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Ann Romney might be gearg up for her role as potential first lady, but she might also wanna prep for another one: TV star. Mt Romney's 63-year-old miss openly profsed her love for "Morn Fay" to Entertament Tonight, and now s creator, Steve Levan, has offered her a spot on the show -- while slyly takg dig at her hband's anti-gay-marriage shownner took to Twi

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MORN FAY’S BIG, GAY (AND IMPORTANT) WEDDG

The two Morn Fay episos wrapped to the weddg of Mch and Cam were some of the funnit I've ever seen—but, naturally, they end wh me cryg. As you no doubt will be after you watch this clip: This wasn't the first gay weddg on TV ever—Grey's Anatomy and Six Feet Unr, among others, are the TV same-sex marriage pneer tegory. And even those shows weren't the earlit to spotlight long-term mments: Remember Jack and Doug cidg to own their romance and Jean Valjean the whole Jen's dghter suatn at the end of Dawson's? That was over a ago. But Morn Fay's gay weddg feels like a first bee I would argue that—no disrpect to Callie and Arizona—'s mastream, prime-time TV's most proment one ever. (I have to e "prime-time" here bee Days of Our Liv married off Will and Sonny back March, markg the first weddg of two men on daytime drama ever.) Morn Fay is routely the most-watched TV program on Wednday nights; over ten ln people saw last night. We know om the stats that the show kills the 18-49 mographic—which is a rather big age range. Tradnally, 's also watched * modern family gay wedding *

In what is, at the most, a major moment televisn history and, at the very least, a quiet step forward for the marriage equaly movement, TV’s most award and send most-watched edy seri aired a gay the bate over the legalizatn of gay marriage makg headl on a daily basis, ’s hard not to read to the fact that 10. ” Ever sce Morn Fay accintally beme televisn’s go-to polil lightng rod, the show’s gay uple and the ton they’ve passed together on screen have llaterally bee bean’s of progrs when to what uld broadly be referred to as “acceptance” by the public at might argue that what two televisn characters do on a s should hardly be nsted as “important, ” but as we’ve long learned, polics and pop culture are often extribly tertwed.

‘MORN FAY’ WRER REVEALS EMOTNAL BACKSTORY OF ‘HISTORIC’ GAY MARRIAGE PROPOSAL (EXCLIVE)

Now, ’s apparently OK for two guys to share that bed, ’s impossible to quantify how many words have been voted to the progrs—or, some opn, the lack thereof—when to pictg gay characters on mastream TV. There are some who reject the ia that Mch and Cam, two characters who are broadly drawn and arguably perpetuate margalizg stereotyp of gay-ish character tras, are the unwtg poster gays for the equal-rights movement, at least some of the more uniated segments of the one thg that’s never been broadly drawn when to Mch and Cam, and much of this is owed to the warm chemistry between stars Jse Tyler Fergon and Eric Stontreet, is their love.

”From the time that Morn Fay’s brilliant pilot buted and Cam was thstg newly adopted Lily to the air while “Circle of Life” om The Ln Kg played the background—a geni moment one of the most perfect pilots om the last 10 years—Mch and Cam and their gayns were also thst forward, their every actn and even their mere existence, on a mastream seri stantly embraced by crics and viewers alike, was a gay love story that we actually jo the middle. There were no plots, as there ually are on work TV when gay characters are volved, about g to terms wh their own sexuali, g out of the closet, or nvcg their fai to love them. It was the polil maniftatn of a Sefeld joke, reassurg voters that they don’t hate the gay muny—a verable “not that there’s anythg wrong wh that…”Then me the clamorg for what people wanted Mch and Cam to reprent, more than what they maybe actually did.

And that was, neglectg the fact that they were s characters, a “real” gay uple.

FIRST REVIEW: MORN FAY GAY WEDDG EPISO

And, fally, the petn to have them fally make legal (you know, once California, where the show tak place, ma so a legal gay marriage was actually possible) other words, this was a very special episo of the show, and a landmark episo of televisn, general.

”)There was also the edy of errors stemmg om the mismunitn between Mch and his father, Jay, who he thks isn’t on board wh the ia of the gay weddg but, of urse, uldn’t be more proud.

