Dear Pnce: I’m a straight woman who married a gay man.

i was married to a gay

Jt when I felt nfint enough to date aga, I thought I had met Mr. Right. He turned out to be hidg a major secret (he was gay), and my heart was broken aga.

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I’M A STRAIGHT WOMAN WHO MARRIED A GAY MAN

Is my hband gay? is an unthkable qutn to many wiv, and some hbands do turn out to be gay. Learn the signs of a gay hband. * i was married to a gay *

He’s also always been hont about beg gay and has never hidn om me. Our son took the news very well and don’t re that his father was gay.

IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND

Beg married to a gay man has been a gild ge. For a newly out man, is the end of a paful journey. For spo like me, is jt the begng" name="scriptn * i was married to a gay *

I’ve asked my hband about , and he nfirms that he’s gay, not bisexual. I have doubts that he might leave me someday for a gay relatnship like he did his ex-wife. Would you nsir him bisexual or gay?

I thk your hband que clearly nsirs himself gay, which is far more relevant to your marriage than my asssment of his sense of self.

I MARRIED A GAY MAN

Fdg out your partner is gay n turn your world upsi down and make you qutn everythg about your relatnship." emprop="scriptn * i was married to a gay *

The qutn of how he se his gayns relatn to his two marriag to women, specifilly his current marriage to you, is both more salient and open-end, so I’d suggt you start by askg him to share more of his thoughts on the subject wh you. That will get you a lot further than tryg to figure out if your hband is “really” bisexual (and, implicly, whether that means you n safely hope he won’t leave you for someone else) or “really” gay (and, implicly, whether you have to fear that he’s gog to break up wh you for another man).

WHY I STAYED MARRIED TO MY GAY HBAND: I WAS MTED AS MUCH TO THE LIFTYLE AS TO THE MAN HIMSELF

” His gayns isn’t somethg you n ntralize by beg a sufficiently good or extra-lovg wife. Sometim a woman may have been a heterosexual relatnship for years and yet feel somethg is somehow "off;" and she may fd herself askg, "Is my hband gay? " Many women fd this qutn unthkable but acrdg to Bonnie Kaye,, an expert women married to gay men, is timated that 4 ln women have been, or are, married to gay men.

If a hband is gay, n vastate not only the relatnship but the straight wife as well.

Signs of a Gay Hband – Is My Man Gay?

HOW TO COPE WHEN YOUR SPOE COM OUT AS GAY

The cleart way to know if your hband is gay is if he tells you.

I WAS MARRIED WH 2 KIDS WHEN I REALIZED I’M GAY

If the hband is hont wh both you and wh himself (read: How Do I Know If I Am Gay? Signs You Are Gay), that is when you n tly know that he is gay. Unfortunately, is timated that 50% of gay hbands hi their homosexualy om their wiv and don't reach this place of honty on their own.

In many s, is the wife, who after spectg that somethg is wrong, mt nont the gay hband wh the evince, and only then n hontly be achieved. But if you're wonrg, "Is my man gay, " might be helpful to know that there are signs to look for, acrdg to Kaye.

WOMAN OUT AS GAY 6 YEARS TO MARRIAGE BUT STAYS WH HBAND: ‘HE’S MY SOULMATE’

Kaye has veloped the Official Gay Hband Checklist to help women know if their hbands are gay. Signs Your Hband or Man May Be Gay.

You fd pop-ups of gay pornography on the puter while he claims they are not his.

'DID I EVER REALLY KNOW HIM?': THE WOMEN WHO MARRIED GAY MEN

He adms to havg a homosexual enunter the past. He viss gay bars claimg he's there only to hang out wh his gay iend(s).

He watch porno movi wh gay male scen. He mak ntual homophobic ments or he mak too many gay ments nversatns. His ego appears to be boosted by pliments om gay men.

THE DEVASTATG WAY I DISVERED I MARRIED A GAY MAN

The signs a hband is gay are not meant to be five. A hband may be gay and display none of those signs or a hband may display the signs and not be gay.

*BEAR-MAGAZINE.COM* I WAS MARRIED TO A GAY

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