How Diet Coke Helped Me Embrace My Gay Inty

Contents:

• JAGS' MAXEN IS FIRST MALE AMERIN PRO SPORTS ACH TO E OUT AS GAY
• KEN HAS ALWAYS BEEN BARBIE’S GAY BT FRIEND—NOT HER BOYIEND
• IF YOU’RE A GAY MAN, YOU’RE PROBABLY GOG ABOUT WEIGHT LOSS ALL WRONG
• KEV MAXEN BE FIRST MALE ACH A US MEN’S PROFSNAL SPORTS LEAGUE TO PUBLICLY E OUT AS GAY
• THE 'GAY DIET'
• GAY MEN AND BODY PERFECTN
• JAGUARS ASSISTANT KEV MAXEN BE FIRST MALE ACH MAJOR MEN'S PRO SPORTS TO INTIFY AS GAY
• ESSENTIALS FOR GAY MEN: TIME TO GET SER ABOUT DIETARY FIBRE
• HOW DIET COKE HELPED ME EMBRACE MY GAY INTY
• WHEN GAY MEN GET PROSTATE CANCER
• THE REAL REASON GAY MEN DON'T GET FAT
• GAY MEN MORE AT RISK OF EATG DISORRS, BUT FDG COMMUNY CAN BE HARD
• BODY IMAGE, EATG BEHAVRS, AND ATTUS TOWARD EXERCISE AMONG GAY AND STRAIGHT MEN

JAGS' MAXEN IS FIRST MALE AMERIN PRO SPORTS ACH TO E OUT AS GAY

-- Jaguars assistant strength and ndng ach Kev Maxen has bee the first male ach major Amerin men's profsnal sports to publicly e out as gay, tellg he ma the cisn bee he didn't want to hi who he is any longer and to possibly spire others siar 's a cisn and move that drew praise and support om owner Shad Khan, who was a vol and emphatic supporter of a cy ordance that expand protectns on the grounds of sexual orientatn, genr inty and genr exprsn.

The film won’t say , but a post-creds punchle about Ken’s handwrg, plete wh hearts and stars surroundg his name, tells what we need to heavily implied nature of Ken’s gayns Toy Story 3 harkens back to Hollywood’s tradnal gay bt iend-type characters.

In the Hays Co era, explic referenc to homosexualy weren’t allowed, so characters like Van Buren (Frankl Pangborn) 1937’s Easy Livg, Kip (David Wayne) 1949’s Adam’s Rib, or Addison (Gee Sanrs) 1950’s All About Eve stead were imbued wh effemate characteristics, offerg a glimpse outsi of heteronormativy whout explicly beg of the characters were the same—some were tty, others sweet. As a rult, gay men bought the doll drov, and spe Mattel ultimately rellg the doll and wipg away any trace of Earrg Magic Ken, was near-impossible to see Ken as anythg but the glor homosexual he was born to be om then on. While there is no way to “drs gay, ” there are several dolls that seem to suggt otherwise, such as:Fashnista Ken #193, who looks very exced to tell you about his new obssn, Troye Sivan;Travel Ken Doll, who has a satchel perfect for bathho and a purple overnight bag that lerally proclaims he’s “extra;”Ken Looks Doll, servg “I’m gonna give you a makeover”-type realns while sportg black pleather pants;This Ken, who wears the least heterosexual double nim I have a feelg the new Barbie movie will put the work to nvce that Ken is a hetero du who lov nothg life more than Barbie herself, the wrg’s already on the wall: Ken is, and always will be, Barbie’s gay bt obssg!

KEN HAS ALWAYS BEEN BARBIE’S GAY BT FRIEND—NOT HER BOYIEND

In my experience as a gay nutrnal ach and workg wh a lot of gay men as well as teractg wh 100s of gay men the muny, Many gay men are not good to their bodi when to losg weight and tryg to look sexier.

