Five Gay Catholic Observatns for 2022 | Eve Th

Contents:

• 'GAY AND CATHOLIC': A Q&A WH WRER AND SPEAKER EVE TH
• GAY AND CATHOLIC: ACCEPTG MY SEXUALY, FDG COMMUNY, LIVG MY FAH PAPERBACK – OCTOBER 20, 2014
• WHAT’S LIKE TO BE GAY AND CATHOLIC? AN TERVIEW WH EVE TH
• GAY AND CATHOLIC
• GAY AND CATHOLIC: ACCEPTG MY SEXUALY, FDG COMMUNY, LIVG MY FAH
• THE GAY CATHOLIC WRER WHO CHANGED MY LIFE
• GAY AND CATHOLIC: ACCEPTG MY SEXUALY, FDG COMMUNY, LIVG MY FAHGAY AND CATHOLIC: ACCEPTG MY SEXUALY, FDG COMMUNY, LIVG MY FAHGAY AND CATHOLIC: ACCEPTG MY SEXUALY, FDG COMMUNY, LIVG MY FAHGAY AND CATHOLIC: ACCEPTG MY SEXUALY, FDG COMMUNY, LIVG MY FAHGAY AND CATHOLIC: ACCEPTG MY SEXUALY, FDG COMMUNY, LIVG MY FAH
• FIVE GAY CATHOLIC OBSERVATNS FOR 2022
• A REVIEW OF GAY AND CATHOLIC BY EVE TH
• REPLACG PROBLEMS WH PERSONS: EVE TH’S NEW BOOK, GAY AND CATHOLIC

'GAY AND CATHOLIC': A Q&A WH WRER AND SPEAKER EVE TH

I wanted to wre a book which would clu some memoir ( orr to build tst, so people knew where I was g om), but which foced on the paths of love which are open to gay people the Church—pecially those paths which might be overlooked.

I wrote Tenrns: A Gay Christian’s Gui to Unlearng Rejectn and Experiencg God’s Extravagant Love (forthg November om Ave Maria Prs) for gay Christians who found that their relatnship wh God had been damaged by paful experienc or misguid teachg they’d received their church. You n thk of Gay and Catholic as a book about “horizontal love, ” the ways we love other people around , and Tenrns as a book about “vertil love, ” the love between the soul and God. I’ve known many people who were terrified of beg gay, believed they uld not possibly be gay, and, on the basis of that trmatized fear, entered heterosexual relatnships, cludg marriag.

But the narrative that homosexualy mt be ed by abe, and n therefore be “fixed” by healg the wounds of trma, has self ed immense harm to people who had this narrative imposed on them when didn’t f their story. So many people who grew up gay our church spent their formative years terrified and hidg, fearg that their attractns meant they uld never love God, that they disappoted Him, and that there was no future for them the Church, or only a future of isolatn and reprsn. I don’t thk I would have explored the Catholic history of iendship, the pth and bety iendship n hold for and the ways iendship n brg closer to God, if I hadn’t been gay.

GAY AND CATHOLIC: ACCEPTG MY SEXUALY, FDG COMMUNY, LIVG MY FAH PAPERBACK – OCTOBER 20, 2014

Gay people are redisverg the Scriptural and historil mols wh a special urgency, bee we had never been told that there were Christian mols for the same-sex love we longed for.

WHAT’S LIKE TO BE GAY AND CATHOLIC? AN TERVIEW WH EVE TH

Not every gay person is lled to the paths (jt as not every straight person is lled to marriage), but, my experience, knowg that there is orred same-sex love n change people’s relatnship to Scripture and Church teachg. I thk I’ve really stated above—I believe that same-sex love n be betiful and holy; that sex is not the right exprsn of this love (sce sex is rerved for the unn of a man and a woman marriage), but n be exprsed many good ways; and that gay people need, as the techism says, “rpect, passn, and sensivy, ” which too many of have not received om our fellow Catholics. When church teach that beg gay is a choice, that’s harmful self and also may lead parents to throw their gay children out of the hoe for “disobedience, ” ntributg to the horrific number of homels LGBT teenagers.

