Why gay men don’t need femism – Part 1 challengg assumptns – A Voice for Men

Contents:

• KEV MAXEN BE FIRST MALE ACH A US MEN’S PROFSNAL SPORTS LEAGUE TO PUBLICLY E OUT AS GAY
• WHY GAY MEN DON’T NEED FEMISM – PART 1 CHALLENGG ASSUMPTNS
• ESTATE AGENT JAILED FOR VIC ATTACK ON TWO GAY MEN HOLDG HANDS
• JACKSONVILLE JAGUARS ASSISTANT KEV MAXEN BE FIRST MALE ACH MAJOR U.S. PRO LEAGUE TO E OUT AS GAY
• OP-ED: GAY MEN NEED TO BE FEMISTS, TOO
• A BRIEF HISTORY OF LBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL, AND TRANSGENR SOCIAL MOVEMENTS
• #GAYS AGAST FEMISM: BEE GAY PEOPLE ARE NOT FEMIST PROPERTY
• WHY MORE GAY MEN NEED TO CLAIM FEMISM
• GAY MEN AND FEMIST WOMEN THE FIGHT FOR EQUALY
• GAYS AGAST FEMISM: BEE GAY PEOPLE ARE NOT YOUR PROPERTY, FEMISTS
• WHILE STRAIGHT MEN FACE TNAL CRISIS, GAY MEN EXCEL AMILLY, STUDY FDS

KEV MAXEN BE FIRST MALE ACH A US MEN’S PROFSNAL SPORTS LEAGUE TO PUBLICLY E OUT AS GAY

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‘Why Gay Men Don’t Need Femism’ is a four-part seri of articl adapted om a speech that was tend to be prented at the Send Internatnal Conference on Men’s Issu 2015 by the thor, Matthew Lye (a.

WHY GAY MEN DON’T NEED FEMISM – PART 1 CHALLENGG ASSUMPTNS

While there is a large number of gay people, often volved LGBT activism, who – through a batn of fear, polil nvenience or jt pla old ignorance – are ntent to huddle obediently on the attails of femism as stomps s stctive path through our social, polil, legal, tnal and media stutns, there is also a signifint number gay men who are unr no illns about the te nature of femism and are outraged that their own rights movement is so closely, nsistently and publicly associated wh . The goals of femism and the gay rights movement may look intil to Gloria Steem, but to keen observers of what femists actually say and do – as opposed to the thumbnail fn whatever dictnary they sist on wavg the fac of unbelievers3 – their goals and terts uld not possibly be more diametrilly opposed. One would have thought that the fact that femists loathe men to the pot where they will stand back silence whenever one of their own suggts, cullg, extermatg or geilly modifyg the male populatn orr to solve what they ll ‘the man problem’ would have alerted gay men who intify as femists to the fact that femist iology is not their iend.

ESTATE AGENT JAILED FOR VIC ATTACK ON TWO GAY MEN HOLDG HANDS

As LGBT’s ntued public support of femism prov, gay men n be as cluels about the te nature of femism as anyone else, and femists like Gloria Steem are only happy to ensure that they stay that way orr to explo the polil benefs of their allegiance. Apart om Steem’s glib assumptn that femism and gay rights are the same thg, there are three other signifint assumptns about the MHRM that are particularly relevant to the topic of Why Gay Men Don’t Need Femism, and need to be addrsed before movg on to exame how femism bullied gay men to an alliance wh man-hatg bigots who openly spise them.

The fact that femists have gaed such plete ntrol over the polil wg of the gay rights movement – and anizatns like LGBT to attack s iologil opponents, like the MHRM – mak an issue worth addrsg. How on earth did such a eply misandric iology like femism manage to glob onto a human rights movement as heavily populated wh men as the gay rights movement – and why have so many gay men not only tolerated this, but ntue to avidly supported ?