Jay, a b obtely standg for the ntgent of Amerins who happily endorse gay marriage but don’t know the rrect or acceptable terms for discsg , keeps parg Mch and Cam’s ceremony to a “regular weddg. When the two men actually said “I do, ” the only thg borrg on a natural disaster was the flood of tears by the guts ’ve seen gay upl get married on TV before. ‘Morn Fay’ Wrer Reveals Emotnal Backstory of ‘Historic’ Gay Marriage Proposal (Exclive).

‘MORN FAY’ FALLY THROWS THE GAY MARRIAGE EVERYONE WANTED

Supreme Court’s June cisn allowg same-sex marriage California, producers of the Emmy-wng edy knew the time was right for s gay uple, Mchell (Jse Tyler Fergon) and Cameron (Eric Stontreet), to take the plunge.

Here, Jefey Richman — one of the 20th Televisn-produced edy’s two openly gay wrer-producers — reveals to The Hollywood Reporter‘s Lacey Rose his own words the emotnal procs of wrg Wednday night’s landmark episo …. PHOTOS: My Big, Gay Hollywood Weddg (Fally! I remember we talked a lot about how a proposal would work bee even Abraham Higgbotham and I, the two openly gay wrers the room, didn’t know.

‘MORN FAY’ CONSIRG A GAY WEDDG AFTER SUPREME COURT RULGS

PHOTOS: Gay Marriage, or Not, Global Cema. I was the only gay wrer Chris’ room bee Abraham was the other room, and was jt a natural thg for me to wre .

Now that’s not te of particularly “gay” episos, but this one was different. PHOTOS: Straight Actors Gay Rol: From River Phoenix to Michael Douglas. But you n’t thk of the historic part of — the “Wow, the are the first gay characters on TV to be legally married” part.

MORN FAY GAY WEDDG: WILL MCH AND CAM GET MARRIED TONIGHT? FD OUT!

Once I step away, though, I realize how unbelievably fortunate I am as a wrer and as a gay person to have participated somethg like this — and on an sanely popular TV show. Now, wh Proposn 8 and the Defense of Marriage Act DOMA feated, the seri is about to cement the public image of a happy gay nuclear fay wh the weddg of long-term boyiends, Mchell and Cameron. Although the reprentatn of gay and lbian characters on Amerin screens is beg creasgly mon, is easy to fet how recently US televisn was a straights-only doma.

TVLE ITEMS: MORN FAY GAY WEDDG BUZZ, MICHAEL E. KNIGHT TO PLAY DIVA DOG DAD AND MORE

In the 1960s and 1970s, homosexualy on televisn was treated like a social problem, or an exotic disease.

The low pot of this sort of programmg was CBS’s 1967 hour-long vtigatn The Homosexuals. It opened wh a poll statg that Amerins saw homosexualy as “more harmful to society than adultery, abortn or prostutn”, and did ltle to dispel those fears.

While there were also more thoughtful treatments of homosexual characters, such as the ABC TV movie, That Certa Summer, even the tend to portray gayns as a personal misfortune. As gay rights groups grew more vol, televisn grew braver pictg gay characters. Shows like Hill Street Blu and LA Law featured gay characters, typilly one-off storyl or “special episos”.

'MORN FAY' CREATOR V ANN ROMNEY ON SHOW AS GAY WEDDG OFFICIANT

Here homosexualy was still an issue, though was more likely to be a personal or emotnal one rather than the social problem of earlier tim. But notable exceptns like Soap’s Jodie Dallas asi, gay characters tend to have a limed shelf-life. Unwillg to show the velopment of gay relatnships, works only showed them g out, and later, stgglg wh the implitns of AIDS.

THE "MORN FAY" GAY WEDDG -- EQUAL RIGHTS OR ASSIATN?

By the 1990s gay and lbian characters were almost rigur on prime-time ss. Ron Becker has argued that gay TV characters the 1990s beme a kd of stat symbol for viewers who wanted to showse their own progrsive polics through the culture they nsumed.

Male characters like Frasier Crane or Jerry Sefeld were forced to nont their own ambiguo masculy light of the new cultural visibily of homosexualy. After 2000, gay characters beme an creasgly stable and regular part of the Amerin televisn landspe. But this was also a time of agmentg televisn servic and creasgly niche channels, wh the rult that even if the reprentatns of gay and lbian characters on shows like Queer as Folk and The L Word were unprecentedly staed and multi-layered.

