Thomas Lloyd: Why am I "so gay?" | TED Talk

Contents:

• 17 SIGNS YOU'RE ACTUALLY GAY (AND JT DON'T KNOW IT)
• AM I GAY?
• HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY
• DO GOD STILL LOVE ME IF I’M GAY?
• HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM GAY? SIGNS YOU ARE GAY
• WHY AM I "SO GAY?"
• I’M GAYBOWLG FOR SOUPTRACK 4 ON THE GREAT BURRO EXTORTN CASE PRODUCED BYRS-T COBB & JARET RAY REDDICKNOV. 7, 20061 VIEWER6.1K VIEWS12 CONTRIBUTORSI’M GAY LYRICS[INTRO](THIS FUCKG SONG IS ALL PERSONALY)([LGHG])(DU, THAT'S THE SH!)[VERSE 1]WELL WE'VE ALL HEARD ABOUTHOW THE GUYS THE BANDWEREN'T THE POPULAR KIDS SCHOOLAND NOW YOU HATE YOUR PARENTSCSE OF THE WAY YOU TURNED OUTBUT THE END THE BLAME'S ON YOUAND WE ALL SYMPATHIZE WH YOUR TORN-APART HEARTSAND YOUR REALLY ARTISTIC WORLDLY VIEWSIT SELLS RERDS WHEN YOU'RE SAD THE DAYSIT'S SUPER OL TO BE MAD THE DAYS[PRE-CHOS]I THK ROCK AND ROLL IS REALLY FUNNYWHEN 'S SER[CHOS]DON'T HATE 'E WE'RE HAPPYDON'T HATE 'E WE'RE BETIFULDON'T HATE IF WE MAKE YOU SEOR IF WE GO THE EXTRA ETO MAKE SOMEONE FEEL BETTERON A REALLY SHTY DAYAND IF YOU'RE HEARG WHAT I'M SAYG THENI WANT TO HEAR YOU SAY, "I'M GAY!"(I'M GAY!)SAY, "I'M GAY!"(I'M GAY!)WHOOOOO!YOU MIGHT ALSO LIKE[VERSE 2]LET'S START A MOVEMENT, LET'S START RIGHT NOWAND IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHERE TO STARTI N SHOW YOU, I'M YOUR NEW TEAM PTAPUT YOUR LEFT HAND OVER YOUR HEARTAND REPEAT AFTER ME...[HOOK]IT'S PERFECTLY FE TO BE A HAPPY DIVIDUAL(IT'S PERFECTLY FE TO BE A HAPPY DIVIDUAL)CHRIS, GARY? (YEAH, BUDDY?) YOU GUYS WANNA JO ?(SURE. AH, MAN. SORRY, DU)IT'S PERFECTLY FE TO BE A HAPPY DIVIDUAL(IT'S PERFECTLY FE TO BE A HAPPY DIVIDUAL)VERY NICE. VERY - NICE[CHOS]DON'T HATE E WE'RE HAPPYDON'T HATE E WE'RE MISERABLEDON'T HATE IF WE MAKE YOU SEOR IF WE GO THE EXTRA ETO MAKE SOMEONE FEEL BETTER ON A REALLY SHTY DAYAND IF YOU'RE HEARG WHAT I'M SAYG THENI WANT TO HEAR YOU SAY, "I'M GAY!" (I'M GAY!)SAY, "I'M GAY!" (I'M GAY!)