We check out sexy guys together but he firmly stat he's not gay. I don't know what to do about his mixed signals
Contents:
- AS A STRAIGHT MAN, HOW N I POLELY STOP MY GAY IEND FLIRTG WH ME?
- HOW TO KNOW IF A GAY FRIEND LIK YOU (FOR MEN)
- IS FLIRTG BETWEEN GAY AND STRAIGHT MEN OKAY?
- ASK AMY: GAY MAN SET STRAIGHT ABOUT IEND-FLIRTG
AS A STRAIGHT MAN, HOW N I POLELY STOP MY GAY IEND FLIRTG WH ME?
One of my iends who recently me out as gay has started flirtg wh me, even though he knows I’m straight and therefore have no tert him. No gay man has ever flirted wh me and I don’t know why: I’m iendly, I’m a good listener, I have a sexy, swarthy, stubbly look, part Eugene Levy, part Jo-Jo the Dog-Faced Circ Boy – I’m really que irristible. But, for some reason, gay men fd me very unappealg – and, to be hont, I’m a ltle once would be nice if a gay man sidled up to me and said, “Shake your bon-bon, I’m a sperado unrneath your wdow.
HOW TO KNOW IF A GAY FRIEND LIK YOU (FOR MEN)
However, don't jt straight up go up to him and say: "Are you gay? How do you know if you’re gay?
IS FLIRTG BETWEEN GAY AND STRAIGHT MEN OKAY?
If you fd out he is gay, or are really sure he is, jt ask him.
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ASK AMY: GAY MAN SET STRAIGHT ABOUT IEND-FLIRTG
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– Gilbert Osmond, MontrealThk of the kidsWhether your iend is nfed about his sexualy, aaid to adm he's gay or simply takg his LGBT support a b too far … do you really want to get volved? And if he were openly gay and had kids wh a male partner stead, would you ask yourself the same qutns about actg on your attractn?