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UTC</time></div><div class="article-le-byle" data-activy-map="le-byle-article-top">By <span class="byle-name">Associated Prs</span></div></sectn><div class="article-body__ntent article-body-font--loadg"><p class="">NEW YORK — Thoands of effive marchers danced to club mic New York Cy streets Sunday as bubbl and nfetti raed down, and fellow revelers om Toronto to San Francis cheered through Pri Month’s grand crcendo.</p><p class="">New York’s boistero throng strolled and danced down Fifth Avenue to Greenwich Village, cheerg and wavg rabow flags to memorate the <a href=" target="_blank">1969 Stonewall uprisg</a>, where a police raid on a gay bar triggered days of protts and lnched the morn movement for LGBTQ+ rights.</p><div class="ad ad--text-alignment ad-ntaer boxleAd dn-prt" data-ttid="ad__ntaer"><div data-mps="te" data-slot="boxle" data-siz="[[[1000,1],[]],[[758,1],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[728,90],[360,360]]],[[0,0],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[360,360]]]]" data-renr-on-view="te" data-targetg="{}" data-active-tab="te" data-offset-viewport="100" data-ttid="ad__ntaer__ner"></div></div><div id="taboolaReadMoreBelow"></div><p class="">While some people whooped up celebratn, many were mdful of the growg nservative untermovement, cludg new laws banng genr-affirmg re for transgenr children.</p><p class="">“I’m not tryg not to be very heavily polil, but when do target my muny, I get very, very annoyed and very hurt,” said Ve Cr, a 22-year-old transgenr woman who traveled om Pennsylvania to take part the untry’s largt pri event.</p><p class="">“I’m jt, like, sred for my future and for my trans siblgs. I’m ightened of how this untry has looked at human rights, basic human rights,” she said. “It’s crazy.”</p><p class="">Paras New York, Chigo and San Francis are among events that roughly 400 Pri anizatns across the U.S. are holdg this year, wh many foced specifilly on the rights of transgenr people.</p><figure class="styl_leImage__yAWZ0 styl_medium__OMa6x"><picture class="styl_image__1qciH"><source media="(m-width: 1000px)" srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><source srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><img loadg="lazy" src=" alt="People watch the Pri para New York on June 25, 2023." height="1667" width="2500"/></picture><figptn class="ptn styl_ptn__Pe5JC"><span class="ptn__ntaer" data-ttid="ptn__ntaer">People watch the Pri para New York on Sunday.</span><span class="ptn__source">Eduardo Munoz Alvarez / AP</span></figptn></figure><p class="">Entertaers and activists, drag performers and transgenr advot are among the para grand marshals embracg a uny msage as new laws targetg the LGBTQ muny take effect several U.S. stat.</p><div class="ad ad--text-alignment ad-ntaer boxleAd dn-prt" data-ttid="ad__ntaer"><div data-mps="te" data-slot="boxle" data-siz="[[[1000,1],[]],[[758,1],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[728,90],[360,360]]],[[0,0],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[360,360]]]]" data-renr-on-view="te" data-targetg="{}" data-active-tab="te" data-offset-viewport="100" data-ttid="ad__ntaer__ner"></div></div><p class="">“The platform will be elevated, and we’ll see muni across the untry show their uny and solidary through the events,” said Ron Harte, -print for the U.S. Associatn of Pris.</p><p class="">Chigo, Mneapolis, Denver and Seattle held pri paras Sunday. At the para Toronto, Canada, more than 100 groups2343expected to march. In New York Cy, seven-time Grammy wner Christa Aguilera was the schled headler at a post-march ncert Brooklyn.</p><p class="">Annual observatns have spread to other ci and grown to wele bisexual, transgenr and queer people, as well as other groups.</p><p class="">About a ago, when her 13-year-old child first wanted to be lled a boy, Roz Gould Keh sought help. She found ltle to assist her fay navigatg the transn. They attend a Pri para the Detro area, but saw ltle transgenr reprentatn.