope","brand":{"name":""},"id":"6239e1c291ff1b9b4ed50c4f","offers":[{"offerUrl":"26","currency":"USD","purchaseUri":"]}"><a tabx="-1" aria-hidn="te" data-offer-retailer="SheVibe" data-offer-url=" class="external-lk BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM ProductEmbedImageLk-dHxNy iUEiRd fhQbnq dhCnat bgZAlB" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW jvZaPI rponsive-asset ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW rponsive-image"><img alt="" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-imageimage" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w, 1280w" siz="100vw"/></picture></span></a><div class="ProductEmbedContent-kztPgY MfQJV product-embedntent"><div class="ProductEmbedHedWrapper-eVzhMb hxRHU"><div id="6239e1c291ff1b9b4ed50c4f" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ProductEmbedHed-kvwLfM iUEiRd kRojnM kfaPVZ">Blh Temptasia bondage rope</div></div><div class="ProductOfferListWrapper-bqpHEj cvoxld product-offer-list ProductEmbedCTA-iEJcDb fgzlqu product-embedcta"><div class="ProductOfferWrapper-dpcYKd fkLcdW product-offer-listoffer product-offer"><div class="ProductOfferCtaBlock-bduvOV erIhdg product-offer__cta-block" id="button_label_$26atSheVibe"><a href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank" aria-scribedby="6239e1c291ff1b9b4ed50c4f" aria-label="$26 at SheVibe" data-buy-button="te" data-offer-retailer="SheVibe" data-offer-url=" class="BaseButton-bLlsy ButtonWrapper-xCepQ AoBt dkkzFE button button--primary-pair product-offerbuy-button" data-event-click="{"element":"Button","outgogURL":"" data-ttid="Button" type=""><span class="ButtonLabel-cjAuJN cRUqbm buttonlabel"><span>$26</span> at SheVibe</span></a></div></div></div></div></div><p><strong>Material:</strong> Cotton<br/><strong>How to e:</strong> Look up rope bondage tutorials onle or books (<em>Essence of Shibari</em> by Sh Nawakari is a good one) and try some ti out on yourself or a partner, takg re to leave two fgers’ worth of space between the rope and your sk. Always keep a pair of safety shears nearby when dog bondage, se you need to get out of quickly.</p><p>Rope bondage—an art form which origated Japan and is also known as <em>shibari</em> or <em>kbaku</em>—n be a eply timate, nnective way of gettg kky wh a partner. This rope is ma of soft tton for a smooth gli agast the sk. There are lots of great rope bondage books, vios, and class out there that you n learn om, but jt make sure to always keep a pair of safety shears nearby se of emergenci.</p><h2>The Bt Ball Gag: Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Ball Gag Trag System</h2><div data-ttid="ProductEmbedWrapper" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd ProductEmbedWrapper-dbbBkO hGAxXn iMxiHl product-embed product-embed--image-top product-embed--no-bottom-paddg" data-em="{"dangeroHed":"Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Ball Gag Trag System","brand":{"name":""},"id":"6239e1c231779380a07f93","offers":[{"offerUrl":"23","currency":"USD","purchaseUri":"]}"><a tabx="-1" aria-hidn="te" data-offer-retailer="SheVibe" data-offer-url=" class="external-lk BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM ProductEmbedImageLk-dHxNy iUEiRd fhQbnq dhCnat bgZAlB" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW jvZaPI rponsive-asset ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW rponsive-image"><img alt="" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-imageimage" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w, 1280w" siz="100vw"/></picture></span></a><div class="ProductEmbedContent-kztPgY MfQJV product-embedntent"><div class="ProductEmbedHedWrapper-eVzhMb hxRHU"><div id="6239e1c231779380a07f93" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ProductEmbedHed-kvwLfM iUEiRd kRojnM kfaPVZ">Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Ball Gag Trag System</div></div><div class="ProductOfferListWrapper-bqpHEj cvoxld product-offer-list ProductEmbedCTA-iEJcDb fgzlqu product-embedcta"><div class="ProductOfferWrapper-dpcYKd fkLcdW product-offer-listoffer product-offer"><div class="ProductOfferCtaBlock-bduvOV erIhdg product-offer__cta-block" id="button_label_$23atSheVibe"><a href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank" aria-scribedby="6239e1c231779380a07f93" aria-label="$23 at SheVibe" data-buy-button="te" data-offer-retailer="SheVibe" data-offer-url=" class="BaseButton-bLlsy