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(And by glory, we mean all the big, betiful moments and otherworldly ltle tails that make makg and fallg queer love so, so fun.)</em> <a href="><em>Read more om the seri</em> <em>here</em></a><em>.</em></p><p>The day after I moved to my apartment, my upstairs neighbor was outsi waterg the garn. “Let’s exchange numbers,” she said when I walked outsi. “My name is San Grimm, like those brothers. And my wife is Anne, I’ll spell her last name. It’s ‘B’ as bch.”</p><div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--article-mid-ntent" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-unslot nsumer-marketg-unslot--article-mid-ntent nsumer-marketg-unslot---ntent"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><p>I lghed so hard then that was months before I actually figured out Anne’s last name.</p><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><p>In those months between, I learned that San and Anne (66 and 67 rpectively) moved to San Francis after fallg love llege, jt around the time when Harvey (as Milk, as they were on a first-name basis) was elected. They partied at Sylvter’s place (as the dis in, as their iend dated him for a while), and have been married twice (both tim to each other — Prop 8 cut the first one short).</p><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad---ntent"><div class="adslot adslot---ntent" data-no-id="aq122p"></div></div><p>Unfortunately, I wasn’t born to gay moms, but San and Anne baked me a homema chicken pot pie the day I moved , and sometim San lets herself through our backdoor and leav h lemons she picks on our unter. Also, when I found myself a relatnship wh someone who shared my first name, San looked me right the ey and said, “And that’s why they ll queer,” before turng around and walkg si. I image this is what havg gay moms is like, so, when I cid to terview queer elrs about love, they were at the top of my list. “No one’s ever asked anythg like this,” San said. “We’re fuckg touched.” (You n take the girl out of New Jersey…)</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-1 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>As turned out, that sentiment was also shared by the other three people I terviewed. Ms. Billie Cooper, 63, and Renée Imperato, 73, are both veterans and both trans women who, although they live on different asts, share the fact that they are smarter than most other people I’ve ever talked to. And Miguel Gutierrez, 75, moved to San Francis om South Ameri, mak art out of found objects, and is the thro of a buddg relatnship.</p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layoutasi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB kNleGZ sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-boxprimary"><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="adslot adslot--rail" data-no-id="a76uj1"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-unslot nsumer-marketg-unslot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><div class="StickyBoxPlaceholr-grPmrg dxAvXx"></div></div></div></div><div class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan full-bleed-ad row-mid-ntent-ad"><div class="StickyMidContentAdWrapper-fSBzwl drzyIa ad-stickymidntent"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--mid-ntent should-hold-space"><div class="adslot adslot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="sgx4ir"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layoutntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa bectqB body bodyntaer articlebody" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="bodyner-ntaer"><p>The below nversatns took place over four separate Zoom lls, and have been eded and nnsed for clary. Please enjoy, as I did, their matns on love, datg, and (as Renée put ) the prison that is cis monogamy.</p><figure data-ttid="IameEmbed" class="IameEmbedWrapper-sc-dRedg hZiq iame-embed"><div data-ttid="IameEmbedContaer" class="IameEmbedContaer-hptgUZ gwYBCr"><div class="IameEmbedAspectRatWrapper-hFVJps BKpgQ"><iame class="IameEmbedContent-cMdiev csnuAY IameEmbedContent lazyload" height="476" width="476" sandbox="allow-scripts allow-same-orig" tle="Embedd Frame" data-src=" allow="toplay ; encrypted-media ; clipboard-wre; toplay; fullscreen; picture--picture"></iame></div></div></figure><p><strong>Garrett: Ok, let’s start off simple. What’s your name and how do you intify?</strong></p><p><strong>San:</strong> I’m San Grimm and this is Anne Brack, and we’re gay. </p><p><strong>Anne:</strong> Yep, that’s right. </p><p><strong>Ms. Billie Cooper:</strong> My name is Ms. Billie Cooper. I am an Ain-Amerin disabled Naval veteran. My pronouns are her/she, but not like the cholate bar. I'm also a person thrivg and survivg wh HIV.</p><p><strong>Renée Imperato:</strong> My name is Renée Andrea Imperato. Somebody asked me recently what my preferred pronoun was. And I said I don't have a preferred pronoun. I have an effg — n I say the word? Ok, I said I have a fuckg pronoun. She/her.</p><p><strong>Miguel Gutierrez:</strong> I’m Miguel Gutierrez, I’m gay, and my birthday was yterday, I’m 75. 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data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="bodyner-ntaer"><p><strong>San and Anne, how did you meet?</strong></p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-2 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p><strong>San:</strong> We met durg our hman year llege. We were iends for about a year, and then we realized we weren't jt iends.</p><p><strong>How did you realize you weren’t jt iends?</strong></p><p><strong>San:</strong> Well, I had the flutters the stomach. I uldn't wa to see her. And I never — I didn't have any boyiends, girliends. I jt had iends and I knew she wasn't jt my iend. I wanted to be wh her.