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i am the only gay in town

Daniel Smythe grew up a small ral town, wh no knowledge nor unrstandg of what meant to be gay, wh no role then upped and moved to London for Universy and embedd himself wh the London gay scene, workg Heaven, and livg the party has sce settled d

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LTLE BRA’S MATT LUS SAYS ‘ONLY GAY THE VILLAGE’ WAS MEANT TO BE A ‘CELEBRATN’ OF GAY PEOPLE

The edian and actor says the 'only gay the village' character Dafydd Thomas was meant as entertament, not as a tool for bullyg. * i am the only gay in town *

Matt says the character was meant to be a ‘celebratn’ of gay people (Picture: Rex Featur, BBC)Comedian and actor Matt Lus has spoken out about his ntroversial Ltle Bra character Dafydd Thomas, better known as ‘the only gay the village’. Matt said he knows the character has been ed as a tool to bully young gay people, but sists that was not the show’s tentn. ‘I have had people who had ‘you are the only gay the village’ said to them and to was meant to be a celebratn, ’ he told Richard Herrg’s RHLSTP podst.

ARE YOU THE ONLY GAY PEOPLE YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD?

So today's qutn om a nversatn I was havg wh a iend San Fransis. I was the Bay Area back May workg on a client project and while I was at lunch one day we got to talkg about the differenc of the cy and the suburbs. I thk I live the epome of the qutsential New England town. It's a small town populatn wise but big terms of the amount of lands - lots of farms, homegrown thgs, 4H clubs, etc. It's really small town at s bt. As we were talkg about my neighborhood vers hers where she liv right the heart of San Fransis she had this look of worry for a moment and said "Are you the only gay people your neighborhood?" My rponse was, "Well, we don't have any gay neighbors that we know of, but I'm certa there are at least a few others." * i am the only gay in town *

‘But people were labelled ‘the only gay the village’ at school. It was meant as entertament, not to make young gay people sad.

Sce the show end 2005, the sketch has gaed a lot of cricism for s ls than plimentary portrayal of gay men.

The character is emed offensive by many (Picture: BBC)‘I remember thkg there was a greeds to Ltle Bra and we jt wanted to show off as many characters as possible so we played black, whe, straight, gay, male, female, tall, short, whatever, ’ the 45-year-old told the podst.

HOW TO COPE WHEN YOU'RE GAY AND LONELY

A great memorable quote om the Ltle Bra movie on - Daffyd: Anyway, seeg as I am the only gay the village, I shouldn't thk anyone would be remotely terted. Good Teal: Oh no, lots of folk around here drop anchor poo bay. * i am the only gay in town *

As we were talkg about my neighborhood vers hers where she liv right the heart of San Francis she had this look of worry for a moment and said “Are you the only gay people your neighborhood? ” My rponse was, “Well, we don’t have any gay neighbors that we know of, but I’m certa there are at least a few others.

"I WAS LERALLY THE ONLY GAY TOWN." FEAT. DANIEL SMYTHE

So whether s at the school Open Hoe or the kids soccer gam we are the ‘gay fay’ whether we like or not and therefore have a rponsibily to te all those around that we are no different to them any way. Part of realizg you're gay, or bi, or trans, or non-bary, or anythg other than cisgenr and heterosexual is acceptg you’re different—and somewhat separated—om the majory. Here he shar his journey to overe the sense of isolatn he felt growg up gay a small U.

GAY A SMALL TOWN: LIFE HAS IMPROVED FOR LGTBQ CENTRAL PA., BUT FEAR PERSISTS AT TIM

At the time, there were no real gay role mols except for Graham Norton and Jack om Dawson's Creek—and I certaly didn't intify wh him bee I wasn't a football player.

CHANGG PERCEPTNS OF WHAT IS LIKE TO BE GAY MOSW – ONE TOUR AT A TIME

I felt like I was pletely on my rried on until I was 16, when I started gog out to gay bars my hometown. I ma one gay iend, who I'm actually close to now. For the first time I've been able to form a good group of gay iends and create my own support work.

*BEAR-MAGAZINE.COM* I AM THE ONLY GAY IN TOWN

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