Joe Kort, Ph.D., talks about his new book, "Is My Hband Gay, Straight, or Bi?"
Contents:
- IS MY FRIEND GAY, STRAIGHT OR BISEXUAL ABOUT ME? QUIZ FOR BOYS
- IS MY FRIEND GAY? QUIZ
- HOW TO DISCREETLY FD OUT IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS GAY
- IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
- ARE YOU GAY OR STRAIGHT?
- HOW TO DEAL WHEN YOUR BT FRIEND IS GAY
- AM I GAY?
- GAY OR STRAIGHT
- IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
IS MY FRIEND GAY, STRAIGHT OR BISEXUAL ABOUT ME? QUIZ FOR BOYS
Wonrg if a iend is gay, straight, or bisexual? Worried/hopg they might 'like' you? Take this tt & fd out before a misunrstandg hurts your iendship. * is my friend gay or straight *
This ltle quiz I created is meant to tell you if one of your iends is gay, straight, or bisexual - and more importantly, if they like you like that or not. i took this quiz and told me im gay but im not i like onlyfans. Me and my iend took this and I am so gay and my iend is so gay but said we were st8 as a pole?????.
hontly i thought i was straight but turns out im gay and have feels for my iend stewart & eli & will & john... Thank you for makg this quiz really helped me figure out my iend was gay, After I did the tt shown he was gay and I asked him out he said y.
My bt iend and I have been iends for 7years and he is gay I'm not.
IS MY FRIEND GAY? QUIZ
Are you unsure about your iend's sexualy? Then, take this "Is my iend gay quiz?" and we will reveal s answer to you. This is a quiz that c... * is my friend gay or straight *
I’m gay and I am proud. me i am not gay but i want to beter know him.
So turns out he lik me, and he me out as gay. I’ve known him for years, and I’m also gay.
HOW TO DISCREETLY FD OUT IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS GAY
Someone's sexualy is personal, so 's important to rpect their privacy. However, you might want to know if a person is gay bee you're terted datg them or want to support them as a iend. Beg open wh them n be... * is my friend gay or straight *
Well my iend is gay.
My iend is gay and I'm also gay we n date now. Then, take this "Is my iend gay quiz? This is a quiz that n tell you whether both (you and your iend) are gay or not.
IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
* is my friend gay or straight *
In his Royal Oaks, Michigan, practice, Joe specializ Gay Affirmative Psychotherapy and IMAGO Relatnship Therapy, often treatg men who are qutng their sexual orientatn. This populatn is the foc of his new and much-need book: Is My Hband Gay, Straight, or Bi?
Number one is the high cince of male-female upl enterg my office bee the woman thks her man might be gay. More often than not, he’s not gay or even bi. He’s actually straight, but for whatever reason, he’s been lookg at gay porn or he’s been havg sex wh men.
A lot of the time the men e on their own and they’re holdg my book about g out as gay, and they want to know, “Is this me? Am I gay? And I thk ’s very important to state right here that I’m a gay man, yet here I am sayg that most of the time the men who are beg sexual wh other men aren’t gay.
ARE YOU GAY OR STRAIGHT?
Some people qutn whether they are gay or straight. Even I did, and the rults on my tt turned out to be gay. So now I am creatg a tt for you! Answer 10 qutns about sexual stuff wh the oppose and same sex! * is my friend gay or straight *
That’s unual, bee most gay men, even most gay therapists, believe that if a guy is havg gay sex, he’s gay.
So how do you terme if a man is or isn’t gay? Most gay or bisexual men will say y. ” I always joke wh clients that for me, as a gay man, when I’m walkg on the beach and checkg people out, the women are the way.
Wh gay clients, they say they feel the same way; wh bisexual clients, they say they’re lookg at both the men and the women; wh straight clients, they say they’re lookg only at the women. Another thg that I look for is homophobia. When a man is a long-term relatnship wh a woman but beg sexual wh men, eher lookg at porn or havg actual sex, he eher will or won’t be homophobic.
HOW TO DEAL WHEN YOUR BT FRIEND IS GAY
Are you qutng your sexualy? Fd out if you’re gay, straight, bisexual, or asexual. Learn what the terms mean and if they apply to you. * is my friend gay or straight *
Intertgly, ’s the gay men who are homophobic. The straight men have no homophobia at all—to the pot where they’re willg to seek unselg om me, an openly gay therapist.
A lot of tim the gay men never even make to me (whout promptg om their wife, anyway) bee they’re riddled wh homophobia and I’m too gay for them. So if a client is stgglg wh his sexual orientatn and he’s got a lot of homophobia, he’s probably gay. A gay guy wants to do all of that wh a man, a bisexual guy might want a man or a woman, and the straight guy wants to only be wh a woman that way.
He’s been lookg at gay porn or he’s been hookg up wh guys he meets through Craigslist. And that’s too gay for them anyway. The gay man is dog this bee ’s his sexual inty.
AM I GAY?
Wh fashn and genr markers changg so rapidly, n sometim be hard to tell whether someone is gay or straight. * is my friend gay or straight *
Even if he’s nfed and don’t want to e out as gay, this is who he is and over time that will e out. But the gay man r. So this is a way of bondg wh men—ironilly, through sex—and happens not bee the man is gay but bee he don’t know any other way to get this need met.
And then they ask me if this mak them gay. It’s not gay or straight, ’s jt your an. Then I tell them that a lot of gay men don’t do anal at all, eher givg or receivg.
If the man is gay, the relatnship has ls of a chance of survival. The reason is that the guy really is gay and he wants to exprs that sexually and romantilly. Eher they’re worried that their man will eventually ci he’s gay and end the relatnship, or they want monogamy, and his cheatg is a threat to the marriage regardls of who he’s dog wh.
GAY OR STRAIGHT
And I should pot out here that the men when they’re engagg this behavr (regardls of whether they’re gay, straight or bi) nearly always tell themselv that what they’re dog is not cheatg bee they’re dog wh a guy. Attemptg to "figure her out" jt to satisfy your cursy is uhil, and uld even put your iend at risk of homophobic harassment. Before you tell your iend the whole story, get an ia of her views on lbian and gay relatnships.
IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
Do she support gay rights?
One way to brg this up is to mentn that you're thkg of attendg a Gay Straight Alliance event, which only "outs" you as a straight ally.