ButtonWrapper-xCepQ AoBt dkkzFE button button--primary-pair product-offerbuy-button" data-event-click="{"element":"Button","outgogURL":"" data-ttid="Button" type=""><span class="ButtonLabel-cjAuJN cRUqbm buttonlabel"><span>$23</span> at SheVibe</span></a></div></div></div></div></div><p><strong>Material:</strong> Plastic and leather<br/><strong>How to e:</strong> Start wh the smallt gag; you n work your way up to the larger siz later, if you want to, once you’re more fortable havg a gag your mouth. Never leave a gagged person unattend, se they need assistance. When g a gag, ’s also a good ia to have a “safe-signal” rather than jt a safeword, so that, for example, if you shake your head back and forth three tim, your partner will know to take your gag out and stop the actn.</p><p>The helplsns and d embarrassment volved wearg a ball gag is hot for lots of people. This set is well-sued for begners: wh three differently-sized balls so you n fd your perfect f, and each one has hol to help you breathe more easily.</p><h2>The Bt Paddle: Sportsheets Safon Pg Pong Paddle</h2><div data-ttid="ProductEmbedWrapper" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd ProductEmbedWrapper-dbbBkO hGAxXn iMxiHl product-embed product-embed--image-top product-embed--no-bottom-paddg" data-em="{"dangeroHed":"Sportsheets Safon pg pong paddle","brand":{"name":""},"id":"6239e1c291ff1b9b4ed50c52","offers":[{"offerUrl":"24","currency":"USD","purchaseUri":"]}"><a tabx="-1" aria-hidn="te" data-offer-retailer="Babeland" data-offer-url=" class="external-lk BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM ProductEmbedImageLk-dHxNy iUEiRd fhQbnq dhCnat bgZAlB" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW jvZaPI rponsive-asset ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW rponsive-image"><img alt="" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-imageimage" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w, 1280w" siz="100vw"/></picture></span></a><div class="ProductEmbedContent-kztPgY MfQJV product-embedntent"><div class="ProductEmbedHedWrapper-eVzhMb hxRHU"><div id="6239e1c291ff1b9b4ed50c52" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ProductEmbedHed-kvwLfM iUEiRd kRojnM kfaPVZ">Sportsheets Safon pg pong paddle</div></div><div class="ProductOfferListWrapper-bqpHEj cvoxld product-offer-list ProductEmbedCTA-iEJcDb fgzlqu product-embedcta"><div class="ProductOfferWrapper-dpcYKd fkLcdW product-offer-listoffer product-offer"><div class="ProductOfferCtaBlock-bduvOV erIhdg product-offer__cta-block" id="button_label_$24atBabeland"><a href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank" aria-scribedby="6239e1c291ff1b9b4ed50c52" aria-label="$24 at Babeland" data-buy-button="te" data-offer-retailer="Babeland" data-offer-url=" class="BaseButton-bLlsy ButtonWrapper-xCepQ AoBt dkkzFE button button--primary-pair product-offerbuy-button" data-event-click="{"element":"Button","outgogURL":"" data-ttid="Button" type=""><span class="ButtonLabel-cjAuJN cRUqbm buttonlabel"><span>$24</span> at Babeland</span></a></div></div></div></div></div><p><strong>Material:</strong> Polyurethane fx leather<br/><strong>How to e:</strong> Unls your partner specifilly prefers otherwise, ’s a good ia to start any spankg ssn wh a warm-up. Lightly slap the area you’ll be htg for a uple mut or more, before movg on to harr hs. 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class="bodyner-ntaer"><p>Even if you’ve never tried impact play before, this fx-leather paddle is easy to wield, pecially wh the attached strap looped around your wrist. It n elic lots of different typ and tensi of pa, too, pendg on how you swg .</p><h2>The Bt Crop: Crimson Heart Crop</h2><div data-ttid="ProductEmbedWrapper" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd ProductEmbedWrapper-dbbBkO hGAxXn iMxiHl product-embed product-embed--image-top product-embed--no-bottom-paddg" data-em="{"dangeroHed":"Crimson heart crop","brand":{"name":""},"id":"6239e1c291ff1b9b4ed50c55","offers":[{"offerUrl":"26","currency":"USD","purchaseUri":"]}"><a tabx="-1" aria-hidn="te" data-offer-retailer="Babeland" data-offer-url=" class="external-lk BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM ProductEmbedImageLk-dHxNy iUEiRd fhQbnq dhCnat bgZAlB" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW jvZaPI rponsive-asset ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW rponsive-image"><img alt="" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-imageimage" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w, 1280w" siz="100vw"/></picture></span></a><div class="ProductEmbedContent-kztPgY MfQJV product-embedntent"><div class="ProductEmbedHedWrapper-eVzhMb hxRHU"><div id="6239e1c291ff1b9b4ed50c55" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ProductEmbedHed-kvwLfM iUEiRd kRojnM kfaPVZ">Crimson heart crop</div></div><div class="ProductOfferListWrapper-bqpHEj cvoxld product-offer-list ProductEmbedCTA-iEJcDb fgzlqu product-embedcta"><div class="ProductOfferWrapper-dpcYKd fkLcdW product-offer-listoffer product-offer"><div class="ProductOfferCtaBlock-bduvOV erIhdg product-offer__cta-block" id="button_label_$26atBabeland"><a href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank" aria-scribedby="6239e1c291ff1b9b4ed50c55" aria-label="$26 at Babeland" data-buy-button="te" data-offer-retailer="Babeland" data-offer-url=" class="BaseButton-bLlsy ButtonWrapper-xCepQ AoBt dkkzFE button button--primary-pair product-offerbuy-button" data-event-click="{"element":"Button","outgogURL":"" data-ttid="Button" type=""><span class="ButtonLabel-cjAuJN cRUqbm buttonlabel"><span>$26</span> at Babeland</span></a></div></div></div></div></div><p><strong>Material:</strong> Leather<br/><strong>How to e:</strong> Start wh a warm-up, as scribed above, before htg harr. Crops are gentle enough that they n ually be ed safely on areas like the cht, arms, and upper back, addn to classic spankg spots like the butt and thighs.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-4 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>If you’d prefer an impact implement that’s a b more lite or precise, this heart-shaped leather crop is a cute choice. Crops n feel great on pa aficnados’ butts, thighs, and other broad, flhy spots.</p><h2>The Bt Wartenberg Wheel: CalExotics Sndal Pleasure Wheel</h2><div data-ttid="ProductEmbedWrapper" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd ProductEmbedWrapper-dbbBkO hGAxXn iMxiHl product-embed product-embed--image-top product-embed--no-bottom-paddg" data-em="{"dangeroHed":"CalExotics Sndal Pleasure Wheel","brand":{"name":""},"id":"6239e1c231779380a07f96","offers":[{"offerUrl":"20","currency":"USD","purchaseUri":"]}"><a tabx="-1" aria-hidn="te" data-offer-retailer="SheVibe" data-offer-url=" class="external-lk BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM ProductEmbedImageLk-dHxNy iUEiRd fhQbnq dhCnat bgZAlB" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW jvZaPI rponsive-asset ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW rponsive-image"><img alt="" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-imageimage" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w, 1280w" siz="100vw"/></picture></span></a><div class="ProductEmbedContent-kztPgY MfQJV product-embedntent"><div class="ProductEmbedHedWrapper-eVzhMb hxRHU"><div id="6239e1c231779380a07f96" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ProductEmbedHed-kvwLfM iUEiRd kRojnM kfaPVZ">CalExotics Sndal Pleasure Wheel</div></div><div class="ProductOfferListWrapper-bqpHEj cvoxld product-offer-list ProductEmbedCTA-iEJcDb fgzlqu product-embedcta"><div class="ProductOfferWrapper-dpcYKd fkLcdW product-offer-listoffer product-offer"><div class="ProductOfferCtaBlock-bduvOV erIhdg product-offer__cta-block" id="button_label_$20atSheVibe"><a href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank" aria-scribedby="6239e1c231779380a07f96" aria-label="$20 at SheVibe" data-buy-button="te" data-offer-retailer="SheVibe" data-offer-url=" class="BaseButton-bLlsy ButtonWrapper-xCepQ AoBt dkkzFE button button--primary-pair product-offerbuy-button" data-event-click="{"element":"Button","outgogURL":"" data-ttid="Button" type=""><span class="ButtonLabel-cjAuJN cRUqbm buttonlabel"><span>$20</span> at SheVibe</span></a></div></div></div></div></div><p><strong>Material:</strong> Nickel-ee zc alloy<br/><strong>How to e:</strong> Lightly roll the spok of the wheel along your partner’s sk (or your own). Optnally, this toy pairs well wh a bldfold.</p><p>Although was origally veloped as a medil vice for ttg nerve reactns, today the Wartenberg wheel is also ed by horny people for sensatn play. Roll the spiky wheel across a partner’s sk to produce a prickly, tickly sensatn that many people enjoy.