Morn Fay remas signifint the history of gay reprentatn on televisn not bee is pecially nuanced ( isn’t), or bee shows somethg we’ve never seen before ( don’t).

THE MORN FAY EFFECT: POP CULTURE’S ROLE THE GAY-MARRIAGE REVOLUTN

And this allows room for the dience, pecially those whose attu towards gay rights is still floatg around the primordial soup, to evolve along wh them.

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class="w-100 mw-100 h-to" width="600" height="400" srcSet=" 400w, 540w, 691w, 767w, 916w, 1200w" siz="(max-width: 440px) 440px,(max-width: 600px) 691px,(max-width: 768px) 691px,(m-width: 769px) and (max-width: 1023px) 960px,(m-width: 1024px) and (max-width: 1299px) 530px,(m-width: 1300px) and (max-width: 1439px) 691px,(m-width: 1440px) 916px,440px" dg="async"/></div><figptn class="ml-gutter mr-gutter mr-to-ns ml-to-ns font--subhead font-xxxs mt-xs left gray-dark">Mchell and Cameron’s weddg on “Morn Fay” offers viewers an etiquette primer on same-sex unns. 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But the same-sex weddg on the popular ABC s, set to air Wednday, is a mt-see event, too — pecially for the primer offers on same-sex weddg etiquette.</p></div></div><div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="db dn-ns mr-neg-gutter ml-neg-gutter mb-md hi-for-prt" data-qa="subscribe-promo"><div data-orientatn="horizontal" role="separator" class="wpds-c-dbVHzF wpds-c-dbVHzF-hDkAcj-variant-flt"></div><a class="pt-sm pb-sm flex ems-center bold font-xxxs font-xxs-ns jtify-center" href=" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener" style="lor:#166dfc;borr:none"><svg class="ntent-box" width="24" height="24" viewBox="0 0 24 24" xmlns=" aria-hidn="te" focable="false" role="img"><tle>Wp</tle><path d="M11.055 8.728l-1.018-1.019-.782.782v6.292l1.782 1.564.018-.019v-7.6zm-4.11.236L5.674 7.71l-.836.855v6.237l1.545 1.327.564-.636V8.964zm2.656 9.074l-2.528-2.182-1.927 2.182-2.619-2.255v-3.564h-.509c-.454 0-.672.273-.745.636H1.09a2.89 2.89 0 0 1-.091-.69c0-.473.2-1.71 1.527-1.71V7.691c0-1.073-.709-1.127-.709-2.054 0-1.037.982-2 2.782-2.637l.164.145c-.6.291-1.09.655-1.09 1.437 0 1.2 1.163.89 1.163 2.782v.727l2.127-2.236 2.237 2.2 2.109-2.2 2.036 2v6.728l-3.745 3.455zm11.108-9.625l-1.073-.982-.964 1.018v6.6c.855.11 1.491.4 2.019.964l.018-.018V8.413zm-2.382.418l-.528.545v10.237l.528.492V8.83zm1.49 9.055c-.308-.382-.69-.709-1.145-.836v3.782l-.036.018-1-.927-2.11 1.945-.036-.018V16.96c-.636.145-1.327.545-1.854 1.2l-.146-.091c.127-1.4.818-2.436 2-2.837v-3.545h-.382c-.527 0-.89.363-.963.763h-.219c-.054-.145-.127-.381-.127-.836 0-.891.6-1.564 1.582-1.564h.11V8.085l-.655-.582-.51.51-.254-.237 2.018-2.073 1.71 1.564V9.05l.527-.564v-2.09h.345v1.727l2.273-2.419L23 7.576v7.91l-3.182 2.4z" fill-le="evenodd"></path></svg><span class="mr-xs ml-xs gray-darkt flex ems-center">Get the full experience.<span class="ml-xs subs-theme blue">Choose your plan</span></span><svg class="ntent-box" width="16" height="16" viewBox="0 0 16 16" xmlns=" style="fill:#166dfc" aria-hidn="te" focable="false" role="img"><tle>ArrowRight</tle><path d="M7.664 1.25l6 6a1 1 0 010 1.414l-6 6L6.25 13.25 10.499 9H2V7h8.585L6.25 2.664 7.664 1.25z" fill-le="nonzero"></path></svg></a><div data-orientatn="horizontal" role="separator" class="wpds-c-dbVHzF wpds-c-dbVHzF-hDkAcj-variant-flt"></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">Sce the start of this season, when Cam and Mch awkwardly (and mutually) proposed while fixg a flat tire, the path-breakg show has followed the uple's long and wdg road to the altar. The characters' weddg rais issu every uple fac — om cuttg the gut list and sts to choosg the right officiant to, of urse, fdg the perfect drs for their dghter. As Evan Wolfson, the print of the advocy group <a href=">Freedom to Marry</a>, says: "Our weddgs are the same as everyone else's, only gayer."</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">Yet unlike oppose-sex nuptials, the “Morn Fay” weddg sh head-on to many of the unique challeng gay upl face. In a heated exchange shortly before the big day, Mch’s father, Jay, sudnly reveals that he’s ashamed to tell his iends that his son is marryg a man. He sums up the emotnal maelstrom for many when he says, “I have to adm , this whole weddg thg is weird to me.” He go on to list his qutns: Will there be a father/son dance? Do I walk you down the aisle? Is there a bouquet and, if so, which groom throws ?