Is Your Dad Gay—or Are You a Gay Dad? | Psychology Today

Contents:

• IT'S NOT JT FROZEN: MOST DISNEY MOVI ARE PRO-GAY
• SO, HOW GAY IS DISNEY’S FROZEN?
• TURNS OUT, BARBIELAND ISN'T AS GAY AS S QUEER FANS HAD HOPED
• THE GAY DAD’S GUI TO USG FROZEN DONOR EGG
• GAY DADS OF TRIPLETS REVEAL THE WILD QUTNS THEY GET: ‘WILL YOU STILL LOVE THEM IF THEY’RE STRAIGHT?’
• ‘A FAY LIKE OURS’: PORTRAS OF GAY FATHERHOOD
• A GAY DAD TAK ON THE <EM>FROZEN</EM>-HATG MORMON GRANDMOTHER
• MOVG PORTRAS OF GAY FATHERS WH THEIR FAI ACROSS AMERI
• IS YOUR DAD GAY—OR ARE YOU A GAY DAD?

IT'S NOT JT FROZEN: MOST DISNEY MOVI ARE PRO-GAY

It's Not Jt Frozen: Most Disney Movi Are Pro-GayBy preachg acceptance and qutng genr, the pany's kids films offer a queer-studi crash urse. Elsa hidg her ice-powers uld be read as a metaphor for the closet, the Osr-wng “Let Go” plays like a g-out anthem, and a character the film evok the qutn of whether homosexualy is a choice by quirg of Elsa’s powers, “born wh or cursed? Through both s rporate practic and the ntent of s films, Disney for s has implemented the so-lled "gay agenda"—which is to say, helpg make the world a more acceptg start the most obv place: As a bs, Disney has long held a progrsive attu toward LGBT people.

Gay pri events have been hosted at Disney World sce 1991, and the pany started offered s gay employe health surance benefs for their partners sce 1995, a cisn that wasn’t entirely popular back of the most poignant exampl of the pany’s tolerant atmosphere is the se of lyricist Howard Ashman, who was openly gay and died of AIDS 1991. In this way, even though Disney films ually offer a tradnal happy endg wh a heterosexual marriage, the journey always volv rejectg parental and societal expectatns, and exercisg a “eedom to marry whomever you love” spir that is enmic to gay, many Disney romanc are exampl of “impossible sire, ” a trope that is ccial to the queer experience, as genr-studi theorist Heather Love argued Feelg Backward. In The Queer Child Kathryn Bond Stockton argu that queerns is not jt about homosexualy, but also about growg abnormal ways that mak the child an outst.

SO, HOW GAY IS DISNEY’S FROZEN?

For now, though, I want to addrs somethg I noted passg my review: the qutn of gay-culture them Frozen. All of this seems to me a) clearly if subtly exprsive of a pro-gay culture at Disney, and b) not that big a al, asmuch as the them are subtle and ambiguo enough not pose eher a signifint annoyance to even savvy parents or a rptg fluence on children.

TURNS OUT, BARBIELAND ISN'T AS GAY AS S QUEER FANS HAD HOPED

(I would not say that of the pro-gay them the lik of Madagasr 2 or the Happy Feet movi; those are a different tegory, and I do object to them. However, there’s another pro-gay element Frozen worth notg that I origally missed: a fleetg but fe suggtn that a mor character has a fay nsistg of a same-sex partner and a bunch of children. Oaken’s gay fay.

THE GAY DAD’S GUI TO USG FROZEN DONOR EGG

Hey, did you notice the gay character? It turns out that giant man “Wanrg Oaken’s Tradg Post and Sna” is probably gay.

It seems plsible the filmmakers have thrown this moment to allow sharp-eyed homophile viewers to draw their own nclns about jt what sort of “fay” this is.

From the perspective of Hollywood filmmakers, while ’s not yet possible for a mastream fay film to have overtly gay characters or them, the heteronormativy of tradnal children’s entertament has been problematized. Gay fai and their alli mt take their nsolatns where they n fd them, and ntent themselv for the most part wh wks and nods, hts and subtexts.

