3 Ways to Know if You Are Gay - wikiHow

Contents:

• WHAT DO IT MEAN TO BE A GAY MAN?
• GAY TT (MALE ONLY): THE TTH AWAS, MEN!
• AM I GAY?
• HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM GAY? SIGNS YOU ARE GAY
• HOW TO GET A MAN (FOR GAY MEN)
• AM I GAY? QUIZ – 100% RELIABLE TT
• AM I GAY? HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY?
• HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY
• HOW TO COPE WHEN YOU'RE GAY AND LONELY
• ARE YOU GAY? (FOR BOYS ONLY)
• IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND

WHAT DO IT MEAN TO BE A GAY MAN?

So many gay men grow up believg there is somethg “wrong” wh bee we are different om other supposedly “normal” mal.

It’s not surprisg that a term like “straight-actg” shows up so often gay men’s onle personal ads. It prumably means the advertiser nsirs himself a “real” man—real, that is, acrdg to a standard of masculy he don’t attribute to other gay men.

GAY TT (MALE ONLY): THE TTH AWAS, MEN!

So many gay men learn we are different om other boys by havg the fact poted out and ridiculed by bulli durg our young, most imprsnable, years. As every gay man knows who has been sulted or asslted for his actual or perceived sexual orientatn, there are steep penalti for vlatg the Boy Co as there are for anyone who is “different” om the prumed (typilly whe, heterosexual, middle-class) standard. How do a gay kid survive the trma he suffers for beg different a culture that still nmns his difference as somethg bad or “ls-than” and wants to mold him to the same shape tri to mold every boy?

Robert Pollack says the most important thg a fay n do to support their gay son is to keep lovg him, “to nvey to him, as soon as he shar his feelgs, that he is still loved through and through, that his sexual orientatn will not any way dimish how much he is admired and rpected. He needs to know that ’s okay not only to be gay if that's what he is, but to be a man who choos what beg a man means for himself. Fortunately there is a long history of gay men who bucked the accepted fns of masculy and created liv that exprsed their unrstandg of themselv and how they choose to exprs their inty as men who don’t necsarily f tradnal molds.

The late Harry Hay often lled "the father of the morn gay movement, " found the Mattache Society Los Angel the fall of 1950 for gay men to gather and ponr the qutns Hay had long been askg: Who are gay people? Where do gay people e om? Where have gays been throughout history?

AM I GAY?

Hay didn’t tend the Mattach to be a polil anizatn per se, but a group that would e together to enhance their self-unrstandg and explore the ntributns gay people had ma to the human race through the ag. In a 1987 say tled “A Separate People Whose Time Has Come, ” Hay scribed homosexuals as “spir people, ” who, throughout the ag, had served society their rol as “msengers and tercers, shamans of both genrs, prits and prits, imagemakers and prophets, mim and rhapsos, poets and playwrights, healers and nurturers, teachers and preachers, tkers and tkerers, searchers and rearchers.

Hay believed that gay people had somethg special to teach nongay people about human life, and for that reason should be nurtured, rather than reviled, by society.

He postulated that “gay people reprent a geic mutatn of nscns whose active fosterg is now required for human survival.

HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM GAY? SIGNS YOU ARE GAY

Hay believed that gay men are different om heterosexuals and that those differenc go much eper than mere sexual attractn to other men.

HOW TO GET A MAN (FOR GAY MEN)

He said gay men look at the world differently, are uniquely nonaggrsive, nonpetive, oriented toward sharg and cled to velop what Hay lled “subject-subject” love relatnships of equals. In a 1990 terview for the Washgton Bla, Harry Hay told me our llg as gay men “is not only to accept our uniquens, but to affirm , make joyo.

AM I GAY? QUIZ – 100% RELIABLE TT

For gay men, learng to accept our “different” sexual orientatn as a posive aspect of ourselv is only part of our “g out. y i'm gay and want a gay man to do wh!

i thk and mayby 80% gay btt i like a?sometim. I am a gay top and love a geo male body. i am a gay male and love the geo male body!

Y I’m GAY!!!! i am very much gay.

AM I GAY? HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY?

It says im bi but im gay, lol I don't like girls, I love men. Gay!

HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY

Been nfed wanted to be bi but Im gay.

HOW TO COPE WHEN YOU'RE GAY AND LONELY

Gay - While this adjective has historilly scribed men who are attracted to other men, the term now is ed to refer to anyone who experienc romantic, emotnal, or physil attractn to people of the same genr. Sce genr inty and sexual orientatn are separate, transgenr people n intify as straight, gay, lbian, bisexual, etc.

Particularly when young, some people may ask, "How do I know if I am gay? When down to , there is no reliable "Am I Gay tt", so the only way to know that you are gay (fn of gay) is to look wh yourself to terme your own thoughts and feelgs towards others of the same sex.

ARE YOU GAY? (FOR BOYS ONLY)

You might also want to nsir the possibily that you are neher gay nor straight and are bisexual or jt cur. There are also signs that you might be gay to nsir.

Signs You Are Gay. There is no one way that gay people act or look – gay people are jt as diverse as straight people.

IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND

Jt bee you are a man who is effemate or a woman who is boyish, that do not mean that you're necsarily gay. When lookg at the signs you are gay, you might want to ask yourself the qutns:1. Dealg wh Signs You Might Be Gay.