JACKSONVILLE JAGUARS ASSISTANT KEV MAXEN BE FIRST MALE ACH MAJOR U.S. PRO LEAGUE TO E OUT AS GAY

In Part 2: The Takeover, we will go back to when the parase that is femism bullied and manipulated the gay rights movement to playg host, and mand, as still do, that gay men be grateful for . This enterprise has been so succsful, that many gay men today n only nod ignorant agreement when someone like Gloria Steem asserts that femism and gay rights are siblg movements wh plimentary goals. And yet I know his ntug sults agast women are not sgular; attacks are fterg om a wi st of misogynists, om the Llie Moonv type to the “cel” type to the Alabama statehoe is forcg some soul searchg on me — namely nontg the worseng attus toward women next to the rapid-fire gas of gay male liberatn recent years.

People of all genrs who have clared themselv and the moment post-femist have spoken prematurely, jt like those who said the natn is gay man payg attentn uld have felt the war agast women brewg even back durg the Obama years. Femists unrstand how all the rights are nnected, but gay men don’t always though gay men are not engeerg the recent surge of state laws rtrictg reproductive rights, nor mtg the alarmg number of sexual asslts agast women, we are implited the imagistic, mercial and workplace misogyny that is still stranglg women’s advancement. Today’s gay male el should be standg for women: batg sexual asslt; advancg women’s reproductive rights; mandg paid materny leave and support for child re; fendg immigrant women pg domtic vlence and rape; and supportg all those women who are cidly not “post-work, ” but rather reprent nearly two-thirds of the mimum-wage men shouldn’t domate the bate, but neher should we hang back apathy, fatigue or fear of sayg the wrong thg.

Adapted om an Edgar-wng 2021 book also lled “Last Call” by director Anthony Caronna and producer Howard Gertler, what ultimately emerg is an unsttg portra of the vlence done not jt to a gay quartet but to gays, lbians, trans people general.

OP-ED: GAY MEN NEED TO BE FEMISTS, TOO

Where homosexual activy or viance om tablished genr rol/drs was banned by law or tradnal ctom, such nmnatn might be munited through sensatnal public trials, exile, medil warngs, and language om the pulp. However, throughout 150 years of homosexual social movements (roughly om the 1870s to today), lears and anizers stggled to addrs the very different ncerns and inty issu of gay men, women intifyg as lbians, and others intifyg as genr variant or nonbary.

Such eyewns acunts the era before other media were of urse riddled wh the bias of the (often) Wtern or Whe observer, and add to beliefs that homosexual practic were other, foreign, savage, a medil issue, or evince of a lower racial hierarchy.

The European powers enforced their own crimal s agast what was lled sodomy the New World: the first known se of homosexual activy receivg a ath sentence North Ameri occurred 1566, when the Spanish executed a Frenchman Florida. Biblil terpretatn ma illegal for a woman to wear pants or a man to adopt female drs, and sensatnalized public trials warned agast “viants” but also ma such martyrs and hero popular: Joan of Arc is one example, and the chillg origs of the word “faggot” clu a stick of wood ed public burngs of gay men. ” In Wtern history, we fd ltle formal study of what was later lled homosexualy before the 19th century, beyond medil texts intifyg women wh large cloris as “tribas” and severe punishment s for male homosexual acts.

A BRIEF HISTORY OF LBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL, AND TRANSGENR SOCIAL MOVEMENTS

Their wrgs were sympathetic to the ncept of a homosexual or bisexual orientatn occurrg naturally an intifiable segment of humankd, but the wrgs of Krafft-Ebg and Ellis also labeled a “third sex” generate and abnormal.

” German rearcher Magn Hirschfeld went on to gather a broar range of rmatn by foundg Berl’s Instute for Sexual Science, Europe’s bt library archive of materials on gay cultural history.

