Your Child Jt Told You He's Gay. Now What? | Psychology Today

Contents:

• MY SON MIGHT BE GAY. WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO HIM?
• 10 TIPS FOR PARENTS OF GAY KIDS
• HOW TO TALK TO YOUR CHILD WHO IS QUTNG OR INTIFI AS LBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL, TRANSGENR, QUEER OR ASEXUAL (LGBTQA)
• PARENTG A GAY CHILD
• YOUR CHILD JT TOLD YOU HE'S GAY. NOW WHAT?
• HOW DO I DISCS BEG GAY WH MY 8-YEAR-OLD?

MY SON MIGHT BE GAY. WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO HIM?

But providg support isn't always easy — pecially if you are the parent of a lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr or qutng (LGBTQ) child. Advote for a gay-straight alliance (GSA), which has been shown to make schools safer and boost amic performance among LGBTQ stunts.

10 TIPS FOR PARENTS OF GAY KIDS

Team up wh a pediatrician, a unselor at school, close fay members and even muny anizatns — for example, Parents, Fai and Friends of Lbians and Gays (PFLAG) — if you’re havg trouble gog alone. Parents, Fai and Friends of Lbian and Gays (PFLAG).

Dave, I have a 17-year-old son, and I am fairly sure he is gay.

HOW TO TALK TO YOUR CHILD WHO IS QUTNG OR INTIFI AS LBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL, TRANSGENR, QUEER OR ASEXUAL (LGBTQA)

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PARENTG A GAY CHILD

Stirrg and brave and subversive, g as did a time before marriage equaly was on the map, a time when you only saw gay people on the news. Good on you for not pot-blank askg your son whether he's gay.

YOUR CHILD JT TOLD YOU HE'S GAY. NOW WHAT?

It means one simple, pable thg: Once you have told your dad you're gay, there is no gog back. Right now, he has to be secretive, not bee he's gay, but bee he's 17.

HOW DO I DISCS BEG GAY WH MY 8-YEAR-OLD?

I'd love to say that you should do a big, showy "Hey, I sure do like those gay people" at the dner table. I wish were as simple and CBS-smy as ve the gay guy om work to fay bowlg night. Dannielle Owens-Reid and Krist Rso, thors of This Is a Book for Parents of Gay Kids (released today!