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Contents:

• ‘TRMATIZED’ DGHTER OF LGBT PARENTS: ‘MY GAY MOMS OPPRSED ME’
• HOW TO TELL YOUR MOM YOU ARE GAY
• JAY-Z'S MUM: ‘I WAS NOT EE’ UNTIL I TOLD SON I WAS GAY
• HOW HOMOPHOBIA TURNED ME AGAST MY GAY MOTHER
• MY MOTHER HAS NEVER ALT WH ME BEG GAY
• HOW TO TELL YOUR PARENTS YOU ARE GAY
• MOTHERS’ SUPPORT GAVE GAY SON LOVE TO LAST A LIFETIME

‘TRMATIZED’ DGHTER OF LGBT PARENTS: ‘MY GAY MOMS OPPRSED ME’

LGBT is still a popular term ed to discs genr and sexual mori, but all GSRM are wele beyond lbian, gay, bisexual, and transgenr people who nsent to participate a safe space. “My gay moms opprsed me, ” she scribed alongsi the TikTok, which racked up 631, 000 views and more than 100, 000 lik as the natn celebrat Pri month. “I was raised by gay moms growg up, and I want to tell you about the tim that they did not accept me for who I was.

HOW TO TELL YOUR MOM YOU ARE GAY

In a separate clip posted earlier this month, Clemente humoroly “me out as straight” to her gay mom honor of Pri month via phone.

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JAY-Z'S MUM: ‘I WAS NOT EE’ UNTIL I TOLD SON I WAS GAY

"Mom, I'm gay. Article SummaryXTellg your mom that you’re gay n be nerve-wrackg, but wh a plan and a ltle bravery, you n get off your cht.

You might want to clu thgs like when you learned you were gay, what ’s been like for you, and what your hop are for the future. I'm gay.

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HOW HOMOPHOBIA TURNED ME AGAST MY GAY MOTHER

I'd grown up a muny suffed wh homophobia — neighbors and fay members alike tossed around works like "dyke" and "faggot" all the time. As the ferry roared across the Cumberland Sound toward the island, I was stgglg wh the thgs I'd associated wh the word "gay, " none of them good.

I had an olr who lled people gay or a faggot when he was angry or makg fun of someone.

MY MOTHER HAS NEVER ALT WH ME BEG GAY

Gay, faggot, dyke.

But before that morng my room, I'd never heard my mother scribe herself as gay to anyone. When I spoke wh adults who grew up like I did the early days of gay parentg, I disvered many mon experienc.

There was no room for me to share when thgs were hard at home, or when I need extra supportOne adult child of gay parents — I'll refer to her as Ann — relled that even though her home life was great, she alt wh bg prejudice, lonels, and isolatn her small town, where she knew no other gay fai.

HOW TO TELL YOUR PARENTS YOU ARE GAY

One of those iends told Ann that her dad believed gay people spread HIV/AIDS.

MOTHERS’ SUPPORT GAVE GAY SON LOVE TO LAST A LIFETIME

You don't live muni like Ann's whout brgg at least some of that homophobia home. Ann said that her childhood, while happy, was also marked by secrecy and nfn: "I didn't unrstand the term 'gay' or that my mom was gay until people outsi of my immediate fay started givg looks or makg ments or askg qutns, " she said.

Ann remembers kids at school g the term "gay" as a slur, and uncl warng her and her brother that they would grow up to be gay, sce their mother was.

Of urse, then, as now, kids om gay fai also alt wh the same list of problems kids om straight fai face: divorce, alholism, abandonment, fancial secury, and so on.