</p><p class="">This year, she is heartened by the creased visibily of transgenr people at march and celebratns across the untry this month.</p><div class="ad ad--text-alignment ad-ntaer boxleAd dn-prt" data-ttid="ad__ntaer"><div data-mps="te" data-slot="boxle" data-siz="[[[1000,1],[]],[[758,1],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[728,90],[360,360]]],[[0,0],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[360,360]]]]" data-renr-on-view="te" data-targetg="{}" data-active-tab="te" data-offset-viewport="100" data-ttid="ad__ntaer__ner"></div></div><div class="remend-tersectn-ref" data-activy-map="remend-article-body-remend" data-ttid="remend-wrapper"></div><p class="">“Ten years ago, when my son asked to go to Motor Cy Pri, there was nothg for the trans muny,” said Keh, founr and executive director of Stand wh Trans, a group formed to support and empower young transgenr people and their fai.</p><div class="remend-tersectn-ref" data-activy-map="remend-article-body-remend" data-ttid="remend-wrapper"></div><p class="">This year, she said, the event was “jam-packed” wh transgenr people.</p><p class="">One of the grand marshals of New York Cy’s para was nonbary activist AC Dumlao, chief of staff for Athlete Ally, a group that advot on behalf of LGBTQ athlet.</p><p class="">“Upliftg the trans muny has always been at the re of our events and programmg,” said Dan Dimant, a spokperson for NYC Pri.</p><p class="">Many of this year’s paras lled for LGBTQ muni to une agast dozens, if not hundreds, of legislative bills now unr nsiratn stateho across the untry.</p><p class="">Lawmakers 20 stat have moved to ban genr-affirmg re for children, and at least seven more are nsirg dog the same, addg creased urgency for the transgenr muny, s advot say.</p><div class="ad ad--text-alignment ad-ntaer boxleAd dn-prt" data-ttid="ad__ntaer"><div data-mps="te" data-slot="boxle" data-siz="[[[1000,1],[]],[[758,1],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[728,90],[360,360]]],[[0,0],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[360,360]]]]" data-renr-on-view="te" data-targetg="{}" data-active-tab="te" data-offset-viewport="100" data-ttid="ad__ntaer__ner"></div></div><p class="">“We are unr threat,” Pri event anizers New York, San Francis and San Diego said a statement joed by about 50 other Pri anizatns natnwi. “The diverse dangers we are facg as an LGBTQ muny and Pri anizers, while differg nature and tensy, share a mon tra: they seek to unrme our love, our inty, our eedom, our safety, and our liv.”</p><p class="">Some paras, cludg the event Chigo, planned beefed up secury amid the upheaval.</p><p class="">The Anti-Defamatn League and GLAAD, a natnal LGBTQ anizatn, found 101 anti-LGBTQ cints the first three weeks of this month, about twice as many as the full month of June last year.</p><p class="endmark">Sarah Moore, who analyz extremism for the two civil rights groups, said many of the June 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She squeezed my hand, worried that she might n to a lleague or be harassed by a stranger. My wife is trans, and wasn’t out at the time, so she typilly only exprsed her thenticy the privacy of our home. That morng she wore a green skirt and light makp, bshg her hair all to one si. Even though we’d attend Pri march and protts prev years, that day was our first celebratg openly as a fay.