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THE GAY FATHER I NEVER KNEW
My(15f) mother(early 50s) has asked me if I'm gay and led to an argument. I was asked by my mom if I was gay. They explaed that they didn't re if I was gay, and that they'd love me eher way, spe growg up beg told that beg gay is a s my whole life and that if I end up likg women that's an stant disown.
I was told that they don't re if I'm gay, straight, whatever, as long as if I believe god (which i dont whoops). Tldr- mom asks if i'm gay, i say why do you re, she feels betrayed, i feel upset, and everythg sucks. My mom asked me if I was gay yterday...
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THE GAY FATHER I NEVER KNEW
Anyway, she brgs this up, and then asks me if was me (implicly askg me whether or not I experience feelgs of homosexualy. Then I padd on a ltle "Heh, don't worry mom, I'm not gay" (she hadn't actually ed the word yet). She said, "I don't thk you're gay, would jt be really sad if you were alg wh this sort of problem and didn't tst (parental ) enough to say anythg until you were an adult.
Sometim feels like she knows that I'm gay and exmo and hop 's jt a phase that she n "help me get through" or somethg.