IF YOU’RE A GAY MAN, YOU’RE PROBABLY GOG ABOUT WEIGHT LOSS ALL WRONG

Per Outsports, Maxen is the “first publicly out male ach a major Amerin men’s pro sports league, ” wh WNBA ach Curt Miller, who publicly me out to the media as gay 2015, also a publicly out male ach an Amerin profsnal sports league. Qun bewilrgly tells him that such excs mt be forbidn "if fact you are dog bee that's part of a homosexual liftyle" Bno, Doonan sentially equat gay food wh girly food, and straight wh blokey.

KEV MAXEN BE FIRST MALE ACH A US MEN’S PROFSNAL SPORTS LEAGUE TO PUBLICLY E OUT AS GAY

Gay- or straight- or girl- or guy- food: whether or not there is any tth the labels, a mixture of all is a good ia: one should eat the u of all the tre the garn of the world, as Osr Wil put . Adam* said was dangero to e out as gay his home untry and feared beg forced to an arranged marriage wh a said he was "so lucky" to wed his soulmate, Ray, Manchter and wish everyone uld marry who they love.

THE 'GAY DIET'

'Authentilly myself'Ray said he had also stggled growg up gay the 1970s and 80s England, which was "tough" said his relig school "dmmed to you, 'you are gog to hell'" Adam returned home to Sdi Arabia, spe beg more than 3, 000 apart and later rtricted by the Covid-19 panmic, they kept touch daily and the romance years ago, Ray proposed on a vio ll and after succsfully applyg for a UK fiancé visa, Adam moved to Manchter December 2022. Adam said he had been aaid to even wear lours his home untry so the first thg he did when he moved was start to "grow my mullet, got my ears pierced and booked appotments for tattoos" relled how, ntrast, one of his gay iends Sdi had been forced to marry a woman, addg: "It has ed not only his life but the life of his wife.

GAY MEN AND BODY PERFECTN

The uple, who live London, said a "really betiful memory" was on the way home when one of their sons shouted out of the black b wdow to Trafalgar Square, "My dads jt got married" and cheered "Yay, gay marriage". It seems that my loyalty to Diet Coke has as much to do wh inty— my se, exprsg femy and rejectg heterosexual norms—as do taste or other gay men tell me they have a siar relatnship wh Diet Coke. And yet, as my endurg gay love affair wh Diet Coke shows, tensely genred marketg n also enurage people to flout genr norms—even somethg as nocuo as a choice of Coke might not shatter society's genr nstcts, but I’m gog to ntue the most nsistent relatnship I’ve ever had, wh an alumium n of zero-lorie goodns.

Though the ter landspe has changed sce his diagnosis 2003, Rose's experience is still reprentative of the lack of awarens and rearch surroundg how prostate ncer may affect gay men differently than straight men.

Much of the fundg for rearchg diseas that may affect gay men has been funneled toward HIV; and some of the gay men who may have gotten prostate ncer – which is more mon wh age – died of AIDS and therefore are theoretilly missg om the data, says Simon Rosser, a profsor and director of the HIV/STI Interventn and Preventn Studi at the Universy of Mnota School of Public Health.

JAGUARS ASSISTANT KEV MAXEN BE FIRST MALE ACH MAJOR MEN'S PRO SPORTS TO INTIFY AS GAY

Sce more gay and bisexual men are htg high-risk ag for prostate ncer the days, he says, "'s gog to bee a bigger issue for gay and bisexual men the next , and no doc on the pla n practice evince-based medice" sce there is no strong evince base. Not that there's been an easy way to study the populatn; surveillance data ncer rearch isn't typilly nducted by sexual orientatn, adds Rosser, who's recg participants for the first treatment study on gay and bisexual men wh prostate ncer. It don't matter if you're gay or straight, " says Michael Hoyt, an associate psychology profsor at Hunter College New York whose rearch based on a small foc group of gay prostate ncer survivors will soon be published.

