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Contents:

• THE REAL REASON GAY MEN DON'T GET FAT
• WHAT PERCENTAGE OF THE POPULATN IS GAY?
• PENIS SIZE AND PREFERRED SEXUAL ROL AMONG GAY MEN
• HOW TO GET A MAN (FOR GAY MEN)
• THE CURSE OF AN ATTRACTN TO OLR GAY MEN
• ARE GAY MEN REALLY RICH?
• GAYS VS. STRAIGHTS: ANY DIFFERENC SEXUAL SATISFACTN?
• AGE DIFFERENC GAY COUPL
• HOW MANY PEOPLE ARE LBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL, AND TRANSGENR?
• WHY ARE PEOPLE GAY? GAY BY CHOICE OR IS BEG GAY GEIC?
• KEV MAXEN BE FIRST MALE ACH A US MEN’S PROFSNAL SPORTS LEAGUE TO PUBLICLY E OUT AS GAY

THE REAL REASON GAY MEN DON'T GET FAT

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WHAT PERCENTAGE OF THE POPULATN IS GAY?

That is why gay men don't get fat, bee if they don't have pecs, guns, and glut, they're gog home men, unlike their straight unterparts, don't have the luxury to stay "fightg shape" jt long enough to fd a partner before lettg their bodi fall to sh afterwords. I'm gog to let you on a ltle secret: There are untls mted gay upl out there who like to eher play on the si or ve gut stars to their beds.

PENIS SIZE AND PREFERRED SEXUAL ROL AMONG GAY MEN

Y, gay men go to the gym to stay petive, but sce the man-eatg marathon don't end after marriage, they jt keep on petg and petg until ath do they funny thg about the gay petn is that, bee men (pecially of the gay variety) are so visually stimulated, the only piece on the chs board that matters is havg that tradnal lean body. A good body is the only currency this also mak this unique for gay men is one of the other strange quirks of homosexualy. No straight man wants to look like a woman (and certaly not the reverse) but gay men fd what they are physilly attracted to and often remake their bodi the image of their ial mate.

HOW TO GET A MAN (FOR GAY MEN)

Sce society tells to want mcle-bound athlet, that's what gays want, and that's what they make themselv look like the pursu of their ial. If you want to bed mcl you have to have mcl, if you want to land a twk, you better be a twk (or at least some other type that is easily st any gay porn movie), gay men e all shap and siz (embrace the rabow, people) but still gay culture and inography is largely domated by the same juiced-out body type (and awful tribal tattoos) that you'd fd on Jersey Shore.

While there are plenty of average-physiqued homosexuals (who barely mer mentng) there has been a reactn to all this body fascism over the past so many years. Y, the "bear" movement, spearhead by gay men who are hairier and chubbier than average, is forever gag steam.

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THE CURSE OF AN ATTRACTN TO OLR GAY MEN

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But today, relatnships between olr gay men and younger gay men are seemgly plagued by peer judgment over prumptive motivatns. Most of my gay hort, as well as prev partners, had exposed their +/- four-year le to me out of fear that they would be emed “sugar babi” for takg tert somebody markedly olr.

ARE GAY MEN REALLY RICH?

A lot of gay men around my age assume that olr gay men, on the other hand, are maly to younger gay men for the sex, perhaps so the youth n somehow b off on them bed like some heavy logne. And though the apps may be seen as grassroots one-night stand livery servic, they also provi rich, rare ter-age experienc where younger and olr gay men, already fortable unr the veil of physil timacy, n munite and dispense sight to the mefield that is the morn gay datg I do often tend towards men my own age, I also love to reflect on the rhetoric I’ve heard om men who have been the bs a b longer.

In his 1948 book, Sexual Behavr the Human Male, Aled Ksey shocked the world by announcg that 10% of the male populatn is gay. A 1993 Jan Report timated that ne percent of men and five percent of women had more than "ocsnal" homosexual relatnships. But when Gallup asked Amerins for their bt timate of the Amerin gay and lbian populatn, the rults ma all the figur mentned above look nservative.