His efforts, and Germany’s more liberal laws and thrivg gay bar scene between the two World Wars, ntrasted wh the backlash, England, agast gay and lbian wrers such as Osr Wil and Radclyffe Hall. The blu mic of Ain-Amerin women showsed varieti of lbian sire, stggle, and humor; the performanc, along wh male and female drag stars, troduced a gay unrworld to straight patrons durg Prohibn’s fiance of race and sex s speakeasy clubs. This creasg awarens of an existg and vulnerable populatn, upled wh Senator Joseph McCarthy’s vtigatn of homosexuals holdg ernment jobs durg the early 1950s outraged wrers and feral employe whose own liv were shown to be send-class unr the law, cludg Frank Kameny, Barbara Gtgs, Allen Gsberg, and Harry Hay.

#GAYS AGAST FEMISM: BEE GAY PEOPLE ARE NOT FEMIST PROPERTY

Awarens of a burgeong civil rights movement (Mart Luther Kg’s key anizer Bayard Rt was a gay man) led to the first Amerin-based polil mands for fair treatment of gays and lbians mental health, public policy, and employment. Studi such as Aled Ksey’s 1947 Ksey Report suggted a far greater range of homosexual inti and behavrs than prevly unrstood, wh Ksey creatg a “sle” or spectm rangg om plete heterosexual to plete homosexual.

WHY MORE GAY MEN NEED TO CLAIM FEMISM

In 1951, Donald Webster Cory published “The Homosexual Ameri, ” assertg that gay men and lbians were a legimate mory group, and 1953 Evelyn Hooker, PhD, won a grant om the Natnal Instute of Mental Health to study gay men. Throughout the 1950s and 60s, gay men and lbians ntued to be at risk for psychiatric lockup as well as jail, losg jobs, and/or child ctody when urts and clics fed gay love as sick, crimal, or immoral. The turng pot for gay liberatn me on June 28, 1969, when patrons of the popular Stonewall Inn New York’s Greenwich Village fought back agast ongog police raids of their neighborhood bar.

Fstrated wh the male learship of most gay liberatn groups, lbians fluenced by the femist movement of the 1970s formed their own llectiv, rerd labels, mic ftivals, newspapers, bookstor, and publishg ho, and lled for lbian rights mastream femist groups like the Natnal Organizatn for Women. And polil actn explod through the Natnal Gay and Lbian Task Force, the Human Rights Campaign, the electn of openly gay and lbian reprentativ like Elae Noble and Barney Frank, and, 1979, the first march on Washgton for gay rights.

The creasg expansn of a global LGBT rights movement suffered a setback durg the 1980s, as the gay male muny was cimated by the Aids epimic, mands for passn and medil fundg led to renewed alns between men and women as well as angry street theatre by groups like Aids Coaln to Unleash Power (ACT UP) and Queer Natn. In the same era, one wg of the polil gay movement lled for an end to ary expulsn of gay, lbian, and bisexual soldiers, wh the high-profile se of Colonel Margarethe Cammermeyer publicized through a ma-for-televisn movie, “Servg Silence. ” In spe of the patrtism and service of gay men and lbians uniform, the unfortable and unjt promise “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” emerged as an alternative to s of ary wch hunts and dishonorable discharg.

GAY MEN AND FEMIST WOMEN THE FIGHT FOR EQUALY

Durg the last of the 20th century, lns of Amerins watched as actrs Ellen DeGener me out on natnal televisn April 1997, heraldg a new era of gay celebry power and media visibily—although not whout risks.

Wh greater media attentn to gay and lbian civil rights the 1990s, trans and tersex voic began to ga space through works such as Kate Boernste’s “Genr Outlaw” (1994) and “My Genr Workbook” (1998), Ann Fsto-Sterlg’s “Myths of Genr” (1992) and Llie Feberg’s “Transgenr Warrrs” (1998), enhancg shifts women’s and genr studi to bee more clive of transgenr and nonbary inti. The possible reprsn of inty which may have played a role the killer’s choice of target has generated new attentn to the price of homophobia—ternalized, or culturally exprsed— and beyond the Uned Stat.

