It’s Natnal Comg Out Day. This new book breaks down the “Gay BCs” for younger children as they search for inty

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• THE GAYBCS
• IT’S NATNAL COMG OUT DAY. THIS NEW BOOK BREAKS DOWN THE “GAY BCS” FOR YOUNGER CHILDREN AS THEY SEARCH FOR INTY

THE GAYBCS

Featurg bright illtratns and upbeat, accsible poems, The GayBCs is perfect for fans of A Is for Activist and Femist Baby—showg kids and adults alike that every inty is worthy of beg celebrated. Courty of the Jam Marshall Papers, Archiv & Special Collectns, Universy of Connecticut LibraryUpdated, 4/1/20: We’re revisg this feature, origally published last year, followg the ath of Tomie Paola, the thor and illtrator of “Strega Nona,” on Monday at 85.IN 1998, WHEN my sons were still too young to read by themselv, my partner and I gave them a picture book lled “Lucy Go to the Country.” It’s about a t who liv wh two gay men; you n tell by the tchotchk.The book, then jt published, was evintly meant to help normalize already borgly normal fai like ours by g the tradnal substutn of animals for people orr to illtrate how much fun havg gay dads n be.

(So did the name of a town en route to the untry: Peckerwood.) And if you stopped to thk about , “Lucy” seemed to argue that the gay dads, however full of fun, were aquate: When the pa chips were down, they need rcug, too.[Sign up here for the T List newsletter, a weekly roundup of what T Magaze edors are noticg and vetg now.]Maybe that’s why my boys didn’t love .

Among gay-themed children’s stori, they preferred “Frog and Toad.” No, I know: “Frog and Toad” — a seri of four picture books by Arnold Lobel, origally published between 1970 and 1979 — is not gay-themed.

IT’S NATNAL COMG OUT DAY. THIS NEW BOOK BREAKS DOWN THE “GAY BCS” FOR YOUNGER CHILDREN AS THEY SEARCH FOR INTY

But ’s not not gay-themed eher. They get to scrap separately but get out of them together, which is not a bad fn of marriage.ImageCred...From left: Jam Marshall, “Gee and Martha,” urty of Houghton Miffl Harurt; Arnold Lobel, “Frog and Toad are Friends” © 1970 Arnold Lobel, ed by permissn of HarperColls Publishers; Jam Marshall, “Miss Nelson is Missg!,” urty of Houghton Miffl HarurtOur boys loved the stori, as did we — but not bee Lobel was gay. They ntued to make books together for years: a Frog and Toad tale if ever there was one.Still, Lobel’s gayns, when I learned of much later, seemed like somethg I should have known all along; lurked everywhere his words and pictur.

Which is not to say Frog and Toad uld turn you gay. They suggted, no ls to as gay parents than to our sons wh their polar personali, how separatens uld bee solidary and oddns acmodatn.