GoodTherapy | 5 Reasons It’s Good to Be Gay and Sgle

Contents:

• WHY WOULD PEOPLE 'CHOOSE' TO BE GAY?
• IS BEG GAY A S?
• AM I GAY?
• BT AND WORST STAT FOR LGBTQ FOLKS? DIVI WORSENS AFTER 'DON'T SAY GAY,' REPORT SAYS
• WHY GAY IS NOT OK
• 5 REASONS IT’S GOOD TO BE GAY AND SGLE
• WHAT’S GOOD ABOUT BEG GAY?: PERSPECTIV OM YOUTH
• CHANGG PERCEPTNS OF WHAT IS LIKE TO BE GAY MOSW – ONE TOUR AT A TIME
• GAY MOSW MOSW CY GUI
• WHY IS SEEN AS BAD TO BE GAY?
• HOW TO ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE GAY
• WHAT DO THE BIBLE ACTUALLY SAY ABOUT BEG GAY?
• BACK THE GAY
• IS BEG GAY A GOOD OR BAD THG?

WHY WOULD PEOPLE 'CHOOSE' TO BE GAY?

Homosexual members of society n unfortunately expect to regularly be challenged, sctised and nmned by belligerent type who are seemgly nvced that homosexualy is a “liftyle choice” issue has e up aga (for what is possibly the 12, 456, 987, 332nd time) for several reasons.

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IS BEG GAY A S?

If we fe beg gay as engagg homosexual behavr (the ncept of “gay” as an inty is a Wtern cultural ncept – people who have sex wh both men and women may ll themselv gay, straight or bisexual, pendg on the l of their culture or subculture), then people stop beg gay as soon as they stop engagg this behavr.

If sexual preference n be altered, then people who support gay rights n’t rely on the argument that gay people should be protected om discrimatn bee gay people have no choice but to be gay – an argument that seems like an apology for homosexualy, as if homosexualy is a disease for which there is no cure. ''Florida, Montana among worst for LGBTQ muny The x ranked stat acrdg to five areas: work environment, legal protectns, youth and fay support, health accs and safety, and polil and relig at the top tend to get more clive over the past year, while their lower-ranked peers beme ls tolerant or didn't move om where they were 'T SAY GAY LAWS SPARK FEAR:If they 'say gay, ' will my child be safe?

AM I GAY?

Gordon Muir reported that he had found "substantial evince ditg that ls than 5 percent of men and women have had any homosexual ntact their lifetime, and no more than 3 percent of men and nsirably fewer women claim to be bisexual or exclively homosexual.

This was one of the few studi found to prent riliency strategi veloped by gay/bisexual adolcents to bat negative social and cultural ntug rearch is need on the velopmental challeng faced by LGB adolcents, pecially those who are also members of other opprsed groups such as youth of lor, a parallel le of scientific quiry is also need to explore the strengths and rilienci monstrated by LGB youth. Such limatns do not allow for a more nuanced unrstandg of the current lived experienc of LGB youth’s inty exploratn procs, as has been seen more recent qualative studi of sexual orientatn inty (Ja, Harper, Fernanz, & the ATN, 2009)The purpose of the current study is to provi sights to the posive nceptualizatns that gay/bisexual male adolcents posss regardg their sexual orientatn inty utilizg qualative phenomenologil and nstctivist ameworks. Although we did quire about the full range of perceptns and experienc related to sexual orientatn inty the larger study om which the data were extracted, we chose to foc solely on the posive aspects of posssg a gay/bisexual sexual orientatn inty for the current vtigatn given the lack of empiril data foced specifilly on riliency-related factors among gay/bisexual male adolcents.

BT AND WORST STAT FOR LGBTQ FOLKS? DIVI WORSENS AFTER 'DON'T SAY GAY,' REPORT SAYS

Sce prr rearch also has monstrated that sexual orientatn inty velopment for female adolcents and adults is different than that of male adolcents and adults (Diamond, 2005; Diamond & Sav-Williams, 2000; Schneir, 2001), we also foc this vtigatn exclively on gay/bisexual male adolcents.