ESSENTIALS FOR GAY MEN: TIME TO GET SER ABOUT DIETARY FIBRE

" Other Battl Some Gay Men Wh Prostate Cancer FaceWhile gay men seem to have about the same rat of prostate ncer as men general – makg the most diagnosed ncer among all men, acrdg to the Centers for Disease Control and Preventn – a review nducted by Rosser and lleagu suggts that gay survivors have poorer sexual functng and lower qualy of life. But for many gay men, workg wh a provir who knows and honors their sexual orientatn is important part bee more often than straight men, "sex, at some pot has been a cril part of their personal story, " Hoyt one participant his study, for example, who felt that his provirs' failure to acknowledge his sexualy was a blow to who he was as a person – and a patient. "Havg to fight battl and then havg a sexual self that you’ve fought for" should be acknowledged, he told the rearch a practil, medil standpot, too, unrstandg a patient's sexualy is important bee while all prostate ncer survivors have some sexual si effects om treatment, ankly, gay sex is different om straight sex – and treatment optns should be discsed acrdgly.

For example, erectile dysfunctn is a mon si effect of both radiatn and surgery to treat prostrate ncer – and n affect gay men's sex liv differently sce "they need firmer erectns for peratn" than they'd need for vagal terurse, Wtmann says.

HOW DIET COKE HELPED ME EMBRACE MY GAY INTY

" But support om the gay muny is cril for men wh prostate ncer, pecially nsirg some of them have been rejected by their own fay members or geographic muni for their sexual orientatn, Hoyt and others have reported. The book is supposedly, "a stylishly slimmg disurse that prov gay men really ARE French women: prone to disda, favorg cheeky unrwear, nvced of their own artistic brilliance, and (of urse) lorie-obssed. Y, every gay—at least those of the stereotypil abdomal-obssed physique that populat Fire Island and Palm Sprgs—is brought about bee gay men are aaid that they will be alone for the rt of their liv.

WHEN GAY MEN GET PROSTATE CANCER

That is why gay men don't get fat, bee if they don't have pecs, guns, and glut, they're gog home men, unlike their straight unterparts, don't have the luxury to stay "fightg shape" jt long enough to fd a partner before lettg their bodi fall to sh afterwords. Y, gay men go to the gym to stay petive, but sce the man-eatg marathon don't end after marriage, they jt keep on petg and petg until ath do they funny thg about the gay petn is that, bee men (pecially of the gay variety) are so visually stimulated, the only piece on the chs board that matters is havg that tradnal lean body. If you want to bed mcl you have to have mcl, if you want to land a twk, you better be a twk (or at least some other type that is easily st any gay porn movie), gay men e all shap and siz (embrace the rabow, people) but still gay culture and inography is largely domated by the same juiced-out body type (and awful tribal tattoos) that you'd fd on Jersey Shore.

While they might be reversg the normal athetic ials of gay culture and Amerin culture at large, they still discrimate jt as much based on physily as their circu party-lovg is tryg to palize on those skny gay men of legend, but what erns them and erns the bear is really the same thg: fear. Many gay men spend their adolcence as outsts or misfs, and when they fally get to a place where they n jo the gay culture at large, they react to their years of social solu by nformg wh the sort of fervor ually rerved for packs of teenage girls. Most gay men get for ee, and now, wh this book, you too n be a pariah for years, then enter a nformist culture of sual sex and glisteng bodi, followed by a lifetime of hookups wh your signifint other and the waxed dolphs you pick up on Grdr.

The prent study asssed differenc between gay and heterosexual men g the Male Eatg Behavr and Body Image Evaluatn (MEBBIE), an stment signed to asss attus and behavrs related to eatg, exercise and body image specifilly men. Analys of MEBBIE sle means wh body mass x (BMI) as the variate dited that, relative to their heterosexual unterparts, gay men diet more, are more fearful of beg fat, and are more dissatisfied wh their bodi general as well as wh their gree of mculary. Pla English summaryIt has been found that lbian, gay, bisexual, and transgenr (LGBT) adults and adolcents are more likely to suffer om mental illns due to experiencg greater strs, ed by stigma and prejudice.