</p><h2>The Bt Wax Play Candl: Sportsheets Drip Pillar Candl</h2><div data-ttid="ProductEmbedWrapper" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd ProductEmbedWrapper-dbbBkO hGAxXn iMxiHl product-embed product-embed--image-top product-embed--no-bottom-paddg" data-em="{"dangeroHed":"Sportsheets Drip Pillar Candl","brand":{"name":""},"id":"6410d86b3add34e862c5ae5c","offers":[{"offerUrl":"15","currency":"USD","purchaseUri":"]}"><a tabx="-1" aria-hidn="te" data-offer-retailer="Babeland" data-offer-url=" class="external-lk BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM ProductEmbedImageLk-dHxNy iUEiRd fhQbnq dhCnat bgZAlB" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW jvZaPI rponsive-asset ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa ProductEmbedImage-cIdULW iluLcW rponsive-image"><img alt="" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-imageimage" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w, 1280w" siz="100vw"/></picture></span></a><div class="ProductEmbedContent-kztPgY MfQJV product-embedntent"><div class="ProductEmbedHedWrapper-eVzhMb hxRHU"><div id="6410d86b3add34e862c5ae5c" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ProductEmbedHed-kvwLfM iUEiRd kRojnM kfaPVZ">Sportsheets Drip Pillar Candl</div></div><div class="ProductOfferListWrapper-bqpHEj cvoxld product-offer-list ProductEmbedCTA-iEJcDb fgzlqu product-embedcta"><div class="ProductOfferWrapper-dpcYKd fkLcdW product-offer-listoffer product-offer"><div class="ProductOfferCtaBlock-bduvOV erIhdg product-offer__cta-block" id="button_label_$15atBabeland"><a href=" rel="sponsored noopener" target="_blank" aria-scribedby="6410d86b3add34e862c5ae5c" aria-label="$15 at Babeland" data-buy-button="te" data-offer-retailer="Babeland" data-offer-url=" class="BaseButton-bLlsy ButtonWrapper-xCepQ AoBt dkkzFE button button--primary-pair product-offerbuy-button" data-event-click="{"element":"Button","outgogURL":"" data-ttid="Button" type=""><span class="ButtonLabel-cjAuJN cRUqbm buttonlabel"><span>$15</span> at Babeland</span></a></div></div></div></div></div><p><strong>Material:</strong> Paraff wax<br/><strong>How to e:</strong> Lay down a towel or <a href=" target="_blank">sex blanket</a> before dog wax play, to protect your bed om any errant drips of wax. Light the ndle and wa for some wax to melt at the top, and then refully tilt the ndle to drip some wax onto your partner’s sk. It’s bt to start wh the ndle held fairly high—you n stand by the si of the bed to do this—bee the farther away is, the more time ’ll have to ol before htg sk. You n move lower if more pa is sired. Avoid lite areas like the face. When you’re done, gently scrape off all the wax g a butter knife, cred rd, or siar (you n roll up the towel or sex blanket until you n get to a garbage n to throw away all the bs of wax).</p><p>If you're to sadomasochism and art, wax play might be up your alley. It volv drippg hot wax on someone's sk, a way that's not jt kky but often visually betiful, too. 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She squeezed my hand, worried that she might n to a lleague or be harassed by a stranger. My wife is trans, and wasn’t out at the time, so she typilly only exprsed her thenticy the privacy of our home. That morng she wore a green skirt and light makp, bshg her hair all to one si. 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Jt as we got settled, our elementary-schooler poted the directn of ong floats, raisg an eyebrow at a bare-chted man dark sunglass whose black spenrs clipped to a leather thong. The man psed to be spanked playfully by a partner wh a flog. “What are <i>they</i> dog?” my cur kid asked as our toddler cheered them on. The pair was the first of a few dozen kksters who danced down the street, lghg together as they twirled their whips and batons, some leadg panns by leash. At the time, my children were too young to unrstand the nuance of the suatn, but I told them the tth: That the folks were members of our muny celebratg who they are and what they like to do.