Gaydar: Do You Have It? | Psychology Today

Contents:

• 17 SIGNS YOU'RE ACTUALLY GAY (AND JT DON'T KNOW IT)
• IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND
• CAN SOMEONE BE HOMOSEXUAL AND NOT GAY?
• GAYDAR: DO YOU HAVE IT?
• HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY
• HOW DO I KNOW I’M NOT REALLY GAY/STRAIGHT?

17 SIGNS YOU'RE ACTUALLY GAY (AND JT DON'T KNOW IT)

“Am I gay? Beg gay is really no big al. It’s the twenty first century and if someone’s gog to be a judgmental ltle hoe, then they don’t serve to be your v gay life.

IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND

So if you n relate to the signs then you’re actually gay (you jt don’t know yet). One of your top ten experienc was at a Pri para where you were surround by the most tertg, fun strangers you have ever enuntered, and no one you knew was there to judge you, or the only people you knew there were gay. You sometim thk about what would be like to tell your parents, extend fay, and iends that you are gay.

You believe equaly, love diversy, have liberal views, and are mted to seeg gay marriage legalized every untry.

CAN SOMEONE BE HOMOSEXUAL AND NOT GAY?

Are you gay, whout even knowg ?

Even if every em on the list applied to you, don’t mean you’re gay.

Remember that sexualy is not limed to gay and straight. If you are gay, I really, really hope you know , and enurage you to be your te self. I am gay but have never admted this to anyone.

GAYDAR: DO YOU HAVE IT?

My iends probably spect I am gay, but we have never discsed .

Your iends, who might already spect that you’re gay, will get to know you on a eper level and likely feel much closer to you. Sometim a woman may have been a heterosexual relatnship for years and yet feel somethg is somehow "off;" and she may fd herself askg, "Is my hband gay? " Many women fd this qutn unthkable but acrdg to Bonnie Kaye,, an expert women married to gay men, is timated that 4 ln women have been, or are, married to gay men.

If a hband is gay, n vastate not only the relatnship but the straight wife as well. Signs of a Gay Hband – Is My Man Gay?

HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY

The cleart way to know if your hband is gay is if he tells you.

If the hband is hont wh both you and wh himself (read: How Do I Know If I Am Gay? Signs You Are Gay), that is when you n tly know that he is gay.

Unfortunately, is timated that 50% of gay hbands hi their homosexualy om their wiv and don't reach this place of honty on their own. In many s, is the wife, who after spectg that somethg is wrong, mt nont the gay hband wh the evince, and only then n hontly be achieved.

HOW DO I KNOW I’M NOT REALLY GAY/STRAIGHT?

But if you're wonrg, "Is my man gay, " might be helpful to know that there are signs to look for, acrdg to Kaye.

Kaye has veloped the Official Gay Hband Checklist to help women know if their hbands are gay.

Signs Your Hband or Man May Be Gay. You fd pop-ups of gay pornography on the puter while he claims they are not his. He adms to havg a homosexual enunter the past.