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Contents:
- THE FOTTEN SECRET LANGUAGE OF GAY MEN
- CO WORDS FOR “GAY” IN CLASSIC FILMS
- JUDAS PRIT’S GAY PHEMISMS AND NILE’S METAPHOR FOR HOMOPHOBIC PERSECUTN DISCSED ON HELL BENT FOR METAL
- WHAT ARE SOME PHEMISMS FOR GAY?
- FROM CLOSET TALK TO PC TERMOLOGY : GAY SPEECH AND THE POLICS OF VISIBILY
- GAY DICTNARY SPANISH
- WHY I N’T E PHEMISMS FOR ANTI-GAY CHRISTIANS
THE FOTTEN SECRET LANGUAGE OF GAY MEN
A page for scribg PlaygWh: Gay Euphemism. Basic Trope: Characters e phemisms to avoid directly g homosexualy-related terms. Straight: Bob … * gay euphemisms *
In the late ‘60s, as gay liberatn groups were fightg for regnn and equaly, Polari h mastream Brish pop-culture the form of Julian and Sandy, two flamboyant, not-officially-but-pretty-obvly gay characters on a BBC rad show lled Round the Horne. If you hear any of the followg words or phras ed to scribe a male character a movie ma before 1970, odds are good that they’re tryg to tell you about a homosexual, a real boardg-school afternooner, someone who eats his dner a rtrant, a fellow who walks down the shady si of the street. ’ njurg up an image of what is affectnately known as face-fuckg, talk of ‘mcl all ntorted’ and ‘tickg like a time bomb, the fe is nng short’, addn to startg the song wh a snake reference the le ‘adly om the viper peerg om s il’, there’s rpect and admiratn show to Halford om the hosts jt how far he phed his luck whout everyone ttong on to the fact that he might’ve been sgg about a different type of snake entirely, some 14 years before he publicly me out as gay.
Whilst to Tom and Matt would have seemed so easy to pick up on all the queer ntent wh their songs, others were genuely surprised (and some a lot worse) when Halford told the world he was gay, and this uld’ve given some of those people some thgs to thk about when revisg some of the band’s lyrics. The guys both talk on how the song speaks to them on experienc that they’ve both had, such as tryg to ‘pray the gay away’ when they were younger, people tryg to tell them that their very existence is blasphemo and dangero, and for Matt specifilly, gettg to a place of givg up relign and lookg for, and fdg, solace, guidance and acceptance elsewhere. It’s certaly time for a drk to cheer ourselv up, and the new treats offered up by the Hate Crew Gay Bar jebox this week e the form of Heroe by Atralian alt-metallers Thornhill, the but album om digeno solo black metal project Blackbraid, and the sixth LP om Swedish ath metal supergroup Bloodbath, Survival of the Sickt.
Milant tout tant que ludique, ce langage se vt également le défensr d’un certa style vie, cherchant à exprimer, manière la pl visible, poliquement rrecte et effice qui so, la richse s portements et s cultur du mon gay. 2Funny and provotive as may seem, this msage posted on Kks & Queens, a gay Swedish webse, not only reveals a visibily and culture that the Lbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgenr muny was long pelled to hh, but also nfirms the existence of a lexin not que like standard English. From the darker ag when homosexualy was at s bt a s and/or a perversn until the prent environment of rabow flags and gay pris, gayspeak has been ed to transgrs social norms, articulate particular needs and emotns, as well as renstct, or re-terpret, realy.
CO WORDS FOR “GAY” IN CLASSIC FILMS
Depuis l’époque où l’homosexualé éta synonyme perversn, voire dél, jqu’x actuell gay pris, la munté gay, lbienne, bisexuelle et transgenre n’a csé développer un langage distctif, le gayspeak. Transgrsant l norm social, ce parler, davantage glossaire qu’idme, permet jourd’hui à la munté LGBT renstire sa propre réalé tout en ouvrant vers nouvell perceptns intair. Milant tout tant que ludique, ce langage se vt également le défensr d’un certa style vie, cherchant à exprimer, manière la pl visible, poliquement rrecte et effice qui so, la richse s portements et s cultur du mon gay. * gay euphemisms *
When to elaborate polilly rrect fns of the « queer » universe, pk talk displays an extraordary plexy of sexual orientatns and subcultur, a possible means to pensate for lguistic ficiency and to claim a gay space on the social spectm. Most male homosexuals therefore kept their sexual orientatns very much the closet unls amidst their k when they lled each other female nam—« Miss Kten », « Cha Mary », « Primrose Mary », and « Dip-Candle Mary »3—, a practice still faiar among ntemporary gay men.
