or did u have a csh on someone who is now gay ? how did make you feel ?
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MY EX IS GAY. HOW DO I NOT TAKE PERSONALLY?
He was a te "50-50" bi guy, a lover of men and women, not an "attentn-seeker" or a "halfway-there gay man" or any of the ridiculo and offensive claims people make about most important:He was not a cheater. This led to his heartache, sce he was tryg to date me, a gay guy who was not monogamoly cled (and still isn't), a guy who was too immature to say, "Hey, I'm not really lookg for a relatnship. Bisexuals really him, as well as for many others, his claim to bisexualy wasn't a transnal phase or halfway pot between straight and gay.
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