GAY DADS OF TRIPLETS REVEAL THE WILD QUTNS THEY GET: ‘WILL YOU STILL LOVE THEM IF THEY’RE STRAIGHT?’

And yet, this se the filmmakers have walked that le really well: so well that the pro-gay them have gone right over the heads of untls adult Christian viewers, many of whom have embraced Frozen as ronatg powerfully wh Christian them.

Disney+ is velopg a Gay Dads TV Show. ‘Four Dads’ A Seri Centered On A Divorced Gay Couple Comg To Disney+ The DisInsir (@TheDisInsir) January 25, 2019 - Disney's upg streamg service is creatg a new s lled 'Four Dads'. - The show is about Ethan and Sebastian, two gay dads who divorce each other and then separately remarry other partners.

“First of all, I’m gay, ” he said, “and this movie is gog to be gay non. "Alex AvilaAnd Gay Tim, a Brish LGBTQ news se, celebrated Friday, the day of the film’s official release, as “Barbie day“ and lled the world-renowned doll a “queer cultural phenomenon. PicturIn an terview wh Fandango, actor Kate McKnon, who is openly gay and plays “Weird Barbie” the film, said Barbie is about “imagatn.

‘A FAY LIKE OURS’: PORTRAS OF GAY FATHERHOOD

Many also flagged the teased scene which Barbie, now the real world, exchang a longg look wh Ameri Ferrera’s Gloria character; though, the relatnship between the two turns out to be a tribute to motherhood and the tradnal, nuclear before the film’s release, Robbie all but squashed the mors that some or any of the Barbi and Kens would be gay, tellg the Brish LGBTQ magaze Attu: The dolls don’t “actually have sexual orientatns. There are brief appearanc by Earrg Magic Ken and Palm Beach Sugar Daddy Ken, both of which Mattel has always nied were tentnally gay-d.

”As far as the queer-d trailers and promotnal clips for the new “Barbie” film, Rand poted to a phenomenon known as “gay wdow advertisg, ” or the practice of advertisers gturg to queer dienc a way that will go over the heads of those who would disapprove.

And as we turn our attentn toward Pri month — and all that memorat, celebrat, and supports — we’d like to offer some helpful guidance to gay men who are hopg to create or grow their fai.

A GAY DAD TAK ON THE <EM>FROZEN</EM>-HATG MORMON GRANDMOTHER

And for gay men, the procs clus even more nsiratns and cisns. Gay Parents to Be® offers some helpful advice regardg the EggWhy e a donor?

MOVG PORTRAS OF GAY FATHERS WH THEIR FAI ACROSS AMERI

Currently, few surance provirs are verg the expens associated wh gay men g a gtatnal rrier to grow their fai.

Take a moment to learn more about the gay dads’ spirg stori of parenthood that started wh ozen donor eggs … and a lot of and Chris MichaelsDavid and Mark Clark-SallyBurton Buffaloe and Dt Smh Patrick and Carlos DolanThey are all proof that while the road to parenthood for a gay dad may clu a few more twists and turns, wh a ltle planng, and accsg the right rourc, you n still get to where you want to go; you n still create the fay you’ve always dreamed to learn more about g ozen donor eggs to help grow your fay?

IS YOUR DAD GAY—OR ARE YOU A GAY DAD?

Homosexualy is a crime Mlim-majory Malaysia. Rights groups have warned of growg tolerance agast lbian, gay, bisexual and transgenr vios posted on social media late on Friday, Healy was seen kissg bassist Ross MacDonald after cricizg Malaysia’s stance agast homosexualy a profany-lan speech to the ftival dience. Not as easy as looks” was cricised for kissg a male fan at a 2019 ncert the Uned Arab Emirat, which also has laws agast homosexual acts, media reported.

Now a gay uple has shared how their triplets me to be – and the sorts of sensive qutns they get asked about om total strangers.