Until World War Two, rearch on what was then labeled the « language of homosexualy » foced on genr versn, wh homosexualy beg regard as a pathology characterized as sexual viance or perversn: whereas heterosexual language equated wh the appropriate genr, homosexual language displayed equent aquaci between the physil genr and the lguistic genr of the speaker. In the reprsive and secury-ncerned Cold War environment4, to talk about themselv, most gays and lbians relied upon phemisms such as « iends of Dorothy(‘s) », (after The Wizard of Oz, 1939, a classic mil popular wh gay dienc), « whoopsi », « (s)he’s is a ltle...
Dpe the achievements of gay rights, the stigma attached to a « love that dare not [always] speak s name », to quote Osr Wil, ocsnally lgers the way some gays e « them » to refer to their partners and « refully word speech to hi explic genr referenc »16. For many Lbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgenr—or LGBT17—people today, pk talk works as a hive force agast discrimatn, although they also adm that gay exprsns have actually shifted om the physil nfement of the 18th century molly ho to a lguistic nfement.
JUDAS PRIT’S GAY PHEMISMS AND NILE’S METAPHOR FOR HOMOPHOBIC PERSECUTN DISCSED ON HELL BENT FOR METAL
Vis our Spanish Gay Dictnary, wh more than 130 exprsns, to know how to say gay Spanish. It is part of our LGBT dictnary wh more than 160... * gay euphemisms *
5Sce 1993 [, ] the Amerin Universy Washgton DC has been home to annual nferenc on Lavenr Language and Lguistics, wh Lavenr19 Language beg fed as the way « lbians, gay men, bisexuals, transgenred persons and queers e language everyday life »20. Leap mentned two other « betiful exampl »: whereas gay speech « pcher » intifi the sexually active dividual and « tcher » the receptive person, « If we say pcher or we say tcher, an ordary nversatn, I thk ’s unlikely that [straight people] would read anythg else to . Whereas some lbians tend to speak at a lower pch than straight women—and their range of pch is lser than that of straight women29—the typil high pched disurse and adorned talks of some gay men, not necsarily of the effemate type, is another equent give-away.
Food metaphors are not unmon, such as seafood (gay sailors) and related sailor queens (men whose primary tert is sailors), tuna (young gay sailors), jam (younger men), angel food (gay men the air force), rice queens (men attracted to Asians), ernment spected meat (a gay man the armed forc) to be found meat racks (gay male cisg areas). Apts of the Scene (the gay club circu) attend whe parti, where Amy-Johns (after Amazons), lipstick lbians35 (stylishly drsed a tradnally feme way), and chapstick lbians (who do not wear make-up and are very much to sports)36 meet wh leather dyk, tomboys, and lemons (lbians). As for gym bunni/queens (gay men who work out a gym), and mcle Mari (more effemate gym queens) who are a h among mcle queens (men who prefer mcular men), they will jo flamers (effemate gay men), baby Crocketts (psdo-wboys), and label queens (signers’ fashn victims)37.
The yearly gay pris which take place most Amerin ci, the midst of ribbons, lorful paras, and mil shows, are a clear signal, as the name dite, that there is pri beg members of the « fay », a term the gay muny sometim appli to self39. In this ebullience, Bce Rodger’s landmark The Queen’s Vernacular was released (1972), followed, to mentn jt a few, by Joseph Hay’s « Gayspeak » (1976) and « Language and Language Behavr of Lbian and Gay Men » (1978‑1979), Leonard R. Pl Baker himself, who has nducted terviews among the Brish LGTB populatn, rearched gay archiv and d gay and lbian chats on the ter, released Fantabulosa: A Dictnary of Polari and Gay Slang 200242, wh 1, 700 entri rived om terviews, archiv, and gay and lbian web chats43.
WHAT ARE SOME PHEMISMS FOR GAY?
The ter has s share, upon which the prent study has been partially based, such as the onle Dictnary of Gay Slang and Historil Terms, Flampeak, Queer Slang the Gay 90, Rebec Stt’s A Brief Dictnary of Queer Slang and Culture (1997), Matt & Andrej Koymasky’s GLTB Slang Dictnary (last updated 2005), and Robert Owen Stt’s prehensive Wizard Gay Slang Dictnary (last updated 2003)44.
