Am I Gay? 12 Thgs to Know If You’re Qutng Your Sexualy

Contents:

• I AM NOT GAY
• HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU’RE GAY, STRAIGHT, OR SOMETHG BETWEEN?
• HOW DO I KNOW I’M NOT REALLY GAY/STRAIGHT?
• SYNONYMS FOR NOT GAY
• ALHOLICS ANONYMO AND GAY AMERIN MEN
• PEOPLE THK I'M GAY... BUT I'M NOT
• I LIKE GUYS BUT I DON’T WANT TO BE GAY. HOW DO I STOP BEG GAY?
• WHO'S GAY GOSPEL MIC?
• IS ANYONE BORN GAY?
• “AM I GAY OR NOT?” TAKE THIS QUIZ TO FD OUT
• SYNONYMS FOR NOT GAY
• I AM NOT GAY
• AM I GAY? HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY?
• ARE YOU GAY OR STRAIGHT?

I AM NOT GAY

I’m not gay. I am not gay. Do not ever ll me gay ever aga.

I am que hontly one of the least gay people you have ever met. Stop sayg I’m gay.

But unfortunately you are an ugly fuckg GUY who’s tight bsy will rema unstretched by my thick, meaty 9 ch ck bee I AM NOT GAY.

HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU’RE GAY, STRAIGHT, OR SOMETHG BETWEEN?

If i were gay though, you’d fd my jackhammer poundg away at your tight bsy wh the force of ten tsunamis.

Luckily for you I AM NOT GAY and you will have your vig asshole rema unpound ad fum.

HOW DO I KNOW I’M NOT REALLY GAY/STRAIGHT?

Actually, seems that you’re the gay one here.

You are gay, not me. I am not gay and never will be.

SYNONYMS FOR NOT GAY

If I were ever gay a past life (which I WASN’T), I would be killg myself right now, that is how gay I’m not. I'm homosexual. Jt bee I don't agree wh homosexualy, don't mean I'm homophobic.

Th, acts of homosexualy are nsired sful. This do not mean that I hate gay people, or even dislike them.

But I should still be allowed to have/exprs (if asked) the belief that somethg is wrong whout beg lled homophobic. Let me reerate that I don't believe that all gays are evil/ gog to Hell. Homosexual acts don't take you out of the fold of my fah.

ALHOLICS ANONYMO AND GAY AMERIN MEN

As long as I'm not beg hateful towards gay people, I should be allowed to exprs beliefs which ntradict their lifyl. I eher have to say that I follow a very liberal versn of my relign that accepts homosexualy, or I'm a hateful homophobe.

PEOPLE THK I'M GAY... BUT I'M NOT

This week Gay Alrn wrote about givg up alhol for a month and how she was not prepared for the impact had. ‘I don’t need alhol to unwd’Bt wish, Gay.

In a society where most of are expected to be straight, n be difficult to take a step back and ask whether you’re gay, straight, or somethg ’re the only person who n figure out what your orientatn tly is. Havg a sex dream about someone of the same genr as you don’t necsarily make you gay.

And even if there were, who’s to say who qualifi as gay or straight? Every sgle gay person is unique. You don’t have to fulfill certa “creria” to qualify as gay, straight, bisexual, or anythg is an aspect of your inty, not a job applitn — and you n intify wh whatever term fs you!

I LIKE GUYS BUT I DON’T WANT TO BE GAY. HOW DO I STOP BEG GAY?

” Plenty of people thought they were one thg for the first half of their life, only to fd that wasn’t ’s also possible to thk you’re gay when you’re actually bi, or thk you’re bi when you’re actually gay, for example. Your orientatn may change, but that don’t make any ls valid over time, nor do mean you’re wrong or are some people gay? Homophobia — and other forms of bigotry — are alive and well.

