I owe my happs to the queer iends I ma. And to my younger self who hated beg gay: all is fiven, says i newspaper lumnist Eleanor Margolis
Contents:
- ‘I FELL LOVE WH A GAY MAN AND NEARLY BROKE ME’
- ‘HE BROKE MY HEART TO A BILLN PIEC’: WHEN A STRAIGHT WOMAN FALLS LOVE WH A GAY MAN
- WHAT I LEARNED ABOUT MYSELF AFTER YEARS OF FALLG FOR GAY MEN
- IT TOOK ME A LONG TIME, BUT I’VE FALLY FALLEN LOVE WH BEG GAY
‘I FELL LOVE WH A GAY MAN AND NEARLY BROKE ME’
Fallg love wh a straight guy n be a paful experience, pecially for gay men who yearn for a romantic nnectn wh someone who is not terted them romantilly.
And as a Gay Datg & Relatnship Coach, I’ve worked wh many clients who have experienced the pa of fallg for straight guys. The pa of unrequed love n be overwhelmg, and ’s a feelg that many gay men n relate to.
Is bee you’re not ready to e out, or bee you’re aaid of beg rejected by someone who is gay?
‘HE BROKE MY HEART TO A BILLN PIEC’: WHEN A STRAIGHT WOMAN FALLS LOVE WH A GAY MAN
Once you’ve intified your patterns, start askg yourself why you’re not allowg yourself to fall for gay guys.
Is a fear of rejectn, or a fear of beg seen as too gay?
While fallg for straight guys n be a paful experience, some gay men might feel like there are benefs to as well.
WHAT I LEARNED ABOUT MYSELF AFTER YEARS OF FALLG FOR GAY MEN
For example, if you’re fallg love wh a straight guy, means you don’t have to put yourself out there and risk rejectn om someone who is gay. As a Gay Datg & Relatnship Coach, I’ve worked wh many clients who have experienced the pa of fallg for straight guys.
IT TOOK ME A LONG TIME, BUT I’VE FALLY FALLEN LOVE WH BEG GAY
Many gay men who have fallen for straight guys might wonr if ’s possible for a straight guy to fall love wh a guy.
While some people might intify as gay, straight, or bisexual, there are also people who fall somewhere between or who don’t intify wh any particular label.