GAYS AGAST FEMISM: BEE GAY PEOPLE ARE NOT YOUR PROPERTY, FEMISTS

So if you ever wonr why I’m almost pletely immune to hateful femist bigotry and disgtg attempts at shamg, and am 100% fortable the pany of gay, lbian, bi, whatever people, bear md that I remember fully and vividly how rmal vigilante lynchgs were somethg most people would jt look the other way at–if was a gay man. But as a le, was gay men–y, the gay men–who were gettg thrown jail, thrown mental hospals, raped by “fag” bashers (y, that was and is still a thg), sometim even strated, lobotomized, hung, or jt pla beat to ath.

When you watch or read histori of the Stonewall Rts, ’s fascatg to watch how hard they will generally work to move lbians up to the ont of the story, even though was overwhelmgly gay men who were beg most btally persecuted.

Carefully read the -pth stori of how the first Stonewall rt began, and you will disver that at the very begng, at an unrground gay club, durg a police raid a p tried btg a lbian for beg among the other “crimal” homosexuals, and she was somewhat roughed up as they tried to put her to a paddy wagon. And what’s so fascatg about the racism and gay-hate that’s been part of femism for s is that femists and their apologists tomatilly behave as if the were statistil outliers, and therefore “not real femists. Jt as there were people who joed the Nazi Party (y, I jt went there) who didn’t particularly hate Jews, the misandrist assumptns of 1960s and 1970s femism fell jt as much agast gay men as they do today, if not more so.

WHILE STRAIGHT MEN FACE TNAL CRISIS, GAY MEN EXCEL AMILLY, STUDY FDS

It always has been, for is an pable ncln of their “Patriarchy” theory (or their new favore word, “tersectnaly”) that not jt gay men, but black men and brown men and “yellow” men often and routely rape and btalize women, or jt lgh at the btaly and accept –for real and not as dark humor or sarsm or irony. " Stdrick claims that "misogyny is as unavoidable as rbon dxi, " and that gay men mt do more to challenge January 2014, The Aerogram executive edor Roh Guha wrote an article for Jezebel tailg the "dirty secrets of gay male subculture" -- misogyny beg one of them. In a March 2015 post on the blog genr-agenda, Cambridge stunt Martha Perotto-Wills pots to the ia that gay men often feel entled to offer unsoliced cricism of women's clothg or bodi, what she lls "Perez-Hilton-style genred shamg of women's bodi and fashn/life choic.

And January, The Advote's Eliel Cz lled out RuPl's equent e of a trans slur and Andy Cohen's vasive qutng of Nicki Maj's sex life as exampl of how gay men e their sexualy and their cis-ns as an exce to be misogynistic. Mto pots to the Redstockgs, a radil femist group found the same year as the Stonewall Rts, which clared male homosexualy objectnable for s rejectn of, Mto nces that gay male sexism is a problem and that some gay men have trouble takg cricism. As gay men, we may be opprsed by homophobia; but as men, we operate a system that privileg men and mascule genr inti to the disadvantage of women -- regardls of whether they are gay, straight, cis or importantly, we n e our privilege to ll out stanc of misogyny and genr-based bigotry mascule-domated spac.

Conventnal wisdom has offered varied and ntradictory stori: Gay men were misogynistic enemi of femism; femist women were homophobic or androphobic; femist women and gay men llaborated only durg the 1960s-1970s liberatn moment; lbians shed to work wh gay men durg the AIDS crisis. However, their exampl helped give me the nfince to e out as a gay man, to be volved gay activism and art, and to wre popular articl and books explorg sexualy and genr (Stt, 1997, 1999, 2005, 2009). As a gay male scholar of inty and sexualy, as well as a published thor of fictn and popular nonfictn on the topics, and participant var forms of LGBTQ activism, I had enuntered several views on how gay men and femist women have related to one another.