THE REAL REASON GAY MEN DON'T GET FAT

This lerature review exam past rearch fdgs regardg eatg disorrs and disorred eatg behavrs for lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr and genr non-nformg adults and adolcents as a whole, as well as each dividual group.

The purpose of this rearch is to review the lerature regardg eatg disorrs and disorred eatg behavrs wh lbian, gay, bisexual, and transgenr (LGBT) adults and adolcents parison to their heterosexual and cisgenr unterparts.

Addnally, we examed four specific LGBT subgroups (lbian adults and adolcents; gay adults and adolcents; bisexual, mostly heterosexual, and qutng adults and adolcents; transgenr and genr non-nformg adults and adolcents), as well as risk factors for each mory strs mol (MSM) is often ed to expla mental health dispari sexual [121] and genr mory [76] groups. Mory strs mols pos that dividuals om LGBT populatns experience unique distal strsors, such as stigma and discrimatn, and proximal strsors, such as ternalized homophobia or transphobia and ncealment of sexual or genr inty [122] which turn lead to creased risk for the velopment of physil and mental health issu [26, 101, 118, 121, 122]. For example, one study found that sexual mory adolcents reported var forms of strs om the origal mol [121] cludg distal (discrimatn and victimizatn), proximal (expectatns of rejectn and ternalized stigma such as homophobia), and disclosure (ncealment strs), as well as vlence and social and verbal victimizatn [59].

GAY MEN MORE AT RISK OF EATG DISORRS, BUT FDG COMMUNY CAN BE HARD

G., gay men stereotypilly have a lean and mcular body); (3) genr inty, sexual orientatn, and race/ethnicy all uniquely ntributed to the prsure one felt to appear a certa way; and (4) LGBT-specific muny spac had the potential to be eher affirmg or nstrag to one’s appearance, that other sexual and genr mori were eher acceptg of a variety of body shap and siz, or rerced societal expectatns of the ial body rearch fdgs suggt that the sexual mory muny has both protective and trimental effects on adult LGB dividuals’ body image and eatg behavrs.

For adult lbians, risk factors related to sexual orientatn clud discrimatn, ncealment of sexual orientatn, ls volvement the LGB muny, ternalized homophobia, ternalized homonegativy, heterosexist experienc, proximal mory strs, lower sense of belongg to the lbian muny, anizatns, and iends, and stigma nscns [69, 70, 74, 107, 108, 109, 165].

BODY IMAGE, EATG BEHAVRS, AND ATTUS TOWARD EXERCISE AMONG GAY AND STRAIGHT MEN

Table 1 Eatg Disorr and Disorred Eatg Behavr Risk Factors Lbian Adults and AdolcentsFull size tableGay adults and adolcentsOverall, rearch has dited that both adult and adolcent gay mal were more likely to suffer om clil eatg disorrs or report disorred eatg behavrs pared to heterosexual mal, wh ltle variance the studi. Other studi also found gay adults to be at a higher risk for beg diagnosed wh an eatg disorr than their heterosexual unterparts [44, 53, 73] rearch fdgs suggt that gay adults reported more equent dietg and greater dietary rtrat, more bge eatg, ls ntrol over their eatg behavrs, more purgg, and more exercise than heterosexual men [56, 99, 139] and the fdgs are supported by more ntemporary rearch.

Compared to heterosexual men, gay adults reported creased rat of bge eatg, disorred eatg behavrs, unhealthy weight ntrol behavrs, food addictn, and diagnosed clil eatg disorrs, addn to poorer physil activy ([10, 20, 27, 54, 58, 67, 113, 127, 137, 141, 145, 146, 149, 152, 159, 161, 172, 173]). Further, was found that parison to their heterosexual unterparts, gay young adult and adolcent mal were more likely to engage exercisg wh tentn to lose weight, rtrictive eatg, fastg, bgeg, purgg, and e of diet pills, puttg them at an creased risk for eatg disorrs [6, 7, 31, 167, 168, 174].