Gay men who are raisg kids talk to NBC OUT about their fai and the unique benefs and challeng of gay fatherhood.
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I HAD TWO GAY DADS DES BEFORE IT WAS 'COOL'
"When my two dads met 40 years ago the notn of startg a fay as an openly gay uple was unheard of." * i have 2 gay dads *
I’ll never fet my first day of krgarten bee was the day I learned that not everyone had two gay dads, two brothers and a beagle named Hymie. Then havg to rrect and rm the quisor that my dads were gay when they jt assumed my parents were divorced and remarried which rulted my havg two dads. ” But when my two dads met 40 years ago the notn of startg a fay as an openly gay uple wasn’t jt far-fetched, was unheard of.
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MY TWO DADS: GAY FATHERS HAVE MUCH TO CELEBRATE
* i have 2 gay dads *
"Gay fatherhood was virtually unheard of, ” van Gameren said. However, is important to keep md there are many different shas of gay fathers - cludg some who started fai while heterosexual Brown wh his two BrownDt Brown met his ex-wife New Castle, a small town Indiana, when he was jt 14. “When people outsi of the gay muny see gay...
"While Brown's fay stcture is different om that of Rosenberg and van Gameren's, the men all brought up a siar sentiment: Gay parents help grow acceptance for the muny. "So what advice do the gay fathers have for other gay men who are startg fai or would like to one day? “I thk as society ntu to grow, there are gog to be more and more optns, and will be easier for gay people to have children.
"The kids have to e out too - they have to e out as havg gay dads, and the parents may not be aware of bee kids try to protect their parents. ”In orr to help foster this sense of muny, Rosenberg and van Gameren started, an onle muny that helps gay men navigate fatherhood. Rachel Berry: I am not homophobic.