Joe Kort, Ph.D., talks about his new book, "Is My Hband Gay, Straight, or Bi?"
Contents:
- HOW TO DISCREETLY FD OUT IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS GAY
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
- I LIKE GAY MALE PORN, BUT GAY MEN REAL LIFE EAK ME OUT.
- HOW TO GET A MAN (FOR GAY MEN)
- WHAT DO IT MEAN TO BE A GAY MAN?
- IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
HOW TO DISCREETLY FD OUT IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS GAY
Someone's sexualy is personal, so 's important to rpect their privacy. However, you might want to know if a person is gay bee you're terted datg them or want to support them as a iend. Beg open wh them n be... * i like a guy that is gay *
He hasn't directly mentned boyiends or beg gay, but one time at a party he was tellg a story that volved a female ex. The first time I talked to him (you know, when I wasn't sanely attracted to him), I thought for sure he was gay based on the way he was movg his arms and talkg.
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
There are lots of reasons why you might want to know if your iend is gay. There are some important thgs that you have to unrstand about this suatn before gog forward, however. Someone's sexualy is highly plex and highly... * i like a guy that is gay *
Obvly, I am not gonna nvce Alex to be gay or bi, but simply tryg to fd out is all my goal is. There are lots of reasons why you might want to know if your iend is gay.
You may want to know if your iend is gay, but there may be a good reason why they're stayg closeted. For example, his fay may be vlently homophobic and by cidg that he's gay, you may out him by accint by treatg him different or implyg somethg whout meang to.
If you're tryg to figure out if your iend is gay bee you want to date him (as a woman), 's important to remember that jt bee he might be terted men don't mean he's not terted women.
I LIKE GAY MALE PORN, BUT GAY MEN REAL LIFE EAK ME OUT.
Even if he is gay, that should not rm your opn of him.
Another important thg to remember is that 's not very important whether or not he's gay.
How do you know if you’re gay? This n be another ditor that he's gay. If you're not seeg any of that, then he might be gay.
HOW TO GET A MAN (FOR GAY MEN)
One of the theori about why some people are gay has to do wh the hormon that they're exposed to before they're born. The hormone exposure levels may manift actual, physil ways which n be a vague ditor that a guy might be gay.
Gay men are slightly more likely to have even fgers than straight men. It is possible that your guy iend is not gay but stead falls somewhere else on the Ksey sle of unirns and awomens. Although some people the gay culture may put on a certa voice or a way of speakg, your iend talkg a siar or "effemate" way is still not a very good way to judge.
WHAT DO IT MEAN TO BE A GAY MAN?
What a guy enjoys is also not a very good way to judge if he is gay or not.
Everyone n enjoy different thgs; jt like a woman might enjoy watchg football, guys n also enjoy thgs that are more monly associated wh women or the gay muny. The movi he watch and the mic he listens to are also not fair methods to gge if he is straight or gayer than Elton John and Gee Takei put together.
There's the stereotype that if a guy is a good drser or if he spends a bunch of time on his hair, he's gay. Sometim you might assume that jt bee a guy only hangs out wh girls or jt bee his bt iend also seems gay, then he might also be gay. Show him you're okay wh your iends beg gay.
IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
Subtly brg up subjects that show him that you're okay wh your iends beg gay and that he don't need to hi his nature around you. You n talk about another iend that is gay or even jt about someone hypothetilly g out if you don't know someone who's gay. He do a great job of showg people that there's more to gay people than all those offensive stereotyp.
But if he is gay, he will probably tell you once he's fortable and feels like he tsts you.