</p><p><strong>Anne:</strong> It was different. It felt different.</p><div class="GenericCalloutWrapper-tojWn eEjqvI llout--has-top-borr" data-ttid="GenericCallout"><figure class="AssetEmbedWrapper-eVDQiB byBkf asset-embed"><div class="AssetEmbedAssetContaer-eJxoAx dBHGoQ asset-embedasset-ntaer"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW kGxnNB rponsive-asset AssetEmbedRponsiveAsset-cXBNxi eCxVQK asset-embedrponsive-asset"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa AssetEmbedRponsiveAsset-cXBNxi eCxVQK asset-embedrponsive-asset rponsive-image"><noscript><img alt="Image may nta Face Human Person Glass Accsori Accsory Head Photo Photography Portra Teeth and Lip" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-imageimage" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w, 1280w, 1600w" siz="100vw"/></noscript></picture></span></div><div class="CaptnWrapper-jSZdqE hTTfoq ptn AssetEmbedCaptn-fNQBPI fmQnYP asset-embedptn"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ CaptnCred-ejegDm iUEiRd eNhSMp fNaHcW ptncred">San Grimm and Anne Brack</span></div></figure></div><p><strong>Was San your first girliend?</strong></p><p><strong>Anne:</strong> No, she wasn't. She was my send girliend. And I had boyiends before that too, high school. So I had a ltle more experience than she did.</p><p><strong>San:</strong> A lot more. <em>[Lghs]</em></p><p><strong>Miguel, Renée, and Ms. Billie Cooper, what are your relatnship suatns?</strong></p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-3 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p><strong>Ms. Billie Cooper:</strong> You know, I'm not love right now, but I am like right now. I lost my left eye 2009, but, you know, I have one left to see people for who they really are, so I’m takg thgs slow. But I am like.</p><p><strong>Miguel:</strong> In my life, I’ve had four special relatnships. The first one was when I was my twenti. It was so excg to be somethg to somebody. The send one was more like, very about havg sex and all that stuff. The third one is the one I idolize. Everythg clicked. It’s not exactly what I had md, but turned out even better. He was meat and potato and I was ta and burros.</p><p>After he died, I didn’t know if I would want to be wh someone else, but I met this guy. He works for the ballet. I thk he wants to be somethg, but I don’t know, he’s very young, his early fifti. We’ll see. But I thk everyone kd of has those four.</p><p><strong>Renée:</strong> You know, I drove a taxi for 27 years. When I didn't make enough on the meter, I ma the back seat. I’ve had a lot of relatnships my life. I’m polyamoro — I read this quote one time, love is not posssn and posssn is not love — that’s how I live. I’m not datg anyone right now and I’m also datg everyone right now.</p><asi aria-hidn="te" class="PullQuoteEmbedWrapper-sc-EoVjf fQbAzo"><div class="PullQuoteDerativeBorr-sc-iUyOLj fAzNVP"></div><div class="PullQuoteEmbedContent-sc-kTcfhx eoUd"><p>"Straight people take for granted that 's easy to fall love wh somebody. But 's a ltle harr when you're a gay person. The work mak special, you have to try a ltle harr to work at , you know?" says Anne Brack.</p></div></asi><p><strong>What’s the bt date you’ve ever been on?</strong></p><p><strong>Ms. Billie Cooper:</strong> You know, there ed to be a time when I thought all I uld get, or, all I was acctomed to, was McDonald's or a Subway sandwich. But now I at least know I serve to go to a prime rib place, you know, a nice rtrant. A Cheeke Factory.</p><p>Anytime I’ve gotten to do that, and jt s and get to know the person, that’s the bt.</p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layoutasi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB jxBcTH sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-boxprimary"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="adslot adslot--rail" data-no-id="xdoama"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-unslot nsumer-marketg-unslot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div><div data-attr-viewport-monor="" class="RecircMostPopularWrapper-bRuGTi jkTTgR recirc-most-popular-wrapper viewport-monor-anchor"><div class="RecircMostPopularConter-jiViNn ktrplG recirc-most-popular-sparrow-trackg hi-asi-ad" data-most-popular-id="mod-most-popular-146"><div class="RecircMostPopularHeadg-iVzhzt jKtkdT">Most 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data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="bodyner-ntaer"><p><strong>Miguel:</strong> Oh my boyiend, the third one, the long one. Once he got me a very ty red speedo. I was like, what is this for? And on the rd said, was for to go to Mykonos. We did ndl the bathtub and ros on the bed — was like was om the movi. You know, you see that and you always want somethg like that.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-4 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p><strong>Renée:</strong> The bt dat I’ve ever been on were wh other sex workers. I remember one, this guy, Pl, when I was, ankly, more attracted to men than I am now — you know, men will never fuckg domate me, honey, fet that sh — but he was an Adonis and we were petg for the same trick. Right? And, oh my God. I mean the money Pl would make. This one guy would pay him $300 jt to shave his ass and nothg else.</p><p>Anyway, he beat me to the trick, but then he me back and we had a great time. It was always easier wh other sex workers, bee jealoy was out the wdow, bee you’re lookg out of the same wdow. It probably lasted for a year.</p><asi aria-hidn="te" class="PullQuoteEmbedWrapper-sc-EoVjf fQbAzo"><div class="PullQuoteDerativeBorr-sc-iUyOLj fAzNVP"></div><div class="PullQuoteEmbedContent-sc-kTcfhx eoUd"><p>“I don't want to hurt anybody's feelgs, I really don't, but to me, cis monogamy is like jail," says Renée.