Gay U.S. lacrosse goalie wants to ‘normalize what mak different’ - Outsports

lacrosse is so gay

Madison Doucette ed her g out as gay lacrosse to crease acceptance.

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HARVARD LACROSSE PLAYER TO TEAMMAT: ‘GUYS, I’M GAY’

At USA Lacrosse, we celebrate that anyone om anywhere should be able to play lacrosse and ’ve piled and veloped rourc to help parents, players, and lears posively nnect wh the lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr, and queer (LGBTQ+) muny lacrosse. Our hope is that wh this rmatn and sight hand, you’ll have the tools necsary to support the LGBTQ+ muny a meangful and productive way."I thk ’s awome that when people look at lacrosse, they will see all kds of people.” * lacrosse is so gay *

ELI5:Why do people ll lacrosse gay? I keep hearg people say that lacrosse is gay and how baseball is better. Noah Knopf was received warmly after g out to his Harvard teammat, but says the sport has to al wh an graed homophobia.

GAY ATHLET IN LACROSSE – WHAT’S THE PROBLEM HERE?

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“I wanted to talk to you this morng to tell you that I’m gay. “I uld tell people that I’m gay. When I was 19, I heard on a podst that the new ernor of Colorado was gay, and felt for a moment that the world might be changg.

Never had I properly acknowledged the fact that I was gay. While bshg my teeth a few nights before talkg to my parents, I realized that I had never even said the words “I’m gay” out loud before. “I’m gay, ” I whispered the mirror, and sed to myself.

I also felt the need to expla myself my first few nversatns about beg gay.

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I’m gay. I had asked my iends and fay to keep our nversatns private bee, after wnsg the way that people lacrosse talk about beg gay, I wanted my teammat to hear the news om me. I believed that after three years on the team, they would know me as Noah first and the gay kid send, but our locker room was not immune to the homophobic jok and sults that are the norm men’s lacrosse.

Although my experience as a gay whe man is different om Ellison’s experience as a Black man, his words spired me. But one factor I began to nsir was the way that people talk about beg gay our culture. For the first time throughout the fall, I started payg closer attentn to the jok, sults and ments about beg gay that had surround me sce I was a teenager.

I first heard the word “faggot” locker rooms when I was fifth gra — before I unrstood what meant to be gay. Even the progrsive circl where I me om, kids sually threw around homophobic jok and sults que routely, cludg those of who would have said we believed was pletely OK to be gay. I’m embarrassed to say that I too ma homophobic jok and lghed at homophobic sults.

GAY U.S. LACROSSE GOALIE ME OUT TO ‘NORMALIZE WHAT MAK DIFFERENT’

I believe that a siar gnive dissonance plays a role the wispread homophobic speech that pervas the sport of lacrosse. I am sure that a few people our sport do ed hate gay people and e hateful language to exprs their feelgs. But still, homophobic language flows eely practilly every llege lacrosse locker room om stunts at some of the world’s most ele universi.

Homophobic jok still richet through the group chats of high school lacrosse players across Ameri. So many young people our sport still throw around homophobic sentiments sually and thoughtlsly, my past self among them, as if there is some kd of divi between their beliefs and their words, as if is ed tly possible to “not mean like that. When I began to nsir g out, I thought I wanted to be the gay kid who “gets .

GAY HIGH SCHOOL LACROSSE PLAYER FOUND STRENGTH OM PRO PLAYER’S ALLYSHIP

” I thought I wanted to be the gay kid who was ol wh my iends llg each other “fags” and referrg to thgs they didn’t like as gay.

They don’t get that the homophobic culture of lacrosse matters. From the way that my iends and I joked growg up, I learned that beg gay was equivalent to beg annoyg and unmanly.

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