GAY AND CATHOLIC

I thk the fn of “nversn therapy” that mak the most sense is that ’s therapy where one of the primary purpos is to rce homosexualy and crease heterosexualy: a therapy which “succs” n be measured by gree of heterosexualy.

GAY AND CATHOLIC: ACCEPTG MY SEXUALY, FDG COMMUNY, LIVG MY FAH

I have iends who are gay and practicg Catholics who found the book spirg and helpful, and several of the prayer exercis the send half are really good—I quote one of them Tenrns. The posn you strike your article seems to agree wh those who hope to ban any type of therapy that helps persons unrstand their homosexual clatn or that attribut any environmental fluence such as trma or abe.

THE GAY CATHOLIC WRER WHO CHANGED MY LIFE

I knew that wasn’t te, and I’ve been very grateful for the chance to share the voic of people who have accepted themselv as gay and are seekg to live harmony wh the Church. Revoice is an ecumenil Christian nference; En Invatn is a Catholic group; and I’m volved wh the gay and lbian mistry at my church, which do a pretty good job at tryg to grow fahfulns, while welg people no matter what they believe.

I have iends who lost jobs or mistry posns bee they me out, or were outed by others—the are people who accepted their church’s teachg on sexual ethics, and sought to live by , but simply beg gay ma them “unf to serve. The homophobia I’ve experienced Catholic settgs has mostly manifted as spicn and unwillgns to listen: assumptns about my fay background (for example, speculatg on how my parents mt have ed my lbianism), sex life, or spirual life; repeated terrogatns about whether I “really” believe what I say I believe; and spicn of anythg I do to love eher another woman, or gay muni.

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I n’t tell you how many tim I’ve seen someone post a eply personal, heartfelt discsn of the spirual stggl they’ve experienced seekg to be fahful to Christ while growg self-acceptance and unlearng self-hatred… only to have somebody pop up the ments to rm them that beg gay is a s.

FIVE GAY CATHOLIC OBSERVATNS FOR 2022

In general, if you’re discsg the Catholic sexual ethic wh a gay person (or anybody, probably), ’s good to ask yourself what you have done to make yourself tstworthy this person’s ey.

I do not mean any offense to those wh same-sex attractn who don't label themselv as gay/purely homosexual) ratg is 3/5 bee as a straight person, gave me a b of sight on gay Catholocism, but I feel like offers much more sight on what means to be a child of God and one wh the Catholic fah.

A REVIEW OF GAY AND CATHOLIC BY EVE TH

We n exprs that love many non-sexual ways, even if secular society owns upon some thgs if there isn't a "label" attached to a "gay Catholic" book I feel 's a b "meh"; for a Catholic book on lovg others and fdg joy our votns (even when there are challeng), 's cent. It's an important thg to remember, no matter your is VERY important to gui others to the Catholic fah by answerg qutns that are actually asked, and not assumg we know what they're terted , pecially if they are gay.

REPLACG PROBLEMS WH PERSONS: EVE TH’S NEW BOOK, GAY AND CATHOLIC

Based on that last b, Th brgs forward a theme that "celibacy is not enough for gay people and that [they] mt cultivate an outward lookg spirualy, which seeks to love and serve others" ( page 79).

Non-homosexuals mt also remember that 'beg celibate' is ed different for homosexuals and sgle heterosexuals, and not bsh off as if there aren't different is historil evince of same-sex kship/iendships, to where fai were joed together. Thkg that there is somethg wrong wh you and that your homosexualy needs to be "healed" n hurt you and the people around you more than acceptg that you n't force an ner part of you to change. It also got nfg for me, knowg at an tellectual level that love for others isn't prohibed, even for gay people, but still feelg apprehensn about where the specific lims are.