</p></div></asi><p><strong>What still mak your heart flutter?</strong></p><p><strong>San:</strong> <em>[lookg at Anne]</em> Go ahead…</p><p><strong>Anne:</strong> I would say 's her kiss probably, for me, and her se.</p><p><strong>San:</strong> Same here, her lgh. She's got a great lgh. That mak me se. When she looks at me and s. And when we go for walks, when she holds my hand, jt stuff like that. Wakg up, sayg good morng. You know, ltle thgs. You realize how lucky you are.</p><p><strong>Renée:</strong> Ah, well, sometim ’s jt that look. Sometim 's not a word. Sometim 's a speechls behavral pattern.</p><p>And New York, I'm sort of known as the queen mother, or simply mamma. I feel a great tenrns when people talk to me that way, so that do too.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-5 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p><strong>Ms. Billie Cooper:</strong> Jt thkg about fallg love. I thk I would actually see butterfli, or I would see that ltle angel, that ltle red person wh the bow and arrow. I haven't had those feelgs a long time, I would really love to get those feelgs aga.</p><p><strong>What do you thk mak queer love special?</strong></p><p><strong>Miguel:</strong> It’s very unique. You know, not everyone is like , so ’s special. Our love don’t have any barriers. I thk people who go both ways are very lucky, you n fd so much love. 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data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="bodyner-ntaer"><p><strong>What would you tell younger queer people about datg and relatnships?</strong></p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-6 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p><strong>Ms. Billie Cooper:</strong> This is Ms. Billy Cooper speakg! My l about fallg and out of love are: know yourself first, know yourself, be all you n be for yourself. Be te to yourself. Don't go to any relatnships wh expectatns, and make sure they have all three [COVID] shots. Walk to relatnships wh ey wi open, and always expect the unexpected.</p><p><strong>Miguel:</strong> Be yourself. You don't have to pretend to be anythg. Be hont, be willg to give and take. Be willg to experiment wh the other person.</p><p>Also, give the other person space, don’t sh thgs. Don’t be sperate! Thgs have a way of workg out very nicely if you let the universe help you.</p><p><strong>San:</strong> Make sure you actually like them! That you have thgs mon. You have to listen. Like, don’t talk. Listen.</p><p><strong>Anne:</strong> Have patience. Take time. Don’t sh. Support them and their goals and their dreams.</p><p><strong>San:</strong> Be a team.</p><p><strong>Renée:</strong> Don’t be hibed. Don't be tied down, and don't be swayed too quickly towards someone who's affectnate to you.</p><p>Don’t read too much to rejectn. How many people uld have had one of the most fabulo, betiful relatnships of their life, but they were aaid? Don’t let some stranger down the street trick you to livg by their l. Jt say, hey, screw your l. And love to break them.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-7 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p> </p><div class="GenericCalloutWrapper-tojWn iezhXq llout--has-top-borr" data-ttid="GenericCallout"><div class="ContentCardEmbedWrapper-kULtsE iGAJsG ntent-rd-embed ntent-rd-embed--stacked" data-ttid="ContentCardEmbedWrapper"><div class="ContentCardEmbedImage-iwqgVw jlIubp ntent-rd-embedimage" data-ttid="ContentCardEmbedImage"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW jvZaPI rponsive-asset"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa rponsive-image"><img alt="Image may nta: Morn Art, Art, and Patg" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-imageimage" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w" siz="100vw"/></picture></span></div><div class="ContentCardEmbedInfo-bDftKl bGnSrq"><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ContentCardEmbedHed-kJVPGC iUEiRd gFmvMS cewqFA ntent-rd-embedhed" data-ttid="ContentCardEmbedHed"><a class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM ContentCardEmbedHedLk-eXLwe iUEiRd gFmvMS hRaEiJ eFUKSb ntent-rd-embed__hed-lk" href="/story/why-dont-we-kiss-our-iends-more-queer-platonic-timacy" data-ttid="ContentCardEmbedHedLk">Love, Us: Why Don't We Kiss Our Friends More?</a></div><div data-ttid="ContentCardEmbedDek" class="ContentCardEmbedDek-bA-DKch hXdQfY">We're queer. We get to wre our own l. Consensual timacy among iends n be one of them.</div></div></div></div><p><strong>After our terviews, I uldn’t stop seeg,</strong> as Ms. Billie Cooper put , that ltle red person wh the bow and arrow. I oscillate every day, probably every three hours, between believg that love is real and all around , and thkg that my last relatnship was fely my last. Luckily, I was able to pull my head out of my own ass long enough to allow myself to be blsed by the five legends, who are remrs to all that life is long and love is plentiful. It will look like different thgs, will feel like different thgs, and, many ways, is for to shape and mold to the way we want to be. Queer love is eedom, not a prison.</p><p>And, for what ’s worth, I’m posive I won’t die alone bee Ms. Billie Cooper said she would be prayg for me to fd my next boyiend, to which I replied, “From your mouth to God’s ears.” Prayg for boyiends over Zoom wh trans elrs? As San would say, <em>that’s</em> why they ll queer.</p><p><em>“Love, Us” is lookg for rears to reach out about your queer love stori. Have a love letter to share or a story you’d like to tell? 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The Valente chapter 1 by Backwoods Boy at Gay Authors

