Joe Kort, Ph.D., talks about his new book, "Is My Hband Gay, Straight, or Bi?"
Contents:
- WHY SOME STRAIGHT PEOPLE MIGHT HAVE GAY SEX
- 5 THGS STRAIGHT PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT GAY SEX
- GAYS VS. STRAIGHTS: ANY DIFFERENC SEXUAL SATISFACTN?
- CAN A STRAIGHT GUY ETHILLY ACCEPT ORAL SEX OM HIS GAY BUDDY?
- THE BIGGT MYTH ABOUT GAY SEX
- IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
WHY SOME STRAIGHT PEOPLE MIGHT HAVE GAY SEX
For heterosexuals, gay sex might be somethg of an enigma. There may be many who have no clue as to how gay men actually have sex and the quirks that... * do straight guys like gay sex *
In terms of pure numbers, we know that the vast majory of those who have gay sex intify as straight — and this is te for both women and men. The dividuals tend to engage gay sex private enunters, wh some appearg to be early phas of “g out” as not straight. Though they loved the sexual experience and wanted to have a future relatnship wh the person, they had mixed attus toward homosexualy and premaral sex.
Hence, they believed that homosexual relatns were almost always wrong and scribed their polics as nservative. Bee only four sexual orientatn optns were given to stunts — heterosexual, bisexual, homosexual, and don’t know — perhaps many of the dividuals were misplaced the straight tegory. Are the the men who will bee vigilant wh anti-gay rhetoric, and who will e eher their nservative relig or polil beliefs to jtify their behavr?
If we lived a culture which havg some gree of same-sex sexualy did not imply that you th had to be the “dread” lbian, gay, or bisexual, would be easier for dividuals who stggle or n’t ci their sexualy to be te to their thentic self.
5 THGS STRAIGHT PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT GAY SEX
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Would this help them to curb their animosy toward homosexualy and let them accept their same-sex sexualy whout feelg stigmatized? Gay people general are much more well-versed heterosexual sexual practic due to the tnal and cultural bias toward straight people this area.
It’s worth notg that I am speakg om the perspective of a gay man, not the entire LGBTQ muny, and I aim to enlighten members of the straight muny on how gay men prepare, engage and enjoy sex between ourselv.
(Picture: Ella Byworth for)One important element of a gay man’s sex life is their choice of sexual posn. Our heterosexual iends might assume that gay sex is fairly straightforward when to posns and preferenc the bedroom, but this is not the se. When to anal sex you may have heard the terms top and bottom: a top is a term ed to scribe a gay man whose preference is to act as the sertive sexual partner, whereas a bottom is a gay man who prefers to act as the receptive partner.
GAYS VS. STRAIGHTS: ANY DIFFERENC SEXUAL SATISFACTN?
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The next most equently ed posn preference is known as versatile: a gay man who is happy to act as eher.
Many people both the heterosexual and homosexual muni are rigned to the supposed fact that anal sex is paful. I’m sure that for many straight people the first thg that sprgs to md when asked about gay sex is anal, and there is a misnceptn that every gay man tak part and enjoys anal sex. Many gay men, jt like some straight men and women, aren’t attracted to the ia of anal and do not engage .
This might lead straight people to wonr if a gay person who don’t enjoy anal sex n fully enjoy a sexual experience wh other gay people, and the answer is of urse y, they n. Sexual enjoyment n be experienced many forms, such as oral, and still lead to a satisfyg sex life for a gay man. (Picture: Mmuff for)Referrg to sex the homosexual muny as ‘gay sex’ is ed to differentiate sexual activy between heterosexual and gay people.
CAN A STRAIGHT GUY ETHILLY ACCEPT ORAL SEX OM HIS GAY BUDDY?
This label n perpetuate the sometim damagg ia that gay sex is a somehow foreign or unual activy, but ’s worth notg that to gay people, gay sex is simply jt sex. Gay people enjoy the same timate pleasur sex has to offer and are turned on by the excement and physily wh our sexual partners the same way straight people are. There really is no difference between straight and gay sex bis the fact we are havg sex wh people of the same genr.
THE BIGGT MYTH ABOUT GAY SEX
This might make the whole nversatn about gay sex among straight people seem a lot ls tertg, but ’s the tth. For example, when a “closeted” gay or bisexual man has sex wh another man, he views that sex as reflectg his secret gay/bisexual inty.
IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
A mory of the men I terviewed were homophobic and held prejudice agast LGBTQ2+ people and this prejudice mak the thought of an LGBTQ2+ inty unappealg to them.