Joe Kort, Ph.D., talks about his new book, "Is My Hband Gay, Straight, or Bi?"
Contents:
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR IEND IS GAY
- I’M PRETTY SURE MY IEND IS GAY. HOW DO I ASK HIM?
- IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
- IS MY FRIEND GAY, STRAIGHT OR BISEXUAL ABOUT ME? QUIZ FOR BOYS
- HOW TO KNOW IF A GAY FRIEND LIK YOU (FOR MEN)
- HOW TO TELL A FRIEND YOU'RE GAY AND YOU LOVE THEM
- 17 SIGNS YOUR BOYIEND IS SECRETLY GAY (& WHAT TO DO)
- IS MY BOYIEND GAY? 10 SIGNS TO HELP YOU TELL FOR SURE
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR IEND IS GAY
There’s a group of who hang out, and we are pretty sure that one of our iends is gay. We don’t re, we jt wish he wouldn’t hi if that’s the se. Should we ask him outright? * if my friend is gay *
There are lots of reasons why you might want to know if your iend is gay. You may want to know if your iend is gay, but there may be a good reason why they're stayg closeted.
For example, his fay may be vlently homophobic and by cidg that he's gay, you may out him by accint by treatg him different or implyg somethg whout meang to.[1]. If you're tryg to figure out if your iend is gay bee you want to date him (as a woman), 's important to remember that jt bee he might be terted men don't mean he's not terted women. Another important thg to remember is that 's not very important whether or not he's gay.
One of the theori about why some people are gay has to do wh the hormon that they're exposed to before they're born. The hormone exposure levels may manift actual, physil ways which n be a vague ditor that a guy might be gay.
I’M PRETTY SURE MY IEND IS GAY. HOW DO I ASK HIM?
* if my friend is gay *
Gay men are slightly more likely to have even fgers than straight men. It is possible that your guy iend is not gay but stead falls somewhere else on the Ksey sle of unirns and awomens. Although some people the gay culture may put on a certa voice or a way of speakg, your iend talkg a siar or "effemate" way is still not a very good way to judge.
What a guy enjoys is also not a very good way to judge if he is gay or not.
IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
Wonrg if a iend is gay, straight, or bisexual? Worried/hopg they might 'like' you? Take this tt & fd out before a misunrstandg hurts your iendship. * if my friend is gay *
Everyone n enjoy different thgs; jt like a woman might enjoy watchg football, guys n also enjoy thgs that are more monly associated wh women or the gay muny. The movi he watch and the mic he listens to are also not fair methods to gge if he is straight or gayer than Elton John and Gee Takei put together. There's the stereotype that if a guy is a good drser or if he spends a bunch of time on his hair, he's gay.
IS MY FRIEND GAY, STRAIGHT OR BISEXUAL ABOUT ME? QUIZ FOR BOYS
Perhaps you have realized you are gay and that you have fallen love wh your iend. You have also probably realized that this is a lot to al wh! You may want to be hont wh your iend about your sexualy as well as your... * if my friend is gay *
Sometim you might assume that jt bee a guy only hangs out wh girls or jt bee his bt iend also seems gay, then he might also be gay. Subtly brg up subjects that show him that you're okay wh your iends beg gay and that he don't need to hi his nature around you.[6].
You n talk about another iend that is gay or even jt about someone hypothetilly g out if you don't know someone who's gay.[7].
He do a great job of showg people that there's more to gay people than all those offensive stereotyp. But if he is gay, he will probably tell you once he's fortable and feels like he tsts you.
HOW TO KNOW IF A GAY FRIEND LIK YOU (FOR MEN)
If you're readg this, there's a good chance you thk your boyiend might be gay. No doubt you're also feelg pretty nfed and wonrg how to al wh the suatn. It's a very sensive suatn to al wh, and you need to make sure you rpect his feelgs. But at the same time, you n't * if my friend is gay *
This is the bt way to fd out if someone is gay and much ls offensive than makg assumptns about them.[9].
Say somethg like, "You know you're stuck wh me as a iend no matter what, but I jt have to ask bee I don't want to make assumptns and e to the wrong nclns: are you gay?". Don't jt outright ask "Are you gay?" It may sound nsirate. Article SummaryXTo tell if your guy iend is gay, notice whether he refers to other guys as attractive, which uld be a sign that he’s gay.
HOW TO TELL A FRIEND YOU'RE GAY AND YOU LOVE THEM
Is your boyiend gay? How n you tell? Here are 10 signs to look out for that he might be gay, and some advice on how to handle that. * if my friend is gay *
Pay attentn to how much he talks about women a romantic or sexual way, sce a lack of tert women uld suggt he’s gay.
If you’re still unsure, try talkg to him about gay men to see how he rponds. He do a great job of owng his sexualy.” If he seems enthiastic about your pot, he uld be gay.
17 SIGNS YOUR BOYIEND IS SECRETLY GAY (& WHAT TO DO)
For stance, say somethg like, “Not that I md eher way, but I was jt wonrg whether you're gay?” For more tips, cludg how to show your iend that you’re okay wh gay people, read on! You may already know that your iend is gay, however, 's important to let them actually say to you. Try askg your iend "Who have you e out to?" If you want to talk about your iend to a parent or guardian, try askg "Would you be okay wh me mentng that you're gay to my parents if me up, or would you prefer that I keep quiet?".
If you then don't have the nvictn that beg gay is natural and good, you may want to rensir the iendship.
IS MY BOYIEND GAY? 10 SIGNS TO HELP YOU TELL FOR SURE
Maybe you're over the moon and you'll not only march gay pri paras, but you want to anise some right now! Acceptance n make a huge different the liv of LGBTQIA (Lbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgenr, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual) people.[3].
Article SummaryXIt might e as a b of a shock to fd out your bt iend is gay, but by supportg them and givg yourself time to get ed to , your iendship n be jt like was. It probably took a lot of urage for your iend to e out as gay, so tell them that you accept them for who they are to be a good iend.
You should also avoid tellg anyone else that your iend is gay, sce should be their cisn who knows. However, you might want to know if a person is gay bee you’re terted datg them or want to support them as a iend. While you n’t tell if someone is gay by how they look, you n observe them to see if they're queer.