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data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p><em>This Pri month,</em> <a href=" target="_blank"><em>we are celebratg</em></a> <em>travel's pacy for disvery, renewal, and love through a lens of queerns—and s power to open up ourselv to seeg not jt the world, but also who we are, a new light.</em> </p><p>“What’s your type?”</p><p>Rosetta and I were only a few drks , but I felt unsteady when I heard my iend offer the qutn. I suppose wasn’t the qutn self, but the way that she had asked –hands gturg to the crowd of swayg bodi <a href=" target="_blank">the club</a>, as if prentg them all to me. Short women wh boyish haircuts drsed llared shirts, slacks, and spenrs. Taller women wh flowg jet-black hair short skirts that showed off their legs. </p><div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--article-mid-ntent" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--article-mid-ntent nsumer-marketg-un__slot---ntent"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><p><a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Club Ace</a> was different om most of the other hundreds of clubs and bars <a href=" target="_blank">Hongdae</a>, a district north of the Han River <a href=" target="_blank">Seoul</a> known for s urban and die arts culture, that lacked men entirely. Posted above bathroom mirrors, along the DJ booth, and on the walls were the words: WOMEN ONLY. NO FILM. NO PHOTOS. </p><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><p>The l ronated most, if not all, of the lbian clubs–or L clubs–of Seoul. I suppose that was the root of my apprehensn–not speakg about sire but specifilly of my sire for women. </p><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad---ntent"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot---ntent" data-no-id="zfb7rm"></div></div><p>Rosetta didn’t mean anythg by . We had met at an event troducg queer women to each other to help them fd iends to go wh to the <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Seoul Queer Culture Ftival</a>—the cy’s versn of Pri. There she had troduced me to several of her queer iends that she had grown up wh. She’s an out and proud lbian, and she had no reason to expect that I would fd her qutn unfortable at all.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-1 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>Tthfully, my sexualy hadn’t been particularly important to me. I hadn’t taken datg very serly and I had never had a ser relatnship, so there had really been nothg to disclose to anyone about my sexualy. As a rult, I habed a kd of limaly between beg out and beg closeted. While I still don’t really re to be eher, most people still have expectatns. People assume that if someone is anythg other than cisgenr heterosexual, they need to announce that some way. </p><p>This was pecially te growg up the particular suburb of <a href=" target="_blank">Toronto</a> that I did. Outsi of my queerns, which is fairly accepted there, there were very few East Asians. People were kd to me, but their kdns often didn’t pare to the alienatn I felt. It wasn’t jt about race, but felt like everyone I knew had mon threads of culture and experienc that I would never be part of. That I physilly appeared different didn’t help. Even now, I don’t enjoy drawg attentn to myself and I don’t like makg any claratns. I would rather jt exist and let people thk what they want to thk. </p><p>Before I moved to Seoul—followg my graduatn om universy—I had never been to a lbian club. I had long been aware of my sexualy so did not feel the need to reach out to a muny for support, and while Toronto is ripe wh queer spac, I uld never image myself as part of them. </p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB kNleGZ sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-box__primary"><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--rail" data-no-id="xebmfv"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><div class="StickyBoxPlaceholr-grPmrg dxAvXx"></div></div></div></div><div class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan full-bleed-ad row-mid-ntent-ad"><div class="StickyMidContentAdWrapper-fSBzwl drzyIa ad-stickymidntent"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--mid-ntent should-hold-space"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="tf1upmg"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa bmbVTi body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>Dany Ko, the Youth Program Coordator at Asian Communy Aids Servic takg re of queer and trans youth the Greater Toronto Area, says that many Asian people feel Toronto’s queer spac are too whe-domated, that they don’t feel clud as a person of lor, or that if they are clud, they feel that ’s “om a lens of fetishizatn or tokenism.” I don’t know is that's necsarily what I felt, but I thk I knew there was a chance that I would stand out some way—and that was enough to keep me away. </p><p>The lbian clubs of Hongdae are not like gay clubs back home, which often are equented wh a mix of queer and non-queer dividuals. Their l are specifilly meant to keep out cisgenr heterosexual men, which also might keep out other members of the queer muny such as trans dividuals who intify differently om what sex they were assigned at birth. This means that almost everyone wh the walls of the clubs is a woman who is, some way, attracted to other women. Bee of that, gog to the clubs was somethg of a claratn. The spac are exclive and excludg, yet I was accepted them. </p><p>At Club Ace, I was illumated only by a glowg haze of flashg lights muted by a th layer of cigarette smoke. My long black hair was monplace, and the slightly darker tone of my sk was almost unnoticeable. I drsed tight skirts and tops that I bought the subterranean shoppg markets below <a href=" target="_blank">Gangnam</a>. My ey were dark as the night, as dark as everyone else’s. In Toronto there was always some way that I felt different. Here, I was an outsir some sens–a foreigner–but not one marked by difference race or my queerns. The anonymy that granted me was one that ma me feel ee. <a href=" target="_blank">I felt like I belonged</a>, even if was only the ver of darkns.</p><p>A few months later, I attend the Seoul Queer Culture Ftival. I had been to <a href=" target="_blank">Pri</a> once Toronto, but that was more of a show than anythg else. This, on the other hand, was a prott. We walked om Cy Hall to Gwanghwamun and back, thoands of , as unter-prottors on the oppose si of the street rried signs speakg of J and fay valu—hatred hidn behd kdns and guilt. It was everythg I had always avoid: a public claratn of somethg that ma me different—but this time I didn’t shy away. </p><p>Standg si by si wh women I knew om Club Ace and other plac like , I fally knew what was like to live as a queer dividual alongsi other queer dividuals. It wasn’t an isolatg act that kept wh the nf of a darkened club, but an affirmg one that rved out our right to belong a place where the sun touched our sk, illumatg s warmth.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-2 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p><em>For more queer love stori, head</em> <a href=" target="_blank"><em>here</em></a><em>.</em></p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB jxBcTH sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-box__primary"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--rail" data-no-id="la0lg7"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><div 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