In orr to take part the study, participants met the followg eligibily creria: 1) be blogilly male; 2) be between the ag of 14 and 22; 3) self-intify as Ain Amerin, Hispanic/Lato, or Whe non-Hispanic/European Amerin; 4) self-intify as gay, bisexual, or qutng; 5) have no knowledge of beg HIV posive; 6) live the Chigo or Miami metropolan area; and 7) read and unrstand English.

The youth reprented the qualative subsample of adolcents who participated a larger mixed-methods rearch study foced on multiple inty velopment and sexual risk/protectn among gay/bisexual male adolcents, which was nducted wh the Adolcent Trials Network for HIV/AIDS Interventns. The ame was stratified by age (14–17, 18–20, and 21–22), level of gay/bisexual sexual orientatn inty (low and high), and race/ethnicy (Ain Amerin, European Amerin, and Lato) orr to produce a sample that reprents velopmental and inty-related variatns.

WHY GAY IS NOT OK

Um, 's, 's very easy to, to, when you do fd somebody that is, that is very siar to yourself, 's very easy to fd a nnectn wh them bee they've endured a lot of the same hardships that you have and, and you, and 's easy to talk, I feel like 's very easy to talk to somebody else who is gay, bee they've experienced a lot of the same thgs that I have g and velopg their inty. Bee there's a lot of homophobic people out there (Jose, 19 year old, Hispanic queer male)Physil self-re was typilly discsed the ntext of physil appearance and sexual health, such as rryg ndoms orr to protect one om sexually transmted fectns.

(Kev, 21 year old, Multiracial bisexual male)Gay/bisexual youth who reported the rejectn of stereotyp as another form of riliency strsed the importance of velopg a posive sense of self that is not rtricted by societal msag regardg what gay/bisexual men “should” do, thk, and feel. Exampl of such munal efforts may clu the anizatn of polil ralli and public foms or participatn tnal enavors to discs issu primarily affectg LGBT discsg their sexual inti, many participants scribed exampl of societal margalizatn and discrimatn of gay/bisexual people that is nsistent wh prev rearch (c.

5 REASONS IT’S GOOD TO BE GAY AND SGLE

Addnally, unlike past rearch, fdgs monstrated participants’ emphasis on actively ristg discrimatn, which uld serve as another potential pg strategy or source of om this study n be ed to shed light on broar issu of social and cultural ponents of gay/bisexual male adolcents’ sense of self and self-acceptance, which may fluence healthy adolcent velopment. The study’s fdgs offer a clearer unrstandg of how societal msag play a role gay/bisexual male youths’ self perceptns and offer sight to ways to improve the healthy functng of gay/bisexual youth by challengg negative societal fdgs may also offer rmatn for the velopment of mental and physil health promotn programs that emphasize the posive aspects of gay/bisexual sexual orientatn inty, and the role that self acceptance n play promotg healthy thoughts and behavrs. One example of such a program is the Mpowerment Project, which is a wily ed sexual health promotn terventn that clus a foc on enhancg gay/bisexual young men’s acceptance of their sexual orientatn utilizg muny mobilizatn and peer-based strategi orr to addrs unique munal needs and empower s members (Kegel, Hays, & Coat, 1996; Kegel, Hays, Pollack, Coat, 1999) orr for programs to be succsful, dividuals workg wh gay/bisexual dividuals mt be sensive to issu unique to LGB youth populatns.

WHAT’S GOOD ABOUT BEG GAY?: PERSPECTIV OM YOUTH

By unrstandg the varied msag that gay/bisexual male adolcents receive about their sexual orientatn and how they tegrate this rmatn to their self perceptn, dividuals workg wh gay/bisexual male youth will be better prepared for helpg them to velop a healthy sense of self. Furthermore, social service and health re provirs should be aware of muny nnectns that support healthy inty velopment orr to assist adolcents makg cril social support rmatn prented this study advanc our unrstandg of factors that fluence the self-perceptns of sexual orientatn inty among gay/bisexual youth. In addn, this sample was rtricted to male youth; therefore, the life experienc of lbian and bisexual young women were not summary, the current data suggt that spe experienc of LGB-related opprsn and margalizatn, gay/bisexual male youth are able to synthize their experienc orr to nstct a more posive sexual orientatn inty.