</p></div></div><div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="db dn-ns mr-neg-gutter ml-neg-gutter mb-md hi-for-prt" data-qa="subscribe-promo"><div data-orientatn="horizontal" role="separator" class="wpds-c-dbVHzF wpds-c-dbVHzF-hDkAcj-variant-flt"></div><a class="pt-sm pb-sm flex ems-center bold font-xxxs font-xxs-ns jtify-center" href=" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener" style="lor:#166dfc;borr:none"><svg class="ntent-box" width="24" height="24" viewBox="0 0 24 24" xmlns=" aria-hidn="te" focable="false" role="img"><tle>Wp</tle><path d="M11.055 8.728l-1.018-1.019-.782.782v6.292l1.782 1.564.018-.019v-7.6zm-4.11.236L5.674 7.71l-.836.855v6.237l1.545 1.327.564-.636V8.964zm2.656 9.074l-2.528-2.182-1.927 2.182-2.619-2.255v-3.564h-.509c-.454 0-.672.273-.745.636H1.09a2.89 2.89 0 0 1-.091-.69c0-.473.2-1.71 1.527-1.71V7.691c0-1.073-.709-1.127-.709-2.054 0-1.037.982-2 2.782-2.637l.164.145c-.6.291-1.09.655-1.09 1.437 0 1.2 1.163.89 1.163 2.782v.727l2.127-2.236 2.237 2.2 2.109-2.2 2.036 2v6.728l-3.745 3.455zm11.108-9.625l-1.073-.982-.964 1.018v6.6c.855.11 1.491.4 2.019.964l.018-.018V8.413zm-2.382.418l-.528.545v10.237l.528.492V8.83zm1.49 9.055c-.308-.382-.69-.709-1.145-.836v3.782l-.036.018-1-.927-2.11 1.945-.036-.018V16.96c-.636.145-1.327.545-1.854 1.2l-.146-.091c.127-1.4.818-2.436 2-2.837v-3.545h-.382c-.527 0-.89.363-.963.763h-.219c-.054-.145-.127-.381-.127-.836 0-.891.6-1.564 1.582-1.564h.11V8.085l-.655-.582-.51.51-.254-.237 2.018-2.073 1.71 1.564V9.05l.527-.564v-2.09h.345v1.727l2.273-2.419L23 7.576v7.91l-3.182 2.4z" fill-le="evenodd"></path></svg><span class="mr-xs ml-xs gray-darkt flex ems-center">Get the full experience.<span class="ml-xs subs-theme blue">Choose your plan</span></span><svg class="ntent-box" width="16" height="16" viewBox="0 0 16 16" xmlns=" style="fill:#166dfc" aria-hidn="te" focable="false" role="img"><tle>ArrowRight</tle><path d="M7.664 1.25l6 6a1 1 0 010 1.414l-6 6L6.25 13.25 10.499 9H2V7h8.585L6.25 2.664 7.664 1.25z" fill-le="nonzero"></path></svg></a><div data-orientatn="horizontal" role="separator" class="wpds-c-dbVHzF wpds-c-dbVHzF-hDkAcj-variant-flt"></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">When our children grew tired of marchg, we plopped onto a nearby curb. Jt as we got settled, our elementary-schooler poted the directn of ong floats, raisg an eyebrow at a bare-chted man dark sunglass whose black spenrs clipped to a leather thong. The man psed to be spanked playfully by a partner wh a flog. “What are <i>they</i> dog?” my cur kid asked as our toddler cheered them on. The pair was the first of a few dozen kksters who danced down the street, lghg together as they twirled their whips and batons, some leadg panns by leash. At the time, my children were too young to unrstand the nuance of the suatn, but I told them the tth: That the folks were members of our muny celebratg who they are and what they like to do.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">The kk muny has participated Pri sce s ceptn — riskg their jobs and safety to be thentilly themselv public. Still, every year as Pri Month approach, a <a href=">bate epts about whether kk belongs at Pri </a><a href=">at all</a>. Those hopg to ot kksters often ce the prence of children as their top ncern. That was potedly the se this year when Twter ers argued that kk at Pri is a <a href=">highly sexualized experience that children should be shield om</a>. <a href=">Thoands</a> of ers supported the posts, claimg that kk at Pri <a href=">cross a le</a> bee mors also attend events. I agree that Pri should be a welg space for children and teens, but policg how others show up don’t protect or uplift young people. Instead, homogenizg self-exprsn at Pri will do more harm to our children than good. When my own children ught glimps of kk culture, they got to see that the queer muny enpass so many more nontradnal ways of beg, livg, and lovg.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p><span class="wpds-c-gnhuPA wpds-c-gnhuPA-hqeSyH-variant-terstial wpds-c-gnhuPA-iPJLV-css hi-for-prt"><a data-qa="terstial-lk" href=">The ph for LGBTQ equaly began long before Stonewall</a></span></p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">As much as I want them to spend time queer spac so they n be wh fai like their own, I also want them to know that they shouldn’t lim their unrstandg of what relatnships or exprsn look like to whatever’s most faiar. I want them to see that they n make their own ways the world — and know that they’ll be supported and celebrated by their muny. If we want our children to learn and grow om their experienc at Pri, we should hope that they’ll enunter kk when they attend. How else n they learn about the spe and valy of queer life?