In Augt 2002*, Gallup asked Amerins, an open-end format, to timate the percentage of Amerin men and the percentage of Amerin women who are homosexual. Male rponnts tend to give lower timat of both the male and female homosexual populatn than female rponnts do. Before the 1980s, the few reprentatns of homosexualy popular culture tend to nsist of potentially dangero social viants (thk Norman Bat Psycho).

GAYS VS. STRAIGHTS: ANY DIFFERENC SEXUAL SATISFACTN?

Sce then, however, the portrayal of gay characters pop culture have bee far more numero and mostly posive.

In the last 10 years, the number of Amerins sayg they feel homosexualy should be nsired an acceptable alternative liftyle has gone om 38% (June 1992) to 51% (May 2002).

"Seeg ourselv reflected posively enurag gay people to e out, " said Cathy Renna, news media director for the Gay & Lbian Alliance Agast Defamatn (GLAAD). " If you doubt that Ellen, Rosie and others have had an effect on Amerins' acceptance of homosexualy, nsir this -- MTV and Showtime are about to lnch a ble channel directed at the homosexual market. Whether creased acceptance of homosexualy has led to an upsurge the number of posive media portrayals of gay characters or vice versa, one rult seems to be that Amerins now tend to overtimate the gay populatn Ameri.

AGE DIFFERENC GAY COUPL

While most expert timat place Ameri's homosexual populatn at 10% or ls, Amerins tend to gus that the number is higher, around 20%.

*Rults based on telephone terviews wh 489 (for those timatg percentag of lbian women) and 518 (for those timatg percentag of gay men) nducted May 6-9, 2002.

HOW MANY PEOPLE ARE LBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL, AND TRANSGENR?

Some of the largt LGBTQ events clu Madrid Gay Pri, NYC Pri, the São Plo Gay Pri Para, and Sydney Gay and Lbian Mardi Gras. For gay men, shootg a photo outdoors or showg off toned arms will crease the chanc of someone likg your profile. Volunteerg for an LGBTQ anizatn will allow you to meet other gay men that hold siar beliefs and have siar passns for activism.

Jt bee you're a gay man, don't mean that you need to go to exclively gay events or tablishments to meet a mate.

Article SummaryXAs a gay man, n be a stggle to fd someone special, but you n up your chanc by puttg yourself out there and approachg guys you're terted . Unrstand important health issu for gay men and other men who have sex wh men, and get tips for matag good Mayo Clic Staff.

WHY ARE PEOPLE GAY? GAY BY CHOICE OR IS BEG GAY GEIC?

However, there are some specific health ncerns that gay men and other men who have sex wh men need to be aware of. Gay men and other men who have sex wh men may be at an creased risk of prsn, bipolar disorr and anxiety. Gay men also are more likely to have body image problems and eatg disorrs, such as anorexia and bulimia, than are other men.

Many health re and mental health anizatns foced on the lbian, gay, bisexual and transgenr muny also offer substance e treatment or may be able to provi rmatn about lol rourc. And rearch has shown that gay men and other men who have sex wh men experience timate partner vlence at a higher rate than do other men. A lack of shelters and other facili equipped to offer gay men a safe, supportive place to get help also may make dntg to seek re.

KEV MAXEN BE FIRST MALE ACH A US MEN’S PROFSNAL SPORTS LEAGUE TO PUBLICLY E OUT AS GAY

Concern about homophobia and the stigma sometim associated wh homosexualy may prevent some gay men om gettg route health re. The younger men have more tert sports than their partners and their gay peers who are attracted to men their own age. He wrote, “I stggle more to expla my attractn to olr gay men to my gay iends than I do to my straight iends.

” No one has llected reliable statistics, but age dispary seems to occur more equently gay relatnships than heterosexual on. But the se of a celebry, the tabloid headl the labels may be ed sensatnalistic ways, or even clu more vilently homophobic nam like pedophile and predatory pervert. It has been suggted that satisfyg sex nnot occur whout wet kiss and swellg ans, which rc gay sexualy to nothg more than sex, and impli that olr men are pable of havg erectns.

One recurrg qutn remas: “How n a man have a mutually satisfyg sex life wh a wife and then have a sudn revelatn that he’s gay?