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Contents:

• STRAIGHT MAN TRI GAY NIGHT: A RPONSE
• THE FACT NO ONE LIK TO ADM: MANY GAY MEN ULD JT HAVE EASILY BEEN STRAIGHT
• WHY SOME STRAIGHT PEOPLE MIGHT HAVE GAY SEX
• CAN A STRAIGHT GUY ETHILLY ACCEPT ORAL SEX OM HIS GAY BUDDY?

STRAIGHT MAN TRI GAY NIGHT: A RPONSE

Yterday’s article on beg a straight man on a gay night was well-tentned but offensive, says HANNAH GRAHAM.

Turns out the guys are also pable of scribg what a gay night is like. The article qutn is a problem bee, given that we don’t hear many queer voic talkg about anythg at all, would be nice if an article about a gay club night uld at least e om a gay perspective. But I’m really sorry guys, unlike almost everythg else the world, gay nights aren’t there for you.

The fact is though that one of the reasons that such nights exist is to give gay people a space which to meet other gay people. And if you are terted what a gay night is like, try talkg to gay people.

THE FACT NO ONE LIK TO ADM: MANY GAY MEN ULD JT HAVE EASILY BEEN STRAIGHT

Like you might well be bisexual or gay. If the only gay timacy I ever had was a group like this, or what you experienced, I uld fortably say I was pretty straight.

Whout some sort of bond gay sex, or any sex, n be pretty mechanil. He als mostly wh issu the gay muny. Gay.

Some of them probably are a ltle bisexual, but I know two particular who seem 100% straight every jt enjoy the nvenience of gay sex sometim. When he download a gay app though, sudnly there were 20 dus a day throwg themselv at him and beggg him to pick them.

WHY SOME STRAIGHT PEOPLE MIGHT HAVE GAY SEX

So when you are sayg "foc on the more submissive aspects of " and referencg the prev post where someone suggted this was more about beg submissive than about beg gay, n you elaborate on that? "My random roommate durg sophomore year happened to be gay.

' His buddi got all homophobic on him, so he asked, 'You guys have never msed around wh another guy? I'm gay, but I hooked up wh a handful of men and women my 30s.

In the end, they're still straight, and I'm still gay and happily married to my hband of 12 years. We hear a lot about the Big Three Sexuali — straight, bisexual and gay.

CAN A STRAIGHT GUY ETHILLY ACCEPT ORAL SEX OM HIS GAY BUDDY?

If you’re a young man, you might assume that eher you’re straight or you’re not, meang you’re likely gay and maybe bisexual. Yet the evince suggts that more young men intify or scribe themselv as mostly straight than intify as eher bisexual or gay bed.

Yet when the men were forced to choose between straight, bisexual or gay, about three-quarters marked straight bee for them bisexual, even if is unrstood as “bisexual-leang straight, ” is too gay to accurately scribe their inty.

Tradnally, our unrstandg has been that if you’re male and have even a slight attractn to the same sex, then you mt be gay. He knows he’s not gay, but straight wh a dash of gayns.