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Contents:

• 11 THGS I LEARNED ON MY 1ST GAY CISE
• CISG 101: A GAY MAN'S GUI TO MAKG MORE AND MORE-SATISFYG SOCIAL CONNECTNS
• CISG 101: A GAY MAN’S GUI TO MAKG MORE AND MORE-SATISFYG SOCIAL CONNECTNS
• 12 TOP GAY CIS YOU DON’T WANT TO MISS 2023 AND 2024
• THE 8 TOP GAY CIS FOR 2023
• DIRTY DICKSONE OF THE OLST GAY CISE BAR AMSTERDAM WH A REPUTATN FOR FAMO PARTI.HOTELS · LUXURYHOTELS · MID-RANGE + BUDGETON TODAYBARSDANCE CLUBSCISE CLUBSDRAG SHOWSLBIAN BARSSNASRTRANTSSHOPSGYMSSERVICTOURSMASSAGECY GUIGAY MAPNETHERLANDS EVENTSSHOW MOREDIRTY DICKS

11 THGS I LEARNED ON MY 1ST GAY CISE

Wh every new generatn of gay and bisexual men a new generatn of cisers.

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Cisg 101: A Gay Man's Gui to Makg More and More-Satisfyg Social ConnectnsMake more and more-satisfyg nnectns gay social suatns by applyg a few, simple techniqu based peer-unselg trag. There are good reasons why gay men bars fail to nnect, and unrstandg the n help overe the ual obstacl, makg one's time bars or other gay social suatns more satisfyg.

CISG 101: A GAY MAN'S GUI TO MAKG MORE AND MORE-SATISFYG SOCIAL CONNECTNS

EbookPublished September 10, 2017About the thorRatgs & ReviewsFriends & Followg Communy ReviewsDisplayg 1 of 1 review159 reviews1 followerMarch 1, 2019A short but sightful primer for Gay Men on how to iate posive social nnectns. Arsh Raziudd, The History Project: Documentg LGBTQ Boston; Luciano Marqu/ShutterstockCisg the Age of ConsentGay men once veloped s to ensure safety the hunt for sex.

Edor’s Note: This article is part of a seri about the gay-rights movement and the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall uprisg. Huntg for answers to one of life’s great qutns, the lbian wrer Ra Mae Brown pasted on a mtache 1975 and walked to a bathhoe for gay men. But many gay men might not fd the scene so strange.

Even so, 50 years after a police raid on the Stonewall Inn talyzed the mastream LGBTQ movement, gay people still mata spher of separatn om the wir world: nightclubs, vatn spots, and datg apps where like n meet like.

CISG 101: A GAY MAN’S GUI TO MAKG MORE AND MORE-SATISFYG SOCIAL CONNECTNS

”Sex spac such as the ll back to when queer life had to be furtive, for fear of danger, but also when, almost paradoxilly, gay men found safety and eroticism by surrenrg privacy together. Cisg gay Ameri now mostly happens onle, but some patterns of behavr haven’t died.

12 TOP GAY CIS YOU DON’T WANT TO MISS 2023 AND 2024

To dance on a summer night at Provcetown’s Atlantic Hoe, one of the untry’s olst gay bars, is to feel the loss of bodily tonomy that any crowd supercharged by the wi prumptn of flirtg.

It was also lghed off as “gays beg gays, ” as my somewhat rattled iend put after he phed his way out om unr the beg gays sounds a lot like the boys will be boys exce-makg that the #MeToo movement has discreded. ” She unrstood gay male spac as different—not jt bee of the force of the grabs, but also bee of their ntext.

”Today, a related qutn looms for gay men.

THE 8 TOP GAY CIS FOR 2023

In tth, gay male spac—physil, digal, cultural—reflect a long and imperfect procs of managg what happens when masculy, homosexualy, and an often hostile wir society tersect. But the male genr is the one that is most urgently beg lled to acunt lately—and a room full of gay men is a room full of enough, gay men joed the reckong almost as soon as #MeToo went supernova, late 2017. Yet as alarm has tensified about dnken, horny subcultur of straight folks—nightclubs, at parti, mic ftivals where women report rampant ab—some gay men have begun to wonr whether their own nfabs are nsent tastroph.

Broachg that ia public risks revivg old imag of gay promiscuy and predatn at jt the moment when such stereotyp are losg their be, thanks to the growg visibily of the queer experience all s variety.

Vis a gay bar wh me, ” the journalist Marc Ambr wrote a 2017 USA Today lumn about the way queer guys grd and grope on the dance floor. Gay men, he wrote, “n eher start the work now, makg clear-munited nsent a foundatn of our teractns, or we n wa for a sndal to igne. ”That unwanted advanc equently harm gay men is already clear.

DIRTY DICKSONE OF THE OLST GAY CISE BAR AMSTERDAM WH A REPUTATN FOR FAMO PARTI.HOTELS · LUXURYHOTELS · MID-RANGE + BUDGETON TODAYBARSDANCE CLUBSCISE CLUBSDRAG SHOWSLBIAN BARSSNASRTRANTSSHOPSGYMSSERVICTOURSMASSAGECY GUIGAY MAPNETHERLANDS EVENTSSHOW MOREDIRTY DICKS

Acrdg to a CDC survey based on self-reports, the share of gay men who have experienced sexual vlence other than rape is almost as great as the share of straight and lbian women who have. Gay men often don’t report attacks to thori out of fear of beg outed, mistreated by homophobic ps, and subjected to stigmas that st male victims as petg explanatns for the particular malens of predatn, one theory rts heavily on blogy, and the gay cisg mentaly n serve as a prop for that se.

It also impli a prsg perspective on homosexualy. Here, too, gay men n be ployed as an object lson.

” Plenty of gay scen are ed steeped machismo: Jt check out self-proclaimed “Masc4Masc” Grdr ers who sneer at lisps and loose wrists.