We check out sexy guys together but he firmly stat he's not gay. I don't know what to do about his mixed signals
Contents:
- HOW TO KNOW IF A GAY FRIEND LIK YOU (FOR MEN)
- AS A STRAIGHT MAN, HOW N I POLELY STOP MY GAY IEND FLIRTG WH ME?
- IS FLIRTG BETWEEN GAY AND STRAIGHT MEN OKAY?
- ASK AMY: GAY MAN SET STRAIGHT ABOUT IEND-FLIRTG
- STEP-BY-STEP INSTCTNS FOR SHOOTG YOUR SHOT WH GAY GUYS
HOW TO KNOW IF A GAY FRIEND LIK YOU (FOR MEN)
* my gay best friend flirts with me *
She says stuff like “ I’m gay for you”, sends me gay upl tiktoks and says “me and who” or “”. However, don't jt straight up go up to him and say: "Are you gay?
How do you know if you’re gay? If you fd out he is gay, or are really sure he is, jt ask him.
AS A STRAIGHT MAN, HOW N I POLELY STOP MY GAY IEND FLIRTG WH ME?
I [F20] thk my gay bt iend [M20] is flirtg wh me? I always had a b of a csh on him but I knew he was gay and was fe wh me, our iendship was always more important to me than any romantic feelgs I might have had for him and was easy to keep my prri le. He's clearly gay and he's been out and datg men sce mid-high school, before we were close iends.
IS FLIRTG BETWEEN GAY AND STRAIGHT MEN OKAY?
I have no plans to make any kd of a move bee I thk I am misreadg the suatn but I was wonrg if any other gay men have acted this way towards a female iend of theirs and what has meant. Tl;dr My gay bt iend is flirtg wh me and I'm too dumb and naïve to figure out if 's platonic or not. One of my iends who recently me out as gay has started flirtg wh me, even though he knows I’m straight and therefore have no tert him.
No gay man has ever flirted wh me and I don’t know why: I’m iendly, I’m a good listener, I have a sexy, swarthy, stubbly look, part Eugene Levy, part Jo-Jo the Dog-Faced Circ Boy – I’m really que irristible. But, for some reason, gay men fd me very unappealg – and, to be hont, I’m a ltle once would be nice if a gay man sidled up to me and said, “Shake your bon-bon, I’m a sperado unrneath your wdow. A rear wr: I'm a twentysomethg gay male wh a straight male acquatance who adms to flirtg wh me.
Your distanceSexual attractn is volatile any iendship, but straight men particular feel prsure to monstrate that they are not homophobic. So they might play wh an entirely hypothetil gay inty by mentg on attractive guys, but to gay men, n e across as "mixed signals.
ASK AMY: GAY MAN SET STRAIGHT ABOUT IEND-FLIRTG
– Gilbert Osmond, MontrealThk of the kidsWhether your iend is nfed about his sexualy, aaid to adm he's gay or simply takg his LGBT support a b too far … do you really want to get volved? And if he were openly gay and had kids wh a male partner stead, would you ask yourself the same qutns about actg on your attractn?
STEP-BY-STEP INSTCTNS FOR SHOOTG YOUR SHOT WH GAY GUYS
He's not g the exce, "I had to get married bee I belong to a ragg homophobic muny. My hband would probably prefer traipsg around the gay village, checkg out cute men, to stg at home watchg another md numbg soccer you have to protect yourself.