GAY VALENTE’S DAY | 7 INSTA-GEO COUPL GET ROMANTIC

Gay Valente’s Day | First Met, The Baby Qutn, Introducg the BF to the fay and their Ial Valente’s Day. Follow thetravellggays. We met January 2005 Zurich a gay club, the old fashned way.

F: a gay uple om Germany travellg around the world. We started workg out early morngs before work for a while, whout even knowg that we were both gay. And this was still whout beg sure whether the other one was actually gay or not!

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But shortly after, followg a send dner, one thg leads to another and the qutn about beg gay or not was unniably answered. And the answer uld be very gay if we spelled all out. There was a time when we never thought we would see the day as gay men to have such an amazg moment wh our fai, this day was tied as the bt day our liv (the day we first met).

The Homo Sapiens Agenda) follows a high school senr as he navigat life while beg blackmailed and threatened wh outg by one of his classmat while also tryg to figure out the inty of his anonymo, romantic, onle pen pal named Blue. However, to his horror, he disvers he’s been g the wrong profile and was actually logged to the gay chat se as his beefy roommate.

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Unfortunately, I wasn’t born to gay moms, but San and Anne baked me a homema chicken pot pie the day I moved , and sometim San lets herself through our backdoor and leav h lemons she picks on our unter. I image this is what havg gay moms is like, so, when I cid to terview queer elrs about love, they were at the top of my list. San: I’m San Grimm and this is Anne Brack, and we’re gay.

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She/ Gutierrez: I’m Miguel Gutierrez, I’m gay, and my birthday was yterday, I’m 75.

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Jake Borelli to Star the First Gay-Themed Valente's Day Movie .

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GAY VALENTE’S DAY | 7 INSTA-GEO COUPL GET ROMANTIC

A LOVE STORY THAT'S GAY FOR VALENTE'S DAY

'THE THG ABOUT HARRY': A GAY VALENTE'S ROM- YOU DIDN'T KNOW YOU NEED

ON ST. VALENTE’S DAY: A ROMANTIC STORY OF GAY LOVE FULFILLED

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GAY VALENTE’S DAY | 7 INSTA-GEO COUPL GET ROMANTIC

A LOVE STORY THAT'S GAY FOR VALENTE'S DAY

'THE THG ABOUT HARRY': A GAY VALENTE'S ROM- YOU DIDN'T KNOW YOU NEED

ON ST. VALENTE’S DAY: A ROMANTIC STORY OF GAY LOVE FULFILLED

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