</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb dn db-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-sktop"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-none pt-lg pb-lg" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"><div>Advertisement</div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb db dn-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-mobile"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-sm pt-sm pb-sm" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">Anti-kk advot tend to manipulate language about safety and privacy by assertg that atten are <a href=">nonnsensually exposed</a> to overt displays of sexualy. The most outrageo claim is that <a href=">nocent bystanrs are forced to participate kk simply by sharg space wh the kk muny</a>, as if the prence of kk at Pri is a perverse exhibn that kksters pursue for their own gratifitn. But kksters at Pri are not engaged sex acts — and we nnot nfe their self-exprsn wh obsceny. Co-optg the language of sexual tonomy only serv to bury that tth and muddi the serns of other nversatns about nsent. If this all sounds faiar, ’s bee anti-kk rhetoric echo the same socialized disgt people have projected onto other queer people when they claim that our love is not appropriate for public spac. It’s a sentiment that tolerat queerns only if stays wh parameters — offerg the kd of acceptance that wh a tch. The middle-aged, Whe men who I grew up wh said they were “fe” wh gay people as long as they wouldn’t be subjected to PDA — as long as all signs of queer love uld be outwardly erased. Queer people’s eedom to be themselv is, acrdg to this logic, ntgent on non-queer people’s eedom om exposure to .</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p><span class="wpds-c-gnhuPA wpds-c-gnhuPA-hqeSyH-variant-terstial wpds-c-gnhuPA-iPJLV-css hi-for-prt"><a data-qa="terstial-lk" href=">My spoe me out as trans. It didn't change a thg.</a></span></p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">The arguable difference here is that many of the latt objectns are g om self-intified queer people, but that shouldn’t necsarily be surprisg. Rpectabily polics mand that queer people assiate as much as possible to cis- and heteronormativy, hewg to mastream cultural standards. Members of the queer muny have ternalized those norms to the pot that we judge ourselv by them, and then cricize and ostracize others if they don’t uphold them, too. This is the same opprsive msage that prevented my wife om transng for 30 years, and the same msage that still keeps margalized children om g to terms wh their own experienc wh sire and embodiment.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">Children who wns kk culture are reassured that alternative experienc of sexualy and exprsn are valid — no matter who they bee as they mature, helpg them regnize that their personal experienc aren’t bad or wrong, and that they aren’t alone their experienc. I n’t thk of a more relevant or important remr for youth, who often stggle wh feelgs of isolatn and nfn as they disver more about themselv and wrtle wh ncerns about whether they’re normal enough. Includg kk Pri opens space for fai to have necsary and powerful nversatns wh young people about health, safety, nsent, and — most uniquely — pleasure. Kk visibily is a remr that any person n and should shamelsly explore what brgs joy and excement. We don’t talk to our children enough about pursug sex to fulfill rnal needs that light and ptivate the moment. Sharg the language of kk culture wh young people provis them wh valuable rmatn about safe sex practic — such as the importance of tablishg boundari, safe words and signals, affirmg the importance of planng and rearch and the need to seek and give enthiastic nsent. I never want my children to worry that explorg any aspect of nsensual sex or touch is too taboo.