Joe Kort, Ph.D., talks about his new book, "Is My Hband Gay, Straight, or Bi?"
Contents:
- IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR BOYIEND IS GAY
- HOW TO DISCREETLY FD OUT IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS GAY
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
- PEOPLE N INTIFY WHETHER A MAN IS GAY OR STRAIGHT BY THEIR VOICE. BISEXUALS? NOT SO MUCH
- AM I GAY?
- 9 SIGNS TO WATCH OUT FOR IF YOU THK YOUR BOYIEND IS GAY
- HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM GAY? SIGNS YOU ARE GAY
- HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY
IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
* how to tell if a man is gay or bi *
In addn to gay, lbian, bisexual, and straight, they uld intify wh one of the followg:[6]. In his Royal Oaks, Michigan, practice, Joe specializ Gay Affirmative Psychotherapy and IMAGO Relatnship Therapy, often treatg men who are qutng their sexual orientatn. This populatn is the foc of his new and much-need book: Is My Hband Gay, Straight, or Bi?
Number one is the high cince of male-female upl enterg my office bee the woman thks her man might be gay. He’s actually straight, but for whatever reason, he’s been lookg at gay porn or he’s been havg sex wh men. A lot of the time the men e on their own and they’re holdg my book about g out as gay, and they want to know, “Is this me?
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And I thk ’s very important to state right here that I’m a gay man, yet here I am sayg that most of the time the men who are beg sexual wh other men aren’t gay.
HOW TO DISCREETLY FD OUT IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS GAY
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That’s unual, bee most gay men, even most gay therapists, believe that if a guy is havg gay sex, he’s gay. ” I always joke wh clients that for me, as a gay man, when I’m walkg on the beach and checkg people out, the women are the way.
Wh gay clients, they say they feel the same way; wh bisexual clients, they say they’re lookg at both the men and the women; wh straight clients, they say they’re lookg only at the women. When a man is a long-term relatnship wh a woman but beg sexual wh men, eher lookg at porn or havg actual sex, he eher will or won’t be homophobic.
The straight men have no homophobia at all—to the pot where they’re willg to seek unselg om me, an openly gay therapist. A lot of tim the gay men never even make to me (whout promptg om their wife, anyway) bee they’re riddled wh homophobia and I’m too gay for them.
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
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So if a client is stgglg wh his sexual orientatn and he’s got a lot of homophobia, he’s probably gay.
A gay guy wants to do all of that wh a man, a bisexual guy might want a man or a woman, and the straight guy wants to only be wh a woman that way. He’s been lookg at gay porn or he’s been hookg up wh guys he meets through Craigslist. Even if he’s nfed and don’t want to e out as gay, this is who he is and over time that will e out.
So this is a way of bondg wh men—ironilly, through sex—and happens not bee the man is gay but bee he don’t know any other way to get this need met. The reason is that the guy really is gay and he wants to exprs that sexually and romantilly.
PEOPLE N INTIFY WHETHER A MAN IS GAY OR STRAIGHT BY THEIR VOICE. BISEXUALS? NOT SO MUCH
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Eher they’re worried that their man will eventually ci he’s gay and end the relatnship, or they want monogamy, and his cheatg is a threat to the marriage regardls of who he’s dog wh.
And I should pot out here that the men when they’re engagg this behavr (regardls of whether they’re gay, straight or bi) nearly always tell themselv that what they’re dog is not cheatg bee they’re dog wh a guy. If you're a woman, you may have noticed thgs about your boyiend that lead you to believe he's gay or terted men. There are many reasons why someone might act this way, so this by self is not a surefire sign that he’s gay.
If you believe your boyiend lov and r for you but he "seems to be gay, " keep md that he uld be bisexual, pansexual, or terted men. There are several inti which someone n be terted more than one genr, so don't thk he's "jt gay".
AM I GAY?
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If you stumble upon evince of gay porn on his puter or phone, though, that may be a ltle different. If he’s gay, he might thrive on other men’s attentn, equently touch or hug them, or exchange flirty ments wh them (pecially about their physil appearance). Notice if he equently hangs out wh his gay iends, or jos them on nights out at LGBTQ+ bars and clubs.
” Notice if he acts unfortable around gay men, regularly mak homophobic ments or jok, or liberately never talks about anythg remotely gay. He might also be wrtlg wh ternalized homophobia or self-loathg bee of the nflict between his inty and his upbrgg. An enunter his teen or llege years is more likely to mean he’s gay or queer than an experience later life, which uld have more plex explanatns.
Don’t rely on gay stereotyp like an effemate voice or walk, flashy or tight clothg, his TV and mic preferenc, or beg a neat eak to terme your boyiend’s sexualy.
9 SIGNS TO WATCH OUT FOR IF YOU THK YOUR BOYIEND IS GAY
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HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM GAY? SIGNS YOU ARE GAY
It n be hard to tell if a guy is to you or not, pecially if you’re not sure if he’s gay or straight. If you want to know whether your csh lik closeted gay men or women, nsir who they typilly date and which genr has ught his attentn. Signs he is gay and hidg : It’s impossible to know someone else’s reveals personal thgs, but if a man tri hard enough not to be out, there might be somethg evil.
A person should never have the right nor assume what others want om them jt bee they’re gay- pecially when time to e clean about one’s sexualy!
Down-low is a term ed to scribe gay men who intify as straight men but secretly have love wh other men. It n be challengg to tell if a closeted gay man is hidg his sexualy, but there are some telltale signs. Figurg out if someone of the same genr is attracted to you n be difficult, but ’s tough when you’re not sure if the other person is even terted gay guys.
HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY
They might intify wh the terms gay, lbian or bisexual pendg on their sexual preferenc for genr inty and not necsarily sexual orientatn. Some gay people choose to tell close iends or fay first, while others prefer to e out publicly. Pay attentn to how he teracts wh other gay people and see if he seems like he’s tryg too hard to f .