Barbiemania htg s peak summer 2023 helped one 30-year-old wrer release the childhood shame he felt when playg wh Barbie dolls as a young gay child.
Contents:
- HOT TAKE: ‘DETECTIVE PIKACHU’ IS ACTUALLY ABOUT BEG GAY
- :RABOW: GAY & BI-BOYS :TWO_MEN_HOLDG_HANDS:
- PIKACHU IS GAY
HOT TAKE: ‘DETECTIVE PIKACHU’ IS ACTUALLY ABOUT BEG GAY
* go pikachu i'm gay *
Yterday, I went through a shockg and arduo transformatn, my greatt metamorphosis to date sce g out as gay. At some pot every LGBTQ person’s life, we’re subjected to feelgs of spair and isolatn, due to beg outsted by a homophobic culture, or fay, or iends group, that prevents om makg real nnectns. I didn’t have any peers who were queer, and I didn’t even know that beg gay was an optn for me — all I knew was that I felt different and alone ways I was never able to put my fger on when I was growg up.
As a 30-year-old gay man, I’ve met a lot of other queer people who also hid parts of themselv childhood. Experimentg wh femy the safety of the home — even somethg as mcule as selectg girl characters vio gam and livg virly through her abily to kick ass — seems to be a shared gay experience for many of .
None of this mak a person gay, of urse. It feels remiscent of the adoratn that gay fans hold toward old Hollywood beti like Joan Crawford and Judy Garland, or the pageant-style exaggeratns of femy that unrpned so much of early drag culture.
:RABOW: GAY & BI-BOYS :TWO_MEN_HOLDG_HANDS:
Barbie has been the subject of the same gay diva worship over the years, and Gerwig’s film promently featurg LGBTQ+ actors feels like a nod to that history.
Part of Barbie’s gay appeal might be that, spe beg plastic and unmalleable, she n transform herself to anythg: doctor, lawyer, judge, journalist, and vet, or whatever Mattel thks will sell the most dolls. ) As the world’s most famo doll, she has been st as both an aspiratnal hero and a rctive villa — the gay world, this polarizg dualy often turns women to ins. After I me out as gay, I spent a lot of my younger adult life reilg when people said that they “already knew.
Now, I feel proud of my ltle gay self for havg the urage to play wh those fabulo dolls — and of my parents for buyg me the toys I wanted, not the on I was supposed to like.