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb dn db-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-sktop"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-none pt-lg pb-lg" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"><div>Advertisement</div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb db dn-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-mobile"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-sm pt-sm pb-sm" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">If we’re aaid to talk about kk wh our children, we prrize the stat quo — sanizg and censorg their accs to rmatn about appropriate and normal self-exprsn. The are the very attus that ma Pri necsary — and life-affirmg — for so many of the first place, and we have no bs imposg them on the next generatn. Kk embodi the eedom that Pri stands for, remdg atten to unapologetilly take up space as an act of ristance and celebratn — refg to bend to social prsure that asks to be prentable. That’s a value I want my children to learn. Affirmg the kk muny helps our children to love themselv and others wh urage and rilience. If my wife and I had seen such fierce and termed role mols as young people, we might have learned to be ourselv much sooner. We didn’t have that chance, but my children have that muny Pri, and I want to keep that way.</p></div><div class="wpds-c-jkoBlc wpds-c-jkoBlc-leHWbT-removeAllStyl-te"><div class="wpds-c-dhzjXW wpds-c-dhzjXW-iPJLV-css overriStyl mt-md tt"><div id="gift-share-end" data-ttid="gift-share-end" class="PJLV PJLV-idiqKOk-css hi-for-prt"><button aria-haspopup="dialog" aria-expand="false" aria-ntrols="gift-share-drawer" role="button" tabx="0" aria-label="Share this article" id="gift-share-drawer-ntrol-end" data-ttid="gift-share-drawer-ntrol-end" class="wpds-c-PJLV wpds-c-gsmDXe wpds-c-gsmDXe-iIVoLq-placement-Shortcut foc-highlight"><div class="wpds-c-UazGY" id="gift-share-shortcut" data-ttid="gift-share-shortcut"><svg xmlns=" fill="var(--wpds-lors-primary)" viewBox="0 0 16 16" aria-hidn="te" focable="false" role="img" class="wpds-c-fVfumU "><path fill="currentColor" d="M8 .6v3.8h.1c-4.4 0-7.3 4.5-6.9 8.8.1.8.2 1.2.2 1.2l.2 1 .4-1.3c.8-2 2-4 6.2-3.9H8v4l7-6.9L8 .6Zm1 11.3V9.3h-.9c-3 0-4.8.5-6.2 2.9.5-3.3 2.7-6.8 6.2-6.8H9V3l4.5 4.4L9 11.9Z"></path></svg><div class="PJLV wpds-c-kwcHlj">Share</div></div></button></div><div class="wpds-c-hcekgi"><div class="mb-lg-mod" data-qa="ments-btn-div"><button aria-label="Scroll to the ments sectn" data-qa="ments-btn" class="wpds-c-kSOqLF wpds-c-kSOqLF-SQjOY-variant-sendary wpds-c-kSOqLF-eHdizY-nsy-flt wpds-c-kSOqLF-ejCoEP-in-left wpds-c-kSOqLF-igqYgPb-css ments hi-for-prt"><svg xmlns=" viewBox="0 0 16 16" fill="currentColor" aria-hidn="te" focable="false" role="img" class="wpds-c-fBqPWp "><path d="M14 14V2H2v9.47h8.18L12.43 13ZM3 10.52V3h10v9.23l-2.5-1.66Z"></path></svg><span></span> Comments</button></div></div></div><div class="PJLV PJLV-iipsdti-css"><div></div></div><div class="PJLV PJLV-iipsdti-css"><div></div></div><sectn class="PJLV PJLV-icEohIP-css dn-ns hi-for-prt" data-ttid="mostRead" subscriptns-sectn="ntent"><div data-ttid="lazy-most-read-parent" class=""><div style="m-height:800px"></div></div></sectn><div class="PJLV PJLV-ickXkbz-css"><div data-qa="newsletter" class="hi-for-prt relative"><div class="dib w-100"><div><div class="flex jtify-center align self-center center transn-all duratn-400 ease--out" data-qa="sc-newsletter-signup" aria-label=""><svg aria-labelledby="react-aria-1-aria" role="img" viewBox="0 0 100 80"><tle id="react-aria-1-aria">Loadg....