</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb dn db-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-sktop"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-none pt-lg pb-lg" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"><div>Advertisement</div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb db dn-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-mobile"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-sm pt-sm pb-sm" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">The are among the top qutns about same-sex weddgs I ntue to <a href=">receive</a>, as a manners lumnist about LGBT/straight issu, om parents and other fay members. (Wh, of urse, one addnal qutn: Who pays?)</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">As this season unfold, the s about a close-kn California fay beme an valuable manners gui to the new weddgs. Herewh, the “Morn Fay Gui to Same-Sex Weddgs:”</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null"><b>Who propos a same-sex uple?</b></p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">The day the Supreme Court threw out <a href=">Proposn 8 last year</a>, Mch and Cam (together ne years) each began visg their own romantic proposal. By the episo's end, wh romantic plans thwarted, they fd themselv stgglg wh a blown-out tire overlookg the Cy of Angels. "It's a different world down there than was 24 hours ago," Cam says. In moments, wh both of them on bend knee, ey locked, they simultaneoly say "Y" to the unasked qutn. In fact, acrdg to a <a href=">2013 survey</a> nducted by ­ and the Advote, only 58 percent of gay upl actually propose (vs. 91 percent of straight upl), cidg stead that 's simply time to get hched once legal.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb dn db-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-sktop"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-none pt-lg pb-lg" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"><div>Advertisement</div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb db dn-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-mobile"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-sm pt-sm pb-sm" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null"><b>Is rrect to refer to a “gay weddg”?</b></p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">To paraphrase Gert Ste, "a weddg is a weddg is a weddg," and many LGBT advot advise agast g the modifier "gay." As edian <a href=">Liz Feldman</a> says, "It's very ar to me, the issue of gay marriage. Or, as I like to ll , 'marriage.' You know, bee I had lunch this afternoon, not gay lunch. I parked my r; I didn't gay park ." "Morn Fay" tak up that distctn when Jay, wh Gloria's young son Manny at the urthoe, notic a crowd has gathered. Jay says, "Probably everybody gettg their gay marriage license." Manny repli whout missg a teen beat: "I thk 's jt lled a marriage license." Bottom le? While a uple may be gay, their weddg is not.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null"><b>Are parents expected to walk their dghters (or sons) down the aisle?</b></p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb dn db-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-sktop"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-none pt-lg pb-lg" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"><div>Advertisement</div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb db dn-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-mobile"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-sm pt-sm pb-sm" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">In the first of the two-episo weddg storyle, which aired last week, the uple’s dghter, Lily, was about to lead the procsn (before the wildfire ed a halt to the proceedgs), followed by her dads whout any of their parents tow. Simple. Sweet. Appropriate. In fact, dischargg Mom and Dad om this duty is not unual at same-sex weddgs bee many of the gay upl this first wave of newlyweds are olr on who have been together for years. One uple I know of “gave themselv away.” Explaed one of the bris: “We are both our 50s, have been together for 30 years, are femists and no longer ‘attached’ to our fathers.” Still, there’s no le agast one set of parents (or both) participatg this rual as a show of fay solidary. In fact, I love the ia.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null"><b>Is expected that Mom and Dad will pay for the weddg?