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More and more, we hear about athlet g out of the closet — and to gym locker rooms. Expert Rick Clemons tackl mon fears straight men have about sharg locker rooms wh gay men and explas why those fears are pletely unfound.

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I WAS OPENLY GAY ON MY HIGH SCHOOL TEAM AND HEARD SLURS ALL THE TIME

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Jt as you didn’t choose to be gay and have the feelgs you have.

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I’ve heard spoken my prence as a closeted gay man, been lled as a closeted gay man, and even been provoked by the word as an openly gay man.

When that word was spoken my prence as an openly gay stunt the high school locker room, my water polo teammat would pse, realize what they said, and slowly look at me to see if I was offend.

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More and more, we hear about athlet g out of the closet — and to gym locker rooms. Expert Rick Clemons tackl mon fears straight men have about sharg locker rooms wh gay men and explas why those fears are pletely unfound. * boys locker room gay *

I’m still not sure what ma them more ignorant -- the fact that they were g the word or the fact that they were g the word ont of an openly gay teammate. I wasn’t shunned by any means for beg gay — after g out as a senr, I was chosen one of three ptas.

The term “faggot” is gradg — giv a rogatory term to a word that most s is beg ed as a synonym for “gay. When a boy lls another boy a faggot, is not only offensive to the person receivg as an sult, but even more so offensive to every gay person havg their inty beg ma an sult. Locker room talk go beyond homophobic slurs.

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Racism, sexism, and homophobia stem om ignorance and lack of unrstandg for others. 99% of my guy iends are straight, and generally don’t like talkg about any of this for fear of soundg too ‘gay’.

Summer mp my sophomore year, after ach left, Varsy guys held wrtlg match to terme who got the remag lockers the big varsy room. I don’t thk they are gay, eher. I see hts of ternalized homophobia that le, and I thk he’d be a lot more fortable if he alt wh .

Rich: Jane Ward’s 2015 book Not Gay kicked off a lot of disurse about “straight” guys who engage “gay” sex, and I thk did a real disservice to nuance by beg totally crlo of self-labelg. Given the societal prsure to be straight and the history of closeted gay, bi, and queer men sayg one thg and dog another, I don’t necsarily thk we need to take people at their word when they say they’re straight and do thgs that suggt otherwise. I thk what happens is people say, to themselv, “Well, gay/bi/queer people are like this.

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