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my son is a gay man

My mother, and my (gay) self.

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MY SON MIGHT BE GAY. WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO HIM?

Dave, I have a 17-year-old son, and I am fairly sure he is gay.

MY HBAND IS GAY BUT WE’RE MARRIED WH TWO KIDS AND HAVE GREAT SEX

I psed on our lol PBS affiliate, where a huge choir was sgg, and after a few sends I realized was the Gay Men's Chos of some cy or another dog a fundraisg ncert. At this time my life, I was 99 percent certa I was gay, though nowhere near ready to sprg on my parents.

GAY MEN AND THEIR MOTHERS: IS THERE A SPECIAL CLOSENS?

We had no gay people our liv back then, no way to gge my fay's level of tolerance. We had no gay people our liv back then, no way to gge my fay's level of watched as they livered a rendn of what I remember as "Somewhere Over the Rabow, " bee eher they or my memory are unfivably basic.

Stirrg and brave and subversive, g as did a time before marriage equaly was on the map, a time when you only saw gay people on the news. Good on you for not pot-blank askg your son whether he's gay.

It means one simple, pable thg: Once you have told your dad you're gay, there is no gog back. Right now, he has to be secretive, not bee he's gay, but bee he's 17. I'd love to say that you should do a big, showy "Hey, I sure do like those gay people" at the dner table.

*BEAR-MAGAZINE.COM* MY SON IS A GAY MAN

Dear Pnce: I've disvered my son is gay and sleepg wh his sister’s csh. .

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