There's a new Android app out (here's the English versn) lled "Is My Son Gay?" which one n answer an easy seri of qutns ("Are you divorced?") that will tell you if, fact, your son is a gay person.
Contents:
- YOUR CHILD JT TOLD YOU HE'S GAY. NOW WHAT?
- WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR CHILD SAYS: "I'M GAY"
- MY SON MIGHT BE GAY. WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO HIM?
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR SON IS GAY
- THIS IS HOW I FELT WHEN MY SON TOLD ME HE WAS GAY
- I NNOT AL WH FACT MY SON IS GAY
- SO YOU THK YOUR SON IS GAY? DON'T ASK. LET HIM TELL YOU
- THIS IS HOW I REALLY REACTED WHEN MY SON TOLD ME HE WAS GAY
YOUR CHILD JT TOLD YOU HE'S GAY. NOW WHAT?
* so what if my son is gay *
For straight parents, havg a child reveal that he is gay n be a jolt. You might ask how long he or she has known, and why he feels he is gay, bi, or trans, suggts Jonathan Tobk, M. D., a psychiatrist private practice New York Cy and the -thor of When Your Child Is Gay: What You Need to Know.
WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR CHILD SAYS: "I'M GAY"
You n fd one through the Associatn of Gay and Lbian Psychiatrists.
MY SON MIGHT BE GAY. WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO HIM?
Take the extra step and show your child that you are terted beg the parent of a gay child. Edute yourself on what means to be gay, lbian, bisexual or transgenr.
PFLAG, or Parents for Lbians and Gays, which now has a group for transgenr youth, and holds natnwi chapters and meetgs;.
When parents learn that their child is gay, lbian, bisexual, or transgenr, they n experience a range of emotns.
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR SON IS GAY
As a matter of fact, you might someday look back and fd that you are grateful for the experience of havg a gay or lbian child. Well, my study of 65 fai of gay and lbian youth for the book, Comg Out, Comg Home: Helpg Fai Adjt to a Gay or Lbian Child, I found that some parents get to the pot where they believe that the experience of havg a gay child actually ma them a better person—more open-md and sensive to the needs of others, particularly those other mory groups. If you jt found out your child is gay, lbian, bisexual, or transgenr, you may be thkg that such ias are prepostero.
The tstworthy nfidants let them vent but also rrected some of the misperceptns they absorbed om society, such as that gay people are lonely, unhappy, promiscuo, not fay-oriented, unable to have children, or sted for an unhappy life. Contact Parents, Fay, and Friends of Lbians and Gays (PFLAG).
List of Helpful Books for Parents of Gay and Lbian Children.
THIS IS HOW I FELT WHEN MY SON TOLD ME HE WAS GAY
Straight Parents Gay Children: Keepg Fai Together (revised edn). Beyond Acceptance: Parents of Lbians, and Gays Talk About Their Experienc.
I NNOT AL WH FACT MY SON IS GAY
Somethg to Tell You: The Road Fai Travel when a Child is Gay.
SO YOU THK YOUR SON IS GAY? DON'T ASK. LET HIM TELL YOU
Comg Out, Comg Home: Helpg Fai Adjt to a Gay or Lbian Child. Fortunate Fai: Catholic fai wh lbian dghters and gay sons.
THIS IS HOW I REALLY REACTED WHEN MY SON TOLD ME HE WAS GAY
Mom, Dad, I'm Gay: How Fai Negotiate Comg Out.
As I relayed When Your Child Is Gay: What You Need To Know (Sterlg, 2016), I found out that my son was gay om a note wh our son's name entwed wh another boy's, surround by a heart. I had spected at tim that he was gay. Had I asked him if he were gay when he was 13, he probably would have fensively said "No!
San Berland, the mother of a gay son who ach parents of LGBTQ kids, utn, "It's not a good ia to ask.