Whereas the 1960s gay and lbian scholars took a stake the polil advancement of homosexuals, directly enuragg the olr generatn to e the Lavenr language, gay youths cid to avoid what they nsired a relic of the past ( England, some claimed Polari to be « silly, femisg and outdated »45). In the mid-1970s and 1980s, however, the divisns between homosexuals flated, strengtheng the hn of the muny as well as a new approach of homosexualy which was fed terms of opprsed mory inty: after the manner of Ain-Amerins who promoted Black English vernacular, LGBT people found logil to adopt a specific language, although as we noted before, gayspeak has always been more a lexin than a language wh s proper grammatil and phonologil l. Sce the late 1980s, the inty-based mol of homosexualy has been s turn challenged, for beg excsively foced on rpectabily, th excludg some margal liftyl—sadomasochists, workg-class femme lbians, Ain-Amerin drag queens, and bisexuals—wh the gay muny self.
In an effort to reawaken the spir of activism om the post-Stonewall era, Queer Natn adopted a somewhat nontatnal approach and purposely ed the word queer for s shock value while rejectg the term gay, which for some had bee too mastream49. It was possibly rived om the French fagot, a bundle of sticks and twigs bound together, ed for burng heretics and wch at the stake, or om an abive term for women, or reference to younger boys who performed duti for senrs Brish public schools, where homosexualy was viewed as enmic.
FROM CLOSET TALK TO PC TERMOLOGY : GAY SPEECH AND THE POLICS OF VISIBILY
« The label ‘homosexual’ », Norton explas, « stead of beg generated by society to ntrol people, was self-generated by gay (or gay-iendly) men to empower dividuals and set them on the road to eedom rather than enslavement »62.
Whereas the neteenth century gay signated male and female prostut65, is now advantageoly displayg LGBT flamboyance, wh ls technily than the term homosexual and wh an assuredly ls explic lk between sexual activy and gay inty regardls of the genr66.
GAY DICTNARY SPANISH
Gay and bisexual women who chat on the Inter or post personal ads do on s wh nam such as The Gay History of Pla Earth onle self has clearly specified that « the word ‘gay’ is ed throughout [their] se reference to women and men who form erotic same-sex relatnships »67. 18Women-only events, lbian clubs, dyke bars, Girlz n, gay women nights, women-to-women chat rooms, goln girls webs: termology unts que a few ems to scribe the lbian world, not to mentn those displayg the variety of lbian inti. Whereas today they are regularly lled « girls’ girls » or « women-lovg-women » (WLW), the way gay men are lled « men-who-have-sex-wh-men » (MSM)70, « mid-eighteenth-century discsns of lbians », Norton noted, people ed « abstract phras such as ‘feme ngrsn’ » or phemisms such as « vic Irregulari », « unacuntable timaci », « unmon and preternatural Lt », « unnatural Appet both Sex », and « abomable and unnatural pollutns »71.
The revival of butch/femme upl giv room to a renewed terpretatn of role-playg, such as « butch the streets, femme the sheets », or wh upl as « butch-on-butch and femme-on-femme »90, relatnships sometim referred to as homogenr (butch-butch). 22The fluctuatg rol wh the gay female muny somehow outdat the strict separatist polics of the 1970s, when femists started g words like wimm and womyn li of a patriarchal wo-men98 (as for the summer Michigan Womyn’s Mic Ftival99), or when they found the New York Lbian Herstory Archiv. Whereas most LGBT people are clear (100% gay) or as pk k (very obvly gay, a mid-90s age), some are eyeballg the back of the closet door (not que out of the closet)115, straight actg/appearg (or s/a, s/a/a), and even ytergays (intifyg as gay the past, but no longer so).
WHY I N’T E PHEMISMS FOR ANTI-GAY CHRISTIANS
27The sometim rogatory slang ephets applyg to bisexuals, such as AC-DC (for « alternatg/direct current ») by heterosexuals, or fence-sters or double-gaed by gays and lbians, nnot a « betrayal » of one’s hetero- or homosexual inty, as well as a reluctance to m onelf to a sexual orientatn116. Heterosexuals, then, e such variety as metrosexuals (fashnable urban heterosexual men), who share a gay athetic for their hip appearance wh guppi and luppi (gay/lbian urban profsnals), or, nversely, beige (sipid, anti-fab) and naff (« Normal As Fuck », i.
From the reprsive tim when homosexualy was nsired a felony to the prent variety of genr inti and queer subcultur, hundreds of exprsns—puns, phemisms, metaphors, word-age, and semantic shifts—have been ed and are now listed specific dictnari, evince of how LGBT people assert their distctivens and munite creative ways. 17 This acronym will be ed throughout this study, although the « Lbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgenr » world prehends a wir multiplicy of muni and liftyl, as will be tailed later, than what those four words seem to dite. 124 « I’m shocked and appalled that they’re g universy time to sponsor what amounts to promotn of homosexualy the guise of studyg language », says Bob Knight, an alumn of Amerin Universy which is host to the Annual Conferenc on Lavenr Languag and Lguistics.