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After a year and a half of datg, they opened up fancially to one another and admted they were each rryg loads of cred rd bt -- to the tune of $51,000 bed. Dpe beg fancial profsnals who had plenty of knowledge about money, they realized their "fancial troubl had roots beg LGBT," Schneir says. "We both me om a time and place where wasn't OK to be gay," Schneir says.

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THE HIGH COST OF BEG GAY

Members of the LGBT muny face unique fancial hurdl. Here's how to handle budgetg, tate planng, cred rd bt and livg expens if you're a member of the lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr muny. * expensive to be gay *

Dpe beg fancial profsnals who had plenty of knowledge about money, they realized their "fancial troubl had roots beg LGBT, " Schneir LGBT acronym means lbian, gay, bisexual and transgenr and may be lengthened to clu queer, tersex and asexual inti to the mix. "We both me om a time and place where wasn't OK to be gay, " Schneir says. But while longevy risk plagu much of Ameri's agg populatn, whether gay or straight, cis- or transgenr, LGBT people often need to save even more to afford their longer liv.

The more of there are helpg the LGBT muny, the easier will be for people to know that gay fancial advice is available.

The bate over gay marriage has long “foced on God and Scripture, the Constutn, and equal protectn, ” said Tara Siegel Bernard and Ron Lieber The New York Tim.

THE ST OF BEG GAY

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Lookg at factors such as health surance, Social Secury, tax, and pensns, we lculated “a uple’s lifetime st of beg gay”— the bt se for our average gay uple, st $41, 196; the worst se, $467, 562. Fally, an analysis of the “fancial discrimatn” we gay upl face, said Andrew Sullivan The Atlantic. ” Bis, sce the ernment’s anti-gay-marriage polici “enurage gay people not to form stable, lastg relatnships, ” they also have a big societal st.

“I’ve always supported gay marriage myself, ” said Wisns law profsor Ann Althoe her blog, but the Tim’ analysis mers some skepticism. Their average uple earns $140, 000 a year, and their analysis really appli to all unmarried upl, not jt gay upl.

“Sgl are shortchanged” all the same ways that gay upl are, but they also subsidize the “perks” enjoyed by all upl, gay or straight: club memberships, vatn packag, r surance, to name a few. Much of the bate over legalizg gay marriage has foced on God and Scripture, the Constutn and equal protectn. And for years, we’ve heard om gay upl about all the extra health, legal and other sts they bear.

THE HIGH PRICE OF BEG A GAY COUPLE

So we set out to terme what they were and to e up wh a round number — a uple’s lifetime st of beg gay.

THE HIGH COST OF BEG GAY

We looked at benefs that routely go to married heterosexual upl but not to gay upl, like certa Social Secury payments. Even tax preparatn n st more, sce gay upl have to file two sets of returns. Our goal was to create a hypothetil gay uple whose suatn would be siar to a heterosexual uple’s.

We also nsired the tax the three stat that have the hight timated gay populatns — New York, California and Florida. In our worst se, the uple’s lifetime st of beg gay was $467, 562. Gay upl earng, say, $80, 000, uld have health surance sts siar to our hypothetil higher-earng uple, but they might well owe more e tax than their heterosexual unterparts.

BEG GAY IS EXPENSIVE: HERE’S HOW TO TAKE PRI YOUR FANC

For wealthy upl wh a lot of assets, on the other hand, the st of beg gay uld easily spiral to the lns. Nearly all the extra sts that gay upl face would be erased if the feral ernment legalized same-sex marriage.

SLOG AM: IT'S ALWAYS BEEN TOO EXPENSIVE TO BE GAY

One exceptn is the st of havg blogil children, but we felt was appropriate to clu this given our goal of outlg every st gay upl cur that heterosexual upl may not. We also ma a number of assumptns based on average sts, life spans, state of rince and gay fay is ma up of two women livg New York State a mted partnership that lasts 46 years, until the first partner di at age 81.

All this st the gay uple $211, 993 more than their heterosexual married unterparts, who were able to take advantage of the higher-earner’s fay verage. In our bt se, health verage st the gay uple $28, 595 more. We assumed both gay partners were eligible for employer-provid verage.

ARE GAY MEN REALLY RICH?

In the worst se, the gay partner who earned $30, 000 uld not receive higher spoal benefs or survivor benefs om her partner’s much higher earngs rerd.

In total, the gay women llected $88, 511 ls Social Secury than a siar heterosexual uple. Some upl might try to buy life surance an attempt to replace the Pedrick for The New York TimIn our bt se, when the gay partners had largely intil , neher was at a huge disadvantage bee they end up wh about the same monthly benefs. And though New York regniz marriag performed elsewhere, that regnn do not extend to state e or tate our worst se, the gay partner who died first 2055 left an tate that exceed the state’s thrhold by $171, 528.

The gay uple our bt se had a smaller tate, part bee they were reful to tle their home as tenants--mon, so only the ceased partner’s half of the home was taxable. Stay-at-home gay partners, however, nnot make the ntributns.

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So the gay uple wh one partner who started out earng jt $30, 000 would have saved ls (had she been legally able to) than someone earng $70, 000. The survivg spoe om the gay uple wh equal end up $112, 192 PreparatnInstead of filg one jot feral tax return and one state e tax return, same-sex upl mt file two sets of returns.

In the worst se, our gay uple spent $5, 500 more than their heterosexual unterparts on their addnal paperwork.

They benef om what’s known as a marriage our worst se, where one gay partner earned $110, 000 and one earned $30, 000, the uple paid $15, 027 ls tax over their lifetim than their heterosexual unterparts. Though the gay and heterosexual married uple had intil salari, the married uple llected more e retirement — a direct rult of their marriage stat — and th owed more tax (though they still benefed om the marriage bon). The gay upl weren’t entled to any of the benefs.

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