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What to do when your son tells you he's gay.

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IS MY SON GAY OR IS A PHASE?

* boy 15 year gay *

My 17-year-old son and I got to a b of a heated argument this weekend and the midst of my son said he's gay.

My hband says that he has always thought that our son is gay and that if he's gay, he's gay. There are no other gays our fay as far as I know.

It is highly unlikely that your son told you that he is gay simply to upset you. Gay kids often tell their parents about their sexualy the middle of a fight bee they feel that they have nothg left to lose sce you are already upset wh them. It is probably more likely that he has known that he is gay for some time.

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How much more advice is there for 15-year-old fags and dyk om grown-up gays and lbians? TONS. Read and learn, young homos, read and learn. What I wish I had known at 15 that I know now is that there are ways of approachg bondage and kk that uld be lovg, nurturg, and healthy-a matter of tst and affectn. * boy 15 year gay *

I suggt that you and your hband talk to your son durg a lm moment and ask him how he is pg wh beg a gay teen. Also, please keep md that gay teens need the opportuny to talk to their parents about relatnship issu jt as straight kids do.

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The nversatn wh gay teens do not end after an acceptance of their sexual choic. How much more advice is there for 15-year-old fags and dyk om grown-up gays and lbians?

Read and learn, young homos, read and I wish I had known at 15 that I know now is that there are ways of approachg bondage and kk that uld be lovg, nurturg, and healthy-a matter of tst and affectn. I didn't even know there was such a thg as a "leather muny" those days, and the procs of beg part of that, I beme part of the gay muny as well and fally me out at the ripe old age of God for your lumn, Dan, bee lets so many people know that they're not alone. I was an out 15-year-old gay boy five years ago, and boy do I have some advice for today's 15 year-old gay boys!

Stop dreamg about gettg to gay bars and work on beg tertg and learned and shape. Gay bars suck, and you will learn this soon enough. > Sage Twentysomethg Fag Ivan In Canada"All those football/track/baseball players you fooled around wh high school really aren't gay (most of them).

WHEN DO GAY KIDS START “ACTG GAY”?

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Many gays are specific about the typ of guys/fetish they like: athlet/bears/leather. Before havg unprotected sex, go ask some people who have AIDS what they would have done differently-(gay) life don't end at 30 and 's better enjoyed healthy.

Friends are the gay man's fay: Get good on and treat 'em well> SteveI am not a gay man, but I am a fag hag, and I was one through high school and llege.

For young gay teens, pecially those new out of the closet and new on the scene: Olr, geo, succsful gay men are not the answer to your wo. Do not fall prey to the folly of meetg someone 10, 15, 20 years olr than you, hookg up wh him and thkg he will lovgly her you to gaydom. So many of my gay male iends have been emotnally stroyed by this, even fected.

FIVE YEARS OLD AND GAY RURAL, WTERN KANSAS

A gay man fondly rells his first homosexual experience ral, wtern Kansas at five years old which end wh unhappy effects. * boy 15 year gay *

If the gay clubs your area let unrage kids, chanc are good that there will be some other bewilred kid standg the rner hopg someone will talk to him. The girl that star at you all the time, she's gay too.

If she utters the phrase "I am not gay; I jt like you, " head for the hills. Fem-L or tl like The Well of Lonels n give you a clue to whether she is gay or not. > Black Femme GodssI spent the majory of my formative queer years as an overweight, morately prsed homo who laboured unr the belief that all gay men were the va, image-obssed bch who para nightly through the streets of Wt Hollywood.

IS YOUR CHILD GAY?

A 43-year-old man engaged a sex act wh a 15-year-old boy he met through a gay social workg applitn was ught when the police kicked down the door to the stairse landg the pair was at. * boy 15 year gay *

People will tell you all kds of sh about beg "tertg" and other such nonsense, but tst me guys (and this will be te your whole life): If you're hot, gay men will fd you simply fuckg fascatg no matter what you say or do, even if you're a total vapid blank of a human beg. > Olr, Wiser, HotterGay guys wh bodi of ath and foo-foo hair and expensive wardrob may look like they have all, but they often live terror that their pretty exterrs will cmble and everyone will disver the empty liv si. > A Separate PeaceHere's the advice I wish I'd heard when I was a slightly effemate, 15-year-old gay guy: Relax.

That rigid sistence on "straight-actg" men you will notice gays is a kd of nrosis; they will never let their fuckg hair down, so jt ignore them. Fally, unrstand gay issu and as soon as you're old enough; vote like your life pends on . > JoeNot all lbians have always thought of themselv as men and not all gay men have always thought of themselv as women.

15 YEAR OLD SON HAS JT ANNOUNCED HE IS GAY - ADVICE NEED ON BOUNDARI - LON

Gay youth often face their set of challeng after g out about their genr preferenc. * boy 15 year gay *

> Olr TrannyHere's some advice that EVERY 15-year-old gay boy (and most of the olr on, too) need: Do not, I repeat, do not h on straight men after they've told you that they are straight and not cur. I'm a straight guy who gets h on all the time by gay boys, and most of the time isn't even flatterg, 's jt pathetic. Fd a school unsellor, a support group, or look on the Web for someone who is gay-iendly and see if you n vis them.

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As I relayed When Your Child Is Gay: What You Need To Know (Sterlg, 2016), I found out that my son was gay om a note wh our son's name entwed wh another boy's, surround by a heart.

Had I asked him if he were gay when he was 13, he probably would have fensively said "No!

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San Berland, the mother of a gay son who ach parents of LGBTQ kids, utn, "It's not a good ia to ask.

Acrdg to my -thor, psychiatrist Jonathan Tobk, "Gay children feel credibly vulnerable when g out to their parents, and tak time to work up the urage to do this. Mol acceptance by not g gay slurs and never tellg gay jok. Watch gay-themed shows together such as "The Fosters" and "Will and Grace.

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