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LTLE BRA’S MATT LUS SAYS ‘ONLY GAY THE VILLAGE’ WAS MEANT TO BE A ‘CELEBRATN’ OF GAY PEOPLE

The edian and actor says the 'only gay the village' character Dafydd Thomas was meant as entertament, not as a tool for bullyg. * the gay in the village *

Matt says the character was meant to be a ‘celebratn’ of gay people (Picture: Rex Featur, BBC)Comedian and actor Matt Lus has spoken out about his ntroversial Ltle Bra character Dafydd Thomas, better known as ‘the only gay the village’. Matt said he knows the character has been ed as a tool to bully young gay people, but sists that was not the show’s tentn. ‘I have had people who had ‘you are the only gay the village’ said to them and to was meant to be a celebratn, ’ he told Richard Herrg’s RHLSTP podst.

‘But people were labelled ‘the only gay the village’ at school. It was meant as entertament, not to make young gay people sad. Sce the show end 2005, the sketch has gaed a lot of cricism for s ls than plimentary portrayal of gay men.

THIS IS WHAT IT'S LIKE TO BE GAY THE COUNTRYSI

The History of the Gay Village - Gay Realtor News Headl * the gay in the village *

The character is emed offensive by many (Picture: BBC)‘I remember thkg there was a greeds to Ltle Bra and we jt wanted to show off as many characters as possible so we played black, whe, straight, gay, male, female, tall, short, whatever, ’ the 45-year-old told the podst. This article origally appeared on VICE her childhood, ep the hills of ral Shropshire, the gay postman om my mother's village hanged himself. This was the 50s, when homosexualy was still illegal; when love had to be hidn behd the sexls screen of a sham marriage and the shame of your heart's sire end up tied around your throat like a, you may thk, has changed.

While shows like Cucumber celebrate the world of urban gay culture (although 's taken long enough for a gay televisn program to e along aga), the liv of young LGBT farmers, herdsman, gamekeepers, and shop owners seem as silent as a stillborn lamb. Oh sure, The Archers has one gay uple.

GAY UPL AT HOME THE VILLAG

Today, Manchter's Gay Village is a verable party district. Take om someone who lived above one of s bit nightclubs. * the gay in the village *

But young, sexually-active, amb gay people livg the untrysi? "We have always had lbian, gay, bisexual, and trans members on the webse sce we lnched 2007, " says Heather Brown, om the datg webse Muddy Match.

"At the moment, we have almost three tim as many gay and bisexual men than we do lbian or bisexual women. 7 percent of women intified as gay or bisexual. "I grew up a ltle village Shropshire on the si of a hill, surround by fields, wh no street lights or tarmac, " says Josh, a young gay man I spoke to via email.

Not only was there no one I uld theoretilly date but there was also no one I uld really talk to about datg or beg gay.

THE HISTORY OF THE GAY VILLAGE

"While homosexualy isn't a purely urban phenomenon, nor is homophobia a purely ral problem.

"There's this belief that big smopolan ci have the least prejudice to race and sexualy, " says a young gay mother who recently moved back to the Cumbrian village where she was raised. When we were livg Newstle and workg for the ernment we enuntered a lot more homophobia, pecially when my wife stggled to get paterny leave for the birth of our first child.

"At school I always had girliends—I thk that's bee I love beg around women—but I only had my first gay relatnship when I moved to Manchter. Enough to support the next generatn of gay vets, beaters, u pickers, and farmers. How AIDS shattered the silence about gay liv.

A MANC’S GUI TO: THE GAY VILLAGE, MORE THAN JT A LATE-NIGHT PARTY DISTRICT

A longtime hangout for lbians and their iends, the Cubbyhole is one of the few lbian bars a neighborhood where the morn gay rights movement got natnal attentn after a police raid at the nearby Stonewall Inn on June 28, 1969. “The gay pri para wasn’t a para, ” Grant said. Today she walks past the “Gay Liberatn” (1980) statu by sculptor Gee Segal Christopher Park, protected 2016 along wh the Stonewall Inn as a Natnal Park Service se, by then-Print Barack Obama.

This is where she would get a drk at the Cubbyhole or dance until dawn at Garbo’s lbian bar or Cnamon Productns monthly danc for women of lor at Octagon (a gay men’s club), followed by chicken and waffl at the Pk Tea Cup, a soul food rtrant.

Vcent’s Hospal to say goodbye to her gay male iends dyg of AIDS, and head out to the streets to prott for the rourc to fd a cure.

GAY VILLAGE

That means gay-themed books n be found at Barn and Noble, and now Amazon, and LGBTQ upl n hold hands at rtrants and bars that serve a wir muny. The Lbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgenr Communy Center, now on Wt 13th Street, is Grant’s startg pot for any LGBTQ newbi to New York Cy. And she’ll still head to the Cubbyhole or Henrietta Hudson for a drk, a spot that charg ls than the typil New York pric for s drks, where baby dyk and veterans of the gay civil rights movement hang out, listen to tun om the jebox and talk about the tensn between progrs and rememberg where you me om.

THE ONLY GAY THE VILLAGE? EVERYDAY LIFE OF GAYS AND LBIANS RAL SLOVENIA

As they gather at the Cubbyhole, Grant and her iends hope that other lbians, gay men, bisexual and transgenr people – both whe and people of lor – will remember the battl long and hard fought. "You n tell jt about anyone around here that you're gay, and you won't have a problem, '' said Villag rint Lda Bernat. Wily known as a cril votg bloc for right-wg ndidat, is also, ls nspicuoly, home to a thrivg gay Rabow club has no head unt — years of discrimatn have ma the gay muny leery of lists — but emails reach close to 2, leads to creasgly crlo qutns:1.

What would posss so many gays to live a rabidly right-wg muny? How did the gay muny feel fortable enough to throw weekly dance parti at a untry club?

(It's also why lbians say they far outnumber gay men here. ''It was the ncept of never havg to leave the neighborhood — the Villag has more than 100 rtrants, 45 golf urs, partment stor and almost every other necsy — that attracted Garv and O'Donnell om San Diego a social clubs for every nceivable persuasn already the Villag, the ia of gettg gay rints together seemed a is, until O'Donnell and Garv first tried 10 years ago. We met wh a lot of ristance om the gay muny, '' Garv said.

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