This uld help you segue to the may fd helpful to start wh somethg like:“After thkg about a lot, I’ve realized that I’m gay. In orr to have doubts about one’s sexual inty, a sufferer need not ever have had a homo- or heterosexual experience, or any type of sexual experience at all.

WHO'S GAY GOSPEL MIC?

If the sufferer is heterosexual, then the thought may be that they are homosexual. If on the other hand they happen to be homosexual they may obss about the possibily that they might really be straight. ” Some people’s doubts are further plited by havg such experienc as hearg other people talkg or lookg their directn and thkg that the people mt be analyzg their behavr or appearance and talkg about them – discsg how they mt be gay (or straight).

For those wh thoughts of beg homosexual, part of the distrs mt surely be social orig. Let’s face , gay people have always been an opprsed mory wh our culture, and to sudnly thk of beg this posn, and to be stigmatized this way, n be ighteng.

IS ANYONE BORN GAY?

I have sometim wonred if those who experience the most distrs om such thoughts as the do so bee they were raised wh more strongly homophobic or anti-gay attus to beg wh, or if is simply bee one’s sexualy n be such a basic doubt. Lookg at attractive men or women, or pictur of them, or readg sexually oriented lerature or pornography (hetero- or homosexual), to see if they are sexually excg.

Observg themselv for evince of “lookg, ” talkg, walkg, drsg, or gturg like someone who is eher gay or straight. Compulsively reviewg and analyzg past teractns wh other men or women to see if they have acted like a gay or straight person.

Readg articl on the ter about how an dividual n tell if they are gay or straight to see which group they might be most siar to. Do you thk I uld be gay (or straight)? How n I tell if I’m really gay (or straight)?

“AM I GAY OR NOT?” TAKE THIS QUIZ TO FD OUT

Can you sudnly turn to a homosexual (or heterosexual) even if you have never felt or acted that that way? Do I look (or act) gay (or straight) to you? If I get sexual sensatns when viewg sexual material of an oppose orientatn do mean I am gay (or straight)?

A typil example would be a heterosexual man who experienc an erectn while lookg at gay eroti. This reactn is strengthened by the rrect belief that homosexual cu never stimulate heterosexuals. Avoidg standg close to, touchg or bshg agast members of the same sex (or oppose sex if the sufferer is gay).

Not readg or lookg at vios news reports books or articl havg anythg to do wh gay people or other sexual subjects. Never sayg the words “gay, ” “homosexual, ” (or “straight”) or any other related term.

SYNONYMS FOR NOT GAY

Tryg to not look or act effemately (if a man), or a mascule way (if a woman), (or vice versa if the sufferer is gay). Not drsg ways that would make one look effemate (if a man), or mascule (if a woman), (aga vice versa if the sufferer is gay). Avoidg associatg wh anyone who may be gay or who seems to lean that directn (if the sufferer is heterosexual).

The flip si of this is when they look at thgs havg to do wh sex of an oppose orientatn and then feel aroed some way, which they then nclu to mean that they liked , which means that they are gay (or straight). Readg books by or about gay persons. Watchg vios on gay them or about gay characters.

I AM NOT GAY

Visg gay meetgs shops, browsg gay bookstor, or visg areas of town that are more predomantly gay. Wearg a T-shirt at home wh the word ‘gay’ on .

Dog a seri of wrg assignments of a uple of pag each that suggt more and more that you actually are gay or wish to be.

AM I GAY? HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY?

Makg a seri of three-mute tap that based on the wrgs gradually suggt more and more that you are gay, and listeng to them several tim a day changg them when they no longer bother you).

ARE YOU GAY OR STRAIGHT?

Avoid observg yourself to see if you behaved a way you image a homosexual or member of the oppose sex would. I am not gay! Based on your openg remarks, you are intifyg that you are bi-gayxual.

Sounds like you're fely not gay, don't know what all the idts are talkg about. none of you got the reference, I'm upset nowIf you are upset then at least you are clearly not gay.

so half straight half gay?