Advice on how to nont ageism the gay muny spe earlier loss and how to avoid beg alone.
Contents:
- GAY, MIDDLE-AGED, AND LONELY AS HELL
- SAVAGE LOVE: I AM A LONELY, AGG GAY MAN; WHAT SHOULD I DO?
- A GAY MAN AT MIDLIFE PONRS BEG LONELY AND ‘INVISIBLE’
- GAY AND CAN'T FD A PARTNER?
GAY, MIDDLE-AGED, AND LONELY AS HELL
I am a gay man my late 50s and have never been a relatnship. I am so lonely, and the paful empts I feel is beg absolutely unbearable. * i am gay and lonely *
Part of realizg you're gay, or bi, or trans, or non-bary, or anythg other than cisgenr and heterosexual is acceptg you’re different—and somewhat separated—om the majory.
Here he shar his journey to overe the sense of isolatn he felt growg up gay a small U.K.
SAVAGE LOVE: I AM A LONELY, AGG GAY MAN; WHAT SHOULD I DO?
* i am gay and lonely *
At the time, there were no real gay role mols except for Graham Norton and Jack om Dawson's Creek—and I certaly didn't intify wh him bee I wasn't a football player. I felt like I was pletely on my own.This rried on until I was 16, when I started gog out to gay bars my hometown.
A GAY MAN AT MIDLIFE PONRS BEG LONELY AND ‘INVISIBLE’
For the first time I've been able to form a good group of gay iends and create my own support work. I'd go on gay chatrooms but that was jt a facels nversatn wh someone who uld have been anyone. I thk if I'd had iends who were gay when I was growg up, my life would have been so different.
GAY AND CAN'T FD A PARTNER?
I now know there were other kids at my school who were gay, but they didn't e out till much later. For years I’ve noticed the divergence between my straight iends and my gay iends.