[BRIDGE]THAT'S RIGHT, LADI AND GENTLEMAN!PICK UP THE PHONECSE BOWLG FOR SOUP IS ON THE LE!AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE SAD ANYMORE!YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE MAD ANYMORE!WE N ALL JO HANDS AND DO RG AROUNDTHE EAKG ROSIE!IN FACT, N WE N GET SOME "LA LA"S UP HERE?IT SELLS RERDS WHEN YOU'RE SAD THE DAYSIT'S SUPER OL TO BE MAD THE DAYSI THK ROCK AND ROLL IS REALLY FUNNYWHEN 'S SER(YO, WHERE'RE MY "LA LA"S AT?)[OUTRO]LA LA-LA LA, LA-LA LA-LALA LA LA LALA LA-LA LA, LA-LA LA-LALA LA LA LALA LA-LA LA, LA-LA LA-LALA LA LA LALA LA-LA LA, LA-LA LA-LALA LA LA LALA LA-LA LA, LA-LA LA-LA1EMBEDCANCELHOW TO FORMAT LYRICS:TYPE OUT ALL LYRICS, EVEN REPEATG SONG PARTS LIKE THE CHOSLYRICS SHOULD BE BROKEN DOWN TO DIVIDUAL LUSE SECTN HEARS ABOVE DIFFERENT SONG PARTS LIKE [VERSE], [CHOS], ETC.USE ALICS (<I>LYRIC</I>) AND BOLD (<B>LYRIC</B>) TO DISTGUISH BETWEEN DIFFERENT VOLISTS THE SAME SONG PARTIF YOU DON’T UNRSTAND A LYRIC, E [?]TO LEARN MORE, CHECK OUT OUR TRANSCRIPTN GUI OR VIS OUR TRANSCRIBERS FOMABOUTTHIS SONG B IS UNREVIEWEDGENI ANNOTATN1 NTRIBUTOR“I’M GAY” WAS RELEASED BY BOWLG FOR SOUP 2006. IT IS THE FOURTH TRACK ON “THE GREAT BURRO EXTORTN CASE”.EXPAND +6SHAREASK A QUTN ABOUT THIS SONGASK A QUTN *‌WHO PRODUCED “I'M GAY” BY BOWLG FOR SOUP?WHEN DID BOWLG FOR SOUP RELEASE “I'M GAY”?WHO WROTE “I'M GAY” BY BOWLG FOR SOUP?THE GREAT BURRO EXTORTN CASE (2006)BOWLG FOR SOUP1. EPIPHANY2. HIGH SCHOOL NEVER ENDS3. VAL KILMER4. I’M GAY5. WHY DON’T I MISS YOU?6. A FRIENDLY GOODBYE7. LUCKIT LOSER8. LOVE SICK STOMACH ACHE (SUGAR COATED ACCINT)9. MUCH MORE BETIFUL PERSON10. FRIENDS LIKE YOU11. WHEN WE DIE12. 99 BIKER FRIENDS13. DON’T LET IT BE LOVE14. IF YOU COME BACK TO ME/OUTRO15. EVERYDAY’S A SATURDAY16. NO OPN17. .. ONE MORE TIME18. HOME ALONEIF YOU COME BACK TO MECREDSPRODUCED BYRS-T COBB & JARET RAY REDDICKWRTEN BYJARET RAY REDDICKRELEASE DATENOVEMBER 7, 2006TAGSPOPPOP-PUNKEXPAND COMMENTSADD A MENTSIGN UP AND DROP KNOWLEDGE ?GENI IS THE ULTIMATE SOURCE OF MIC KNOWLEDGE, CREATED BY SCHOLARS LIKE YOU WHO SHARE FACTS AND SIGHT ABOUT THE SONGS AND ARTISTS THEY LOVE.SIGN UPGENI IS THE WORLD’S BIGGT LLECTN OF SONG LYRICS AND MIL KNOWLEDGE

