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AGE DIFFERENC GAY COUPL
Many quiri I have received over and over aga through the years beg somethg like this: “I've always liked olr men, but many gay iends close to my age are cril of me and spic of my motiv. ” One young man said to me, “If I see a handsome gay man my age, he might jt as well have a vaga. Var labels have been ascribed to tergeneratnal upl, whether straight, gay or bisexual: tergeneratnal, age-gap, age-discrepant, or, more often than not, “May-December” relatnships.
Inially, I was unnvced the relatnships were ser, but that was bee I held stereotypil views: an olr gay man who was lookg for a trophy-mate and has the money to take re of his boy toy and a younger man who was lookg for a sugar daddy. I now regnize this as a hackneyed ia that furiat men age-gap gay relatnships.
Based on the number of tim this qutn drops to my mailbox, the reasons for the age-discrepant attractns nsum a great al of bandwidth the thoughts of a lot of young gay and bisexual men. Was pletg his doctoral dissertatn, “May-December: Navigatg Life as an Intergeneratnal Gay Couple, ” he thoroughly rearched what proved to be the limed available lerature on tergeneratnal upl.
6 - SEX AND OLR GAY MEN
They nsir discrimatn a part of beg gay. Their work will fort men the double jeopardy of beg both gay and lovg someone much olr or younger. Photographs by Matthew MorrocLike many gay men searchg for timacy the morn day, the photographer Matthew Morroc has found his share of onle.
Many of his panns had survived both the AIDS crisis and heights of homophobia unknown to younger generatns. And dawned upon me: olr gay men may hold some of the answers.
The are people whose sex liv pre-date apps like Grdr or Scff, and they may have even evad the wispread lennial mentaly of quickly fdg somethg fective wh a new lover, only to start bralsly swipg me, olr gay men me to symbolize the one thg more spirg than heartbreak: rebirth. I need to know their back to perasty Ancient Greece, there has existed a scere social bond between olr gay men and male youth – perhaps the form of today’s “bears” and “twks” – where timacy was mgled wh the dispensg of emotnal tellect.