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">The kk muny has participated Pri sce s ceptn — riskg their jobs and safety to be thentilly themselv public. Still, every year as Pri Month approach, a <a href=">bate epts about whether kk belongs at Pri </a><a href=">at all</a>. Those hopg to ot kksters often ce the prence of children as their top ncern. That was potedly the se this year when Twter ers argued that kk at Pri is a <a href=">highly sexualized experience that children should be shield om</a>. <a href=">Thoands</a> of ers supported the posts, claimg that kk at Pri <a href=">cross a le</a> bee mors also attend events. I agree that Pri should be a welg space for children and teens, but policg how others show up don’t protect or uplift young people. Instead, homogenizg self-exprsn at Pri will do more harm to our children than good. When my own children ught glimps of kk culture, they got to see that the queer muny enpass so many more nontradnal ways of beg, livg, and lovg.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p><span class="wpds-c-gnhuPA wpds-c-gnhuPA-hqeSyH-variant-terstial wpds-c-gnhuPA-iPJLV-css hi-for-prt"><a data-qa="terstial-lk" href=">The ph for LGBTQ equaly began long before Stonewall</a></span></p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">As much as I want them to spend time queer spac so they n be wh fai like their own, I also want them to know that they shouldn’t lim their unrstandg of what relatnships or exprsn look like to whatever’s most faiar. I want them to see that they n make their own ways the world — and know that they’ll be supported and celebrated by their muny. If we want our children to learn and grow om their experienc at Pri, we should hope that they’ll enunter kk when they attend. How else n they learn about the spe and valy of queer life?</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb dn db-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-sktop"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-none pt-lg pb-lg" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"><div>Advertisement</div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb db dn-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-mobile"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-sm pt-sm pb-sm" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">Anti-kk advot tend to manipulate language about safety and privacy by assertg that atten are <a href=">nonnsensually exposed</a> to overt displays of sexualy. The most outrageo claim is that <a href=">nocent bystanrs are forced to participate kk simply by sharg space wh the kk muny</a>, as if the prence of kk at Pri is a perverse exhibn that kksters pursue for their own gratifitn. But kksters at Pri are not engaged sex acts — and we nnot nfe their self-exprsn wh obsceny. Co-optg the language of sexual tonomy only serv to bury that tth and muddi the serns of other nversatns about nsent. If this all sounds faiar, ’s bee anti-kk rhetoric echo the same socialized disgt people have projected onto other queer people when they claim that our love is not appropriate for public spac. It’s a sentiment that tolerat queerns only if stays wh parameters — offerg the kd of acceptance that wh a tch. The middle-aged, Whe men who I grew up wh said they were “fe” wh gay people as long as they wouldn’t be subjected to PDA — as long as all signs of queer love uld be outwardly erased. Queer people’s eedom to be themselv is, acrdg to this logic, ntgent on non-queer people’s eedom om exposure to .</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p><span class="wpds-c-gnhuPA wpds-c-gnhuPA-hqeSyH-variant-terstial wpds-c-gnhuPA-iPJLV-css hi-for-prt"><a data-qa="terstial-lk" href=">My spoe me out as trans. It didn't change a thg.</a></span></p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">The arguable difference here is that many of the latt objectns are g om self-intified queer people, but that shouldn’t necsarily be surprisg. Rpectabily polics mand that queer people assiate as much as possible to cis- and heteronormativy, hewg to mastream cultural standards. Members of the queer muny have ternalized those norms to the pot that we judge ourselv by them, and then cricize and ostracize others if they don’t uphold them, too. This is the same opprsive msage that prevented my wife om transng for 30 years, and the same msage that still keeps margalized children om g to terms wh their own experienc wh sire and embodiment.