17 SIGNS YOU'RE ACTUALLY GAY (AND JT DON'T KNOW IT)

That's right Cdy, I'm gay. I a't gay!

Do this shirt make me look gay?

“Am I gay? Beg gay is really no big al. It’s the twenty first century and if someone’s gog to be a judgmental ltle hoe, then they don’t serve to be your v gay life.

AM I GAY?

So if you n relate to the signs then you’re actually gay (you jt don’t know yet). One of your top ten experienc was at a Pri para where you were surround by the most tertg, fun strangers you have ever enuntered, and no one you knew was there to judge you, or the only people you knew there were gay.

HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY

You sometim thk about what would be like to tell your parents, extend fay, and iends that you are gay. You believe equaly, love diversy, have liberal views, and are mted to seeg gay marriage legalized every untry.

Are you gay, whout even knowg ? Even if every em on the list applied to you, don’t mean you’re gay.

Remember that sexualy is not limed to gay and straight. If you are gay, I really, really hope you know , and enurage you to be your te self. Gay - While this adjective has historilly scribed men who are attracted to other men, the term now is ed to refer to anyone who experienc romantic, emotnal, or physil attractn to people of the same genr.

DO GOD STILL LOVE ME IF I’M GAY?

Sce genr inty and sexual orientatn are separate, transgenr people n intify as straight, gay, lbian, bisexual, etc. |Intifyg as Gay. Gay dividuals are romantilly or sexually attracted to people who are the same genr as them.

HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM GAY? SIGNS YOU ARE GAY

If you’re more aroed by people who are the same genr as you, you might be gay.

WHY AM I "SO GAY?"

Keep md that experienc of sexual aroal are extremely nuanced, and aren’t ncrete proof that you’re gay. For stance, you n be aroed by gay adult media whout necsarily beg gay yourself.

If you tend to velop csh on people who are the same genr as you, uld be a sign that you’re gay.

You n be gay even if you’ve had straight relatnships the past. If you felt unfortable wh physil ntact wh each girl, you may be gay.

