A listg for the 2022 Edburgh Frge show Andrew Whe (But Not a Gay Way) at Jt The Tonic at the Cav.
Contents:
- ANDREW WHE (BUT NOT IN A GAY WAY)
- I LIKE GUYS BUT I DON’T WANT TO BE GAY. HOW DO I STOP BEG GAY?
- CAN SOMEONE BE HOMOSEXUAL AND NOT GAY?
- I LOVE YOU, MAN. BUT, DU, SO NOT A GAY WAY
- HOW DO I KNOW I’M NOT REALLY GAY/STRAIGHT?
- 'S NOT GAY IF YOU'RE UNRWAY
ANDREW WHE (BUT NOT IN A GAY WAY)
* but not in a gay way *
In his show, Andrew Whe talks about how he was que late to e out as gay, pared to others of his generatn.
So he is performg his first LGBT-based edy route wh several goals md, but the ma one, is to bee a gay in. Growg up Salisbury, he did not have many opportuni to experience gay culture, or to see accurate portrayals of same-sex relatnships.
I LIKE GUYS BUT I DON’T WANT TO BE GAY. HOW DO I STOP BEG GAY?
As is apparent some of his datg horror stori, ’s hard to meet gay men when you live sleepy, ral areas.
CAN SOMEONE BE HOMOSEXUAL AND NOT GAY?
The ntent of the show touch on some ser issu, which he talks about how he has tried to volve himself more the gay muny by takg part activism. Jo the flamboyantly reprsed young stand-up as he tells stori of accintal i, BLM protts, chary shops and how they all kickstarted his ambn to bee a gay in (but not a gay way).
I LOVE YOU, MAN. BUT, DU, SO NOT A GAY WAY
Andrew Whe terviewBut Not a Gay Way is a llectn of some of my strongt rout om the last three years all shaped around the narrative of tryg to rever my stolen welli.
HOW DO I KNOW I’M NOT REALLY GAY/STRAIGHT?
It is very homogeneo/ hetero-normative and beg a tholic stutn is not the easit environment for queer stunts.
'S NOT GAY IF YOU'RE UNRWAY
So when we therapists are nonted wh male clients, often married on, who e to wh ep nflicts about their sexual attractn to other men, we often fd that they are willg to e the word “homosexual, ” but chew the “gay” label.
Bee “gay” impli an embracg of the gay liftyle — gay bars, gay pri paras, perhaps multiple sex partners, or even anonymo sex. Unfortunately, much of our natn’s polics have long exacerbated the problem as well, shamg and vilifyg homosexualy, leadg legns of men stgglg wh sexual inty to ternalize their homophobia.
I warned them of the pfalls of keepg their sexual orientatn secret: a life of creased prsn, pursug a secret life the gay unrground wh the danger of beg ught, how attemptg to supprs urg n often e them to bee even more obssed wh them.