CHANGG PERCEPTNS OF WHAT IS LIKE TO BE GAY MOSW – ONE TOUR AT A TIME

The data speak to the need to enurage and promote more rearch that explor the liv of gay/bisexual youth utilizg a strengths-based wellns mol orr to provi a more prehensive view of gay/bisexual youth’s velopment (Marszalek & Cashwell, 1999; Rof, 2005). While ntued rearch on the challeng that gay/bisexual youth face is still need orr to rm future terventns and public policy, the studi should be ut not to view gay/bisexual youth through a fic-foced lens which prents gay/bisexual youth as ferr to heterosexual youth. Instead, rearchers should strive to ntextualize the life experienc and physil/mental health out of gay/bisexual youth by explorg the potentially negative fluence of progrsg through cril velopmental phas while livg heterosexist and opprsive environments.

In addn, studi foced on negative physil and mental health out should strive not only to explore risk factors for such out, but also exame riliency-based factors which may offer sights to how some gay/bisexual youth are able to thrive the face of qualative and quantative rearch foced on the velopment of a posive sexual orientatn inty among gay/bisexual youth is need.

Harper () is Profsor the Department of Psychology and Director of the Master of Public Health Program at DePl Universy, and his rearch and muny work foc on givg voice to the social jtice needs of young people, pecially gay/bisexual male youth.

GAY MOSW MOSW CY GUI

The railroadg of same-sex “marriage” on the Amerin people mak creasgly clear what homosexual activist Pl Varnell wrote the Chigo Free Prs:"The gay movement, whether we acknowledge or not, is not a civil rights movement, not even a sexual liberatn movement, but a moral revolutn aimed at changg people's view of homosexualy. I'm here to nmn what you do not unrstand is that someone nnot choose who one is attracted too but YOU n choose how to react to on sexual orientatn and by disagreeg wh them you have labelled yourself as a homophobic 're a very big fool to say that.

Lgbt has proven time and time and aga that homosexual behavr, bisexual behavr as well as everythg else wh their toxic dystopia are subjective, ceptn, alternative history om Satanic worship, fantici, femazism and monic practic; drag queens are such an abomatn. Standg for homosexual and the pl bee Homosexualy and Bisexualy are the only sexual inti that i'm sure are haven't seen evince that asexualy is even humanly possible(whout mutatn or alteratn), so cludg the acronym specifilly might legimize the well as transgenr, bee g that label mak a statement about the fn of genr that i'm not sure is an accurate the thgs apply to all of the other labels that I've seen. Seems more and more of God's mandments are beg broken here and y, the law is beg broken too as people are beg murred: you have the "L" of there beg homosexual serial killers before ever sce the 60s-70s:Beg evil: A cult of personaly (Homosexual Serial Killers) of 4 gay men who are serial killers.

Sperm donatns jt don't make sense to me and I do not believe lgbt should adopt bee all they will do is fluence the adopted children to turn away om the norm of beg straight and stead allow themselv to eher be "transgenred" aka mutilated physilly or to turn gay or bisexual etc. : "The Milwkee Cannibal"Classifitn: Serial killerCharacteristics: Rape - Dismemberment - Necrophilia - Cannibalism - Pedophilia - Active Homosexual - Sodome RapistNumber of victims: 17Date of murr: 1978 - 1991Date of arrt: July 22, 1991Date of birth: May 21, 1960Victims profile: Stephen Hicks, 19 / Steven Tuomi, 26 / Jam "Jamie" Doxtator, 14 / Richard Guerrero, 25 / Anthony Sears, 26 / Eddie Smh, 36 / Ricky Beeks, 27 / Ernt Miller, 22 / David Thomas, 23 / Curtis Strghter, 19 / Errol Ldsey, 19 / Tony Hugh, 31 / Konerak Sthasomphone, 14 / Matt Turner, 20 / Jeremiah Weberger, 23 / Oliver Lacy, 23 / Joseph Brahoft, 25Method of murr: Strangulatn - Cuttg his throatLotn: Oh/Wisns, USAStat: Plead not guilty by reason of sany. I will refe to hold back exposg all of them for their hypocrisy, toxicy, anti human behavr, tthphobia, heterophobia and off, they scream homophobic or transphobic etc jt bee people like myself disagree wh them and stand by natural tradnal beliefs.