I’M GAYBOWLG FOR SOUPTRACK 4 ON THE GREAT BURRO EXTORTN CASE PRODUCED BYRS-T COBB & JARET RAY REDDICKNOV. 7, 20061 VIEWER6.1K VIEWS12 CONTRIBUTORSI’M GAY LYRICS[INTRO](THIS FUCKG SONG IS ALL PERSONALY)([LGHG])(DU, THAT'S THE SH!)[VERSE 1]WELL WE'VE ALL HEARD ABOUTHOW THE GUYS THE BANDWEREN'T THE POPULAR KIDS SCHOOLAND NOW YOU HATE YOUR PARENTSCSE OF THE WAY YOU TURNED OUTBUT THE END THE BLAME'S ON YOUAND WE ALL SYMPATHIZE WH YOUR TORN-APART HEARTSAND YOUR REALLY ARTISTIC WORLDLY VIEWSIT SELLS RERDS WHEN YOU'RE SAD THE DAYSIT'S SUPER OL TO BE MAD THE DAYS[PRE-CHOS]I THK ROCK AND ROLL IS REALLY FUNNYWHEN 'S SER[CHOS]DON'T HATE 'E WE'RE HAPPYDON'T HATE 'E WE'RE BETIFULDON'T HATE IF WE MAKE YOU SEOR IF WE GO THE EXTRA ETO MAKE SOMEONE FEEL BETTERON A REALLY SHTY DAYAND IF YOU'RE HEARG WHAT I'M SAYG THENI WANT TO HEAR YOU SAY, "I'M GAY!"(I'M GAY!)SAY, "I'M GAY!"(I'M GAY!)WHOOOOO!YOU MIGHT ALSO LIKE[VERSE 2]LET'S START A MOVEMENT, LET'S START RIGHT NOWAND IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHERE TO STARTI N SHOW YOU, I'M YOUR NEW TEAM PTAPUT YOUR LEFT HAND OVER YOUR HEARTAND REPEAT AFTER ME...[HOOK]IT'S PERFECTLY FE TO BE A HAPPY DIVIDUAL(IT'S PERFECTLY FE TO BE A HAPPY DIVIDUAL)CHRIS, GARY? (YEAH, BUDDY?) YOU GUYS WANNA JO ?(SURE. AH, MAN. SORRY, DU)IT'S PERFECTLY FE TO BE A HAPPY DIVIDUAL(IT'S PERFECTLY FE TO BE A HAPPY DIVIDUAL)VERY NICE. VERY - NICE[CHOS]DON'T HATE E WE'RE HAPPYDON'T HATE E WE'RE MISERABLEDON'T HATE IF WE MAKE YOU SEOR IF WE GO THE EXTRA ETO MAKE SOMEONE FEEL BETTER ON A REALLY SHTY DAYAND IF YOU'RE HEARG WHAT I'M SAYG THENI WANT TO HEAR YOU SAY, "I'M GAY!" (I'M GAY!)SAY, "I'M GAY!" (I'M GAY!)[BRIDGE]THAT'S RIGHT, LADI AND GENTLEMAN!PICK UP THE PHONECSE BOWLG FOR SOUP IS ON THE LE!AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE SAD ANYMORE!YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE MAD ANYMORE!WE N ALL JO HANDS AND DO RG AROUNDTHE EAKG ROSIE!IN FACT, N WE N GET SOME "LA LA"S UP HERE?IT SELLS RERDS WHEN YOU'RE SAD THE DAYSIT'S SUPER OL TO BE MAD THE DAYSI THK ROCK AND ROLL IS REALLY FUNNYWHEN 'S SER(YO, WHERE'RE MY "LA LA"S AT?)[OUTRO]LA LA-LA LA, LA-LA LA-LALA LA LA LALA LA-LA LA, LA-LA LA-LALA LA LA LALA LA-LA LA, LA-LA LA-LALA LA LA LALA LA-LA LA, LA-LA LA-LALA LA LA LALA LA-LA LA, LA-LA LA-LA1EMBEDCANCELHOW TO FORMAT LYRICS:TYPE OUT ALL LYRICS, EVEN REPEATG SONG PARTS LIKE THE CHOSLYRICS SHOULD BE BROKEN DOWN TO DIVIDUAL LUSE SECTN HEARS ABOVE DIFFERENT SONG PARTS LIKE [VERSE], [CHOS], ETC.USE ALICS (<I>LYRIC</I>) AND BOLD (<B>LYRIC</B>) TO DISTGUISH BETWEEN DIFFERENT VOLISTS THE SAME SONG PARTIF YOU DON’T UNRSTAND A LYRIC, E [?]TO LEARN MORE, CHECK OUT OUR TRANSCRIPTN GUI OR VIS OUR TRANSCRIBERS FOMABOUTTHIS SONG B IS UNREVIEWEDGENI ANNOTATN1 NTRIBUTOR“I’M GAY” WAS RELEASED BY BOWLG FOR SOUP 2006. IT IS THE FOURTH TRACK ON “THE GREAT BURRO EXTORTN CASE”.EXPAND +6SHAREASK A QUTN ABOUT THIS SONGASK A QUTN *‌WHO PRODUCED “I'M GAY” BY BOWLG FOR SOUP?WHEN DID BOWLG FOR SOUP RELEASE “I'M GAY”?WHO WROTE “I'M GAY” BY BOWLG FOR SOUP?THE GREAT BURRO EXTORTN CASE (2006)BOWLG FOR SOUP1. EPIPHANY2. HIGH SCHOOL NEVER ENDS3. VAL KILMER4. I’M GAY5. WHY DON’T I MISS YOU?6. A FRIENDLY GOODBYE7. LUCKIT LOSER8. LOVE SICK STOMACH ACHE (SUGAR COATED ACCINT)9. MUCH MORE BETIFUL PERSON10. FRIENDS LIKE YOU11. WHEN WE DIE12. 99 BIKER FRIENDS13. DON’T LET IT BE LOVE14. IF YOU COME BACK TO ME/OUTRO15. EVERYDAY’S A SATURDAY16. NO OPN17. .. ONE MORE TIME18. HOME ALONEIF YOU COME BACK TO MECREDSPRODUCED BYRS-T COBB & JARET RAY REDDICKWRTEN BYJARET RAY REDDICKRELEASE DATENOVEMBER 7, 2006TAGSPOPPOP-PUNKEXPAND COMMENTSADD A MENTSIGN UP AND DROP KNOWLEDGE ?GENI IS THE ULTIMATE SOURCE OF MIC KNOWLEDGE, CREATED BY SCHOLARS LIKE YOU WHO SHARE FACTS AND SIGHT ABOUT THE SONGS AND ARTISTS THEY LOVE.SIGN UPGENI IS THE WORLD’S BIGGT LLECTN OF SONG LYRICS AND MIL KNOWLEDGE

If you often fantasize about relatnships volvg specific genrs, you may be queer or gay. You may be gay, but you uld also be pansexual or bisexual if you sometim thk about the other genr. Don’t assume you’re gay based on how you walk, talk, or drs.