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">Children who wns kk culture are reassured that alternative experienc of sexualy and exprsn are valid — no matter who they bee as they mature, helpg them regnize that their personal experienc aren’t bad or wrong, and that they aren’t alone their experienc. I n’t thk of a more relevant or important remr for youth, who often stggle wh feelgs of isolatn and nfn as they disver more about themselv and wrtle wh ncerns about whether they’re normal enough. Includg kk Pri opens space for fai to have necsary and powerful nversatns wh young people about health, safety, nsent, and — most uniquely — pleasure. Kk visibily is a remr that any person n and should shamelsly explore what brgs joy and excement. We don’t talk to our children enough about pursug sex to fulfill rnal needs that light and ptivate the moment. Sharg the language of kk culture wh young people provis them wh valuable rmatn about safe sex practic — such as the importance of tablishg boundari, safe words and signals, affirmg the importance of planng and rearch and the need to seek and give enthiastic nsent. I never want my children to worry that explorg any aspect of nsensual sex or touch is too taboo.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb dn db-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-sktop"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-none pt-lg pb-lg" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"><div>Advertisement</div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb db dn-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-mobile"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-sm pt-sm pb-sm" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">If we’re aaid to talk about kk wh our children, we prrize the stat quo — sanizg and censorg their accs to rmatn about appropriate and normal self-exprsn. The are the very attus that ma Pri necsary — and life-affirmg — for so many of the first place, and we have no bs imposg them on the next generatn. Kk embodi the eedom that Pri stands for, remdg atten to unapologetilly take up space as an act of ristance and celebratn — refg to bend to social prsure that asks to be prentable. That’s a value I want my children to learn. Affirmg the kk muny helps our children to love themselv and others wh urage and rilience. If my wife and I had seen such fierce and termed role mols as young people, we might have learned to be ourselv much sooner. We didn’t have that chance, but my children have that muny Pri, and I want to keep that way.</p></div><div class="PJLV PJLV-ibHxfFu-css flex mt-md tt overriStyl"><div class="mb-lg-mod" data-qa="ments-btn-div"><button aria-label="Scroll to the ments sectn" data-qa="ments-btn" class="wpds-c-kSOqLF wpds-c-kSOqLF-SQjOY-variant-sendary wpds-c-kSOqLF-eHdizY-nsy-flt wpds-c-kSOqLF-ejCoEP-in-left ments hi-for-prt"><svg xmlns=" viewBox="0 0 16 16" fill="currentColor" aria-hidn="te" focable="false" role="img" class="wpds-c-fBqPWp "><path d="M14 14V2H2v9.47h8.18L12.43 13ZM3 10.52V3h10v9.23l-2.5-1.66Z"></path></svg><span class="ral-unt unfed" data-ral-notext="te"></span> Comments</button></div><div class="wpds-c-dXjReQ"><button id="gift-share-shortcut" class="wpds-c-kSOqLF wpds-c-kSOqLF-SQjOY-variant-sendary wpds-c-kSOqLF-biynoz-nsy-pact wpds-c-kSOqLF-ejCoEP-in-left hi-for-prt ml-sm"><svg xmlns=" viewBox="0 0 16 16" fill="currentColor" aria-hidn="te" focable="false" role="img" class="wpds-c-dJBvpf "><path d="M10.73 5h.14a1.75 1.75 0 0 0 1-2.25 1.83 1.83 0 0 0-.51-.75 1.72 1.72 0 0 0-1.48-.35 1.76 1.76 0 0 0-1.2.94L8 3.93l-.68-1.4A1.76 1.76 0 0 0 4 3.59 1.74 1.74 0 0 0 5.13 5H2v4h1v5h10V9h1V5ZM9.58 3a.77.77 0 0 1 .51-.4h.17a.73.73 0 0 1 .47.17.72.72 0 0 1 .27.71.72.72 0 0 1-.48.58l-1.77.66ZM5 3.43a.72.72 0 0 1 .27-.71.73.73 0 0 1 .47-.17h.17a.77.77 0 0 1 .51.4l.83 1.7L5.48 4A.74.74 0 0 1 5 3.43ZM3 6h4.5v2H3Zm1 3h3.5v4H4Zm4.5 4V9H12v4ZM13 8H8.5V6H13Z" data-name="Path 10"></path></svg><span class="wpds-c-iSKIAI">Gift this article</span>Gift Article</button></div></div><div></div><div></div><sectn class="dn-ns hi-for-prt" data-ttid="mostRead" subscriptns-sectn="ntent"><div data-ttid="lazy-most-read-parent" class=""><div style="m-height:800px"></div></div></sectn><div class="wpds-c-hsVKiV"><div data-qa="newsletter" class="hi-for-prt relative"><div class="dib w-100"><div><div class="flex jtify-center align self-center center transn-all duratn-400 ease--out" data-qa="sc-newsletter-signup" aria-label=""><svg aria-labelledby="react-aria-1-aria" role="img" viewBox="0 0 100 80"><tle id="react-aria-1-aria">Loadg... .

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