WHY IS SEEN AS BAD TO BE GAY?

The rults of the study monstrated that dividuals who belong to a sexual mory group wh a heteronormative society are prone to high rat of ternalized homophobia (lack of acceptance of one's own sexualy), stigma, and experienc of discrimatn and vlence. The term “homosexualy, ” while sometim nsired anachronistic the current era, is the most applible and easily translatable term to e when askg this qutn across societi and languag and has been ed other cross-natnal studi, cludg the World Valu Survey.

And Poland, supporters of the erng PiS (Law and Jtice), which has explicly targeted gay rights as anathema to tradnal Polish valu, are 23 percentage pots ls likely to say that homosexualy should be accepted by society than those who do not support the erng party. Although data is hard to e by, Rsian human rights activists say there has been an crease the number of hate crim mted agast gay men particular sce the passg of a 2013 law to ban the spreadg of “propaganda for non-tradnal sexual relatns” to mors. Homosexualy was a crimal offence Rsia until 1993, classified as a mental disorr until 1999 and the fluence of the nservative Orthodox Church – the head of which reportedly pared marriage equaly laws to those enacted Nazi Germany – has also helped create an environment where the rights of lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr and tersex (LGBTI) Rsians are promised.

What is tly shockg, however, are the allegatns of the btal tentn, beatgs and torture of men perceived as gay or bisexual the southern Rsia republic of Chechnya, as tailed by a seri of 2017 reports published by the Rsian newspaper Novaya Gazeta. That said, the vast majory of viss rema trouble-ee, even for visors who equent the cy’s ls-than-secret gay bar and club bt hotels MoswThe historic exterr of the Hotel Metropol, facg the ternatnally-celebrated Bolshoi Theatre and close to many of the other ma thgs to do Mosw, is nothg pared to s sumptuo terrs. Most people the LGBTQ+ muny know om experience that acceptg your sexualy will lead to your beg a happier, more open this gui, the term gay has been ed to clu all forms of non-heterosexual attractn, whether that be people who are lbian, gay, bisexual, queer, pansexual, or otherwise not straight.

HOW TO ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE GAY

On July 25, 2014 Miami-Da County Circu Court Judge Sarah Zabel led Florida’s gay marriage ban unnstutnal and stated that the ban “serv only to hurt, to discrimate, to prive same-sex upl and their fai of equal digny, to label and treat them as send-class cizens, and to em them unworthy of participatn one of the fundamental stutns of our society.” [105]. The Amerin Psychologil Associatn, Amerin Psychiatric Associatn, and others nclud that legal gay marriage giv upl “accs to the social support that already facilat and strengthens heterosexual marriag, wh all of the psychologil and physil health benefs associated wh that support.” [47]. In 2012, the Williams Instute at the Universy of California at Los Angel (UCLA) found that the first five years after Massachetts legalized gay marriage 2004, same-sex weddg expendur (such as venue rental, weddg k, etc.) add $111 ln to the state’s enomy.

8 California banng gay marriage was “unnstutnal unr both the Due Procs and Equal Protectn Cls.” [41] The Due Procs Clse both the Fifth and 14th Amendments of the US Constutn stat that no person shall be “prived of life, liberty, or property, whout due procs of law.” [111] The Equal Protectn Clse the 14th Amendment stat that no state shall “ny to any person wh s jurisdictn the equal protectn of the laws.” [112]. 2016 printial ndidate and former Hewlett-Packard CEO Carly Fra stated that civil unns are aquate as an equivalent to marriage: “Benefs are beg btowed to gay upl [ civil unns]… I believe we need to rpect those who believe that the word marriage has a spirual foundatn… Why n’t we rpect and tolerate that while at the same time sayg ernment nnot btow benefs unequally.” [157].

