Our seven-year-old son told he was gay - Today's Parent

Contents:

• HOW DO I DISCS BEG GAY WH MY 8-YEAR-OLD?
• AT WHAT AGE DO KIDS INTIFY AS GAY?
• WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR CHILD SAYS: "I'M GAY"
• OUR SEVEN-YEAR-OLD SON TOLD HE WAS GAY
• IS AN 8-YEAR-OLD TOO YOUNG TO KNOW HE’S GAY?
• IS YOUR CHILD GAY?

HOW DO I DISCS BEG GAY WH MY 8-YEAR-OLD?

Q: My 8-year-old son asked what means to be gay. This might sound somethg like, "Sometim men fall love wh men and women fall love wh women - when they do, we ll a 'gay' relatnship.

AT WHAT AGE DO KIDS INTIFY AS GAY?

" The qutn of why is lled gay is a whole different story, but the good news is that when you don't know the answer to a qutn, is perfectly fe to simply say, "You know, I don't know the answer to that!

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR CHILD SAYS: "I'M GAY"

" Some parents may fear that if they tell their younger children that "gay" is what means when people of the same genr are attracted to each other that they will be forced to answer qutns about sexual relatns between same sex upl, but my experience that is rarely the se - don't occur to most kids that age to ask. Some parents also fear that tellg a younger child that sometim men are attracted to men and women are attracted to women will put ias their kids' heads about "beg gay" themselv.

When did you first know that you were gay? Some kids know they are gay high school but don’t tell anyone until years later.

One of the ma issu wh trackg when kids start to intify as gay is that most people assume that all kids start out straight. The realy is that many kids know they are gay at a younger age than you might expect – even elementary school.

OUR SEVEN-YEAR-OLD SON TOLD HE WAS GAY

They found that one percent of kids ag 9-10 intify as gay, bisexual, or transgenr. 48% of College Stunts Knew They Were Gay High School. While a portn of kids intify as gay elementary school, what is the age when most kids e out as gay?

IS AN 8-YEAR-OLD TOO YOUNG TO KNOW HE’S GAY?

That beg said, some rearchers om the Sexualy Informatn and Edutn Council of the Uned Stat talked wh llege stunts who intify as gay and bisexual to learn when they were aware of their sexual preferenc. 48% of gay and bisexual llege stunts knew their sexual preferenc high school. 20% of gay and bisexual men knew junr high school pared to six percent of women.

17% of gay and bisexual men knew gra school pared wh 11% of women. This data prov the vast majory of LGBTQ+ kids intify as gay before they leave for llege – or intify their sexual preferenc shortly after. There isn’t a that flips when kids turn 18 that term whether or not they are gay.

In some s, the olr adults didn’t realize that openg up about beg gay was an optn. One man, Kenh Felts, knew he was gay om the age of 12. “As long as I was the closet, all of my cisns — both nsc and subnsc — were guid by not wantg people to know I was gay, ” Felts told the Washgton Post.

IS YOUR CHILD GAY?

When parents learn that their child is gay, lbian, bisexual, or transgenr, they n experience a range of emotns.