After Craigslist and Manhunt, Here is Where Gays Will Get Their Clicks

Contents:

• ALL QUEER PEOPLE HAVE 'GAY ANXIETY' THAT CHANG OUR DAY-TO-DAY LIFE
• GAY HOOKUP : 10+ BT GAY HOOKUP S AND APPS
• AFTER CRAIGSLIST AND MANHUNT, HERE IS WHERE GAYS WILL GET THEIR CLICKS

ALL QUEER PEOPLE HAVE 'GAY ANXIETY' THAT CHANG OUR DAY-TO-DAY LIFE

I suffer om an unpleasant, sometim paralyzg, ndn lots of gay people have mon: gay me, my gay anxiety  on really strong when I get a manicure, which sucks bee this self-intified masra lbian lov to gaze down at her shy, ep red nails.

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And my iends who are more visibly gay suffer om the same anxiety, only 's rooted a different fear beg harassed the streets, they fear their visibily will make them a dangero target and, sometim, they wonr if they should tone down their gayns jt to be ls vulnerable certa we are who we are, and sadly, we live a world that's unpredictable for gay people.

GAY HOOKUP : 10+ BT GAY HOOKUP S AND APPS

And now that we're gog to be unr the thumb of Tmp and Pence, I feel even more you have a homophobic lear who thks beg gay is herently wrong and that wh enough "therapy, " you n turn straight, 's now totally OK for every other homophobic person to exprs their bigotry as well.

In fact, 's already started are who we are, and sadly, we live a world that's unpredictable for gay how do we al wh the gay anxiety? "I might suffer om gay anxiety, but that don't mean the anxiety has to w. You get up on stage and perform the play, even when you're so nervo, you vomed right before the curtas really, your homophobia isn't my problem.

If a person is homophobic, then 's their personal problem they need to work through. In fact, I uld remend Pence a great therapist to help him get over his ep-rooted, emotnal issue wh gay 's not my job to hold another human's fear or to stifle somethg so natural and nonthreateng jt bee someone is eaked out by what's unfaiar to most importantly, 's not my job to make anyone feel maybe speakg the tth will be the very thg that lifts my anxiety.

AFTER CRAIGSLIST AND MANHUNT, HERE IS WHERE GAYS WILL GET THEIR CLICKS

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