Court papers filed July 2014 by attorneys fendg Arizona’s gay marriage ban stated that “the State regulat marriage for the primary purpose of channelg potentially procreative sexual relatnships to endurg unns for the sake of jog children to both their mother and their father… Same-sex upl n never provi a child wh both her blogil mother and her blogil father.” [98].

WHAT DO THE BIBLE ACTUALLY SAY ABOUT BEG GAY?

Lee Badgett, PhD, Director of the Center for Public Policy and Admistratn at the Universy of Massachetts at Amherst, stated that for many gay activists “marriage means adoptg heterosexual forms of fay and givg up distctively gay fay forms and perhaps even gay and lbian culture.” [14]. Queer activist Anrs Zanichkowsky stated June 2013 that the then mpaign for gay marriage “tentnally and malicly eras and exclus so many queer people and cultur, particularly trans and genr non-nformg people, poor queer people, and queer people non-tradnal fai… marriage thks non-married people are viant and not tly servg of civil rights.” [127].

In Islamic tradn, several hadhs (passag attributed to the Prophet Muhammad) nmn gay and lbian relatnships, cludg the saygs “When a man mounts another man, the throne of God shak,” and “Sihaq [lbian sex] of women is za [illegimate sexual terurse].” [121]. Matt Barber, Associate Dean for Onle Programs at Liberty Universy School of Law, stated, “Every dividual engaged the homosexual liftyle, who has adopted a homosexual inty, they know, tuively, that what they’re dog is immoral, unnatural, and self-stctive, yet they thirst for that affirmatn.” [149]. A 2003 set of guil signed by Pope John Pl II stated: “There are absolutely no grounds for nsirg homosexual unns to be any way siar or even remotely analogo to God’s plan for marriage and fay… Marriage is holy, while homosexual acts go agast the natural moral law.” [147].

Here, we will take a look at ten of the mont arguments lnched agast homosexualy and ced to oppose gay rights legislatn: (1) Marriage should be between a man and a woman, bee has always been this way; (2) Homosexualy is a choice; (3) The Bible nmns homosexualy; (4) Homosexualy is unnatural; (5) Homosexuals do not procreate; (6) All men n marry women, and all women n marry men, therefore there is no equaly; (7) If we legalize gay marriage, what's next? As Regnes acknowledg, “Today’s children of gay men and lbian women are more apt to be ‘planned’ (that is, by g adoptn, IVF, or surrogacy) than as ltle as 15–20 years ago, when such children were more typilly the products of heterosexual unns. ” In fact, “Given that untend pregnancy is impossible among gay men and a rary among lbian upl, stands to reason that gay and lbian parents today are far more selective about parentg than the heterosexual populatn, among whom untend pregnanci rema very mon, around 50%.

BACK THE GAY

While is possible to dulge masturbatory activi by persons of oppose genr, or even by sgle dividuals, which are also perversns, homosexualy is perverse not only the physil activy self, but also one of the participants assumg the role of the oppose genr, and that sense is even more perverse (ntrary to the tentn of Nature). There also have been var attempts to jtify homosexualy by arguments, “rearch” and “studi”, like: “homosexuals are born that way”, “some good people were (are) homosexuals”, “some animals do ”, “homosexual upl are happy and healthy”, “wars, homosexualy and diseas are necsary to keep the world om beg overpopulated”, etc ….

IS BEG GAY A GOOD OR BAD THG?

And as islamophobia is one of the ma propaganda weapons the War‐on‐Terror, one of the arguments agast Islam is that prohibs homosexualy (“a human right”), but so do all the other Abrahamic religns — the Bible is clear on that subject (Levic 18:22), and so is Pla Common Sense.