Qutn: TWO months ago my son Gav, 29, announced that he is gay. He me home one weekend to expla to me and my hband that he has been livg wh his partner for three months and has known he was gay sce he was 17.
Contents:
- YOUR CHILD JT TOLD YOU HE'S GAY. NOW WHAT?
- WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR CHILD SAYS: "I'M GAY"
- MY SON MIGHT BE GAY. WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO HIM?
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR SON IS GAY
- THIS IS HOW I FELT WHEN MY SON TOLD ME HE WAS GAY
- I NNOT AL WH FACT MY SON IS GAY
- SO YOU THK YOUR SON IS GAY? DON'T ASK. LET HIM TELL YOU
- THIS IS HOW I REALLY REACTED WHEN MY SON TOLD ME HE WAS GAY
YOUR CHILD JT TOLD YOU HE'S GAY. NOW WHAT?
There's a new Android app out (here's the English versn) lled "Is My Son Gay?" which one n answer an easy seri of qutns ("Are you divorced?") that will tell you if, fact, your son is a gay person. * so what if my son is gay *
For straight parents, havg a child reveal that he is gay n be a jolt. You might ask how long he or she has known, and why he feels he is gay, bi, or trans, suggts Jonathan Tobk, M.
WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR CHILD SAYS: "I'M GAY"
D., a psychiatrist private practice New York Cy and the -thor of When Your Child Is Gay: What You Need to Know.
MY SON MIGHT BE GAY. WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO HIM?
You n fd one through the Associatn of Gay and Lbian Psychiatrists. Take the extra step and show your child that you are terted beg the parent of a gay child. Edute yourself on what means to be gay, lbian, bisexual or transgenr.
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR SON IS GAY
PFLAG, or Parents for Lbians and Gays, which now has a group for transgenr youth, and holds natnwi chapters and meetgs;.
When parents learn that their child is gay, lbian, bisexual, or transgenr, they n experience a range of emotns. As a matter of fact, you might someday look back and fd that you are grateful for the experience of havg a gay or lbian child.
THIS IS HOW I FELT WHEN MY SON TOLD ME HE WAS GAY
Well, my study of 65 fai of gay and lbian youth for the book, Comg Out, Comg Home: Helpg Fai Adjt to a Gay or Lbian Child, I found that some parents get to the pot where they believe that the experience of havg a gay child actually ma them a better person—more open-md and sensive to the needs of others, particularly those other mory groups. If you jt found out your child is gay, lbian, bisexual, or transgenr, you may be thkg that such ias are prepostero.
I NNOT AL WH FACT MY SON IS GAY
The tstworthy nfidants let them vent but also rrected some of the misperceptns they absorbed om society, such as that gay people are lonely, unhappy, promiscuo, not fay-oriented, unable to have children, or sted for an unhappy life.
SO YOU THK YOUR SON IS GAY? DON'T ASK. LET HIM TELL YOU
Contact Parents, Fay, and Friends of Lbians and Gays (PFLAG). List of Helpful Books for Parents of Gay and Lbian Children.
Straight Parents Gay Children: Keepg Fai Together (revised edn). Beyond Acceptance: Parents of Lbians, and Gays Talk About Their Experienc. Somethg to Tell You: The Road Fai Travel when a Child is Gay.
THIS IS HOW I REALLY REACTED WHEN MY SON TOLD ME HE WAS GAY
Comg Out, Comg Home: Helpg Fai Adjt to a Gay or Lbian Child. Fortunate Fai: Catholic fai wh lbian dghters and gay sons.
Mom, Dad, I'm Gay: How Fai Negotiate Comg Out. As I relayed When Your Child Is Gay: What You Need To Know (Sterlg, 2016), I found out that my son was gay om a note wh our son's name entwed wh another boy's, surround by a heart. I had spected at tim that he was gay.