</b></p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div data-qa="article-vio" data-ttid="article-vio" class=""><div><figure class="mb-md mr-to-ns ml-to-ns hi-for-prt ml-neg-gutter mr-neg-gutter"><div class="w-100 aspect-ctom" style="background-posn:center;background-repeat:no-repeat;background-lor:rgb(245, 245, 245);background-image:url();background-size:nta;--aspect-height:0.5625;--aspect-width:1"></div><figptn><div class="mt-xs mr-to-ns ml-to-ns left font--subhead font-xxxs gray-dark ml-gutter mr-gutter" data-qa="vio-ptn">The creatn of equaly. (Vio: Ann Telna/The Washgton Post)</div></figptn></figure></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">Good news for Jay and Gloria (as well as Cam’s parents): The answer to that qutn is ually no, pecially for longtime partners. Ined, even as Mch and Cam look for ways to rce their sticker shock, they try to cut sts but le out askg their parents for help. (When Mch suggts nixg the centerpiec, Cam gasps, “Why even have a weddg?!?”) Acrdg to the Knot/Advote survey, 86 percent of same-sex upl paid for their own weddgs, pared wh 40 percent of oppose-sex on. A gay man who married his long-term partner last year told me, “I had zero expectatn of any of our parents ntributg, not even the on who were credibly supportive.” Still, there’s an upsi for the bris and grooms: no fancial ntributn ually translat to ltle (or at least ls) meddlg.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb dn db-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-sktop"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-none pt-lg pb-lg" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"><div>Advertisement</div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb db dn-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-mobile"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-sm pt-sm pb-sm" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null"><b>Mt fathers do the first dance wh their sons?</b></p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">In the midst of his meltdown, Jay blurts out what’s really on his md: “I don’t thk I’m out of le suggtg my iends don’t want to see a father/son dance at a gay weddg.” To which Mch snaps back: “There is no father/son dance, Dad.” Let’s remember what the danc are meant to symbolize: the bond between parent and child, and two fai g together.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">One gay uple I know danced first as new hbands; then many of their male iends cut as a show of muny. After that, each groom danced wh his mom. Lovely.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null"><b>Do you ve unsupportive fay members? </b></p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">When Jay adms his disfort to his son, he adds, “I didn’t choose to be unfortable. I was born this way.” To that, Mch repli, “If really mak you that unfortable, then don’t e to the weddg.” Father and son repair the damage before episo’s end, but do raise the qutn about relativ who may not support a marriage of two men or two women. To ve or not to ve them?</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb dn db-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-sktop"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-none pt-lg pb-lg" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"><div>Advertisement</div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb db dn-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-mobile"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-sm pt-sm pb-sm" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">If helps, a recent <a href=">Pew Rearch Center study</a> found that 33 percent of those who opposed marriage equaly changed their tune if a iend or a fay member was LGBT. Sen. Rob Portman (R-Oh), origally an opponent of marriage equaly, <a href=">changed his md</a> when he learned that his son was gay. For straight relativ and iends, I say: A weddg is not a referendum. When doubt, fay tmps polics. But if you n't fd your heart to support the marryg uple, stay home. For gay upl: If you n bear , give your unsupportive fay members the chance to evolve and ve them to the ftivi. They jt may end up on the right si of history once they wns you sayg "I do."</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null"><span>One fal word of advice to the uniated: There's often one big difference between "gay weddgs" and straight on. The groom's stepbrother Manny sums up when he tells his mom, "Weddgs are where you meet girls!" His mother repli, "Not at this one." Go wh an open heart and an open md — you ne</span>ver know whom you might meet.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">Oh, and don’t be surprised when the officiant’s tradnal troductn is tweaked — officially pronouncg the happy uple “hband and hband.”</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null"><a href=">Steven Petrow</a>, the thor of "<a href=" tle=">Steven Petrow's Complete Gay & Lbian Manners,</a>" addrs qutns about